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Wind. It is invisible until it pushes against something. Or plays on water. Or lifts anything loose on its path. No one ...
10/16/2025

Wind. It is invisible until it pushes against something. Or plays on water. Or lifts anything loose on its path. No one would dare suggest it is not powerful. And yet wind is lacking in identity without resistance.
Recently I have been re-reading Thomas Moore’s book, “Care of the Soul.” He wrote, “We have come to know the soul only in its complaints; when it stirs, disturbed by neglect and abuse, and causes us to feel its pain. . .We can’t just think ourselves through it, because thinking itself is part of the problem. What we need is a way out of dualistic attitudes. We need a third possibility. . .”
Much like the wind, our essence, our core self is exposed inside the struggles that surface, the conflict we find ourselves in, the places where we feel pain. The symptoms we experience like melancholy and disinterest, they point to what has been unattended to, what is long overdue for attention and discovery. We are creatures of meaning.
Inside these early weeks of Fall, listen for the wind. Be gently reminded of what may need re-membering inside you-

The Growing Season. Def: A period of time where the conditions are favorable to support life. Here in North America, agr...
09/21/2025

The Growing Season. Def: A period of time where the conditions are favorable to support life. Here in North America, agriculture is beginning to close its growing season. The harvesters are in the fields bringing in the corn and the garden plots are struggling to bring the final tomatoes to ripening. Cooler evenings remind us that fall is on its way.
But where are you? Are you inside a growing season undefined by hours of sunlight or daytime humidity? Are you meeting a challenge with a new strategy and a new understanding of what was missing before? Are you expanding your heart? Or, if you were honest, has it felt more like a period of dormancy and winter? Has the challenge in front of you been met with a stiffening or a rigidity? Do you feel stuck?
The invitation is very real and present. Nature is on full display of what can come at the end of a growing season-

Savor. September affords us endless opportunities to practice savor. And our five senses: Sight, Sound, Smell, Taste and...
09/04/2025

Savor. September affords us endless opportunities to practice savor. And our five senses: Sight, Sound, Smell, Taste and Touch can lead the way. I recently read Gretchen Rubin’s book, “Life in Five Senses” and it captured her quest to live each day drenched in what her senses could magnify and bring into focus. As she traveled each day with greater sensitivity to what her five senses could observe or collect, she discovered a different kind of vitality or richness to her days.
The five senses have also been identified as a means to bring us back to the present moment and help us zoom in on just where we are when our minds want to travel either back to the past or much forward into an uncertain future. Stopping right where you are, right now and collecting 5 Sights, 4 Sounds, 3 Smells, 2 Tastes and 1 Touch can bring you back to center and help abbreviate an anxious moment.
I challenge you to engage this wonderful capacity we have to take in the world around us and be comforted by it.

Do you find yourself in the gaps?  Inside of every transitional moment is a gap. It is that space between what was and w...
08/24/2025

Do you find yourself in the gaps? Inside of every transitional moment is a gap. It is that space between what was and what may be or what is on the way. It is a threshold of sorts, a gateway but it can be of indeterminate length. I can hear it in the questions that fill the room in session, “Should I stay in this relationship? Should I take this job? Should I look deeper or harder or more critically at this memory, or this experience or this feeling I have?” These are beautiful places of discovery and exploration but they are also exhausting places of wait and uncertainty.
What used to be predictable even if it was painful now looks different or feels different in disorienting ways. These intermediate places inside big changes can be the hardest part of the change itself. We stand inside the gaps waiting on the fullness of the change we are seeking-

August brings the maturity of tomatoes hanging heavy on the vine. Their round, fat, juicy goodness has been building sin...
08/06/2025

August brings the maturity of tomatoes hanging heavy on the vine. Their round, fat, juicy goodness has been building since early May and in many ways in those long winter days many moons before, where the seed was just giving way to a plant. All the possibility of that tomato emerging at summer’s end was present inside that fledgling seed. It lacked nothing. The environment did the rest- providing soil, water and sunlight to engage all the components that were already vetted inside that tiny cartilage of a seed.
We forget that we are made this way too. Resilience is built in. Capacity is built in too. The bandwidth to think with different eyes or try new experiences- also built in. We lack nothing. It just takes a fair amount of engagement to draw these things together and draw them out of us- to grow. And remember, as a wise person once said, “The day you plant the seed, is not the day you eat the fruit.” The landscape of the heart is a ready garden.

The butterfly effect is a scientific concept developed by Edward Lorenz. He studied weather data and determined that a s...
07/21/2025

The butterfly effect is a scientific concept developed by Edward Lorenz. He studied weather data and determined that a small condition change can produce a significant change in weather outcomes. This concept became known as “The Butterfly Effect” suggesting that something as small as a butterfly’s wings flapping could reshape weather patterns.
In a couple weeks, we will begin to see Monarch butterflies here in Central Illinois passing through on their 3,000 mile migration to Mexico. Their tiny and delicate stature makes such a feat seemingly impossible. It takes 3 generations of butterflies to make that passage but even still, it is astounding.
As you come across them, on a walk to work or being outside exercising or gathering with friends, be reminded that something that small can alter weather systems. We don’t have to move mountains in our lives to see change. We can make tiny improvements that guide us into new territories of course altering outcomes.

Freedom-  it has become an anecdotal word in our North American culture. But it is made of bedrock. What is it after all...
07/07/2025

Freedom- it has become an anecdotal word in our North American culture. But it is made of bedrock. What is it after all? In psychological terms it is the ability to pivot, to choose change, to alter one’s position. It is not forged in times that are vacant of adversity or trial, rather it is proven in them. Freedom is the choice in the response. It is movement within a particularly hard process. It is the very active element inside the elasticity that we talk about in therapy. Freedom to change.
Life experiences including trauma and shame can lead to places of calcification. These are places where our responses seem frozen or fixed. Perhaps they feel inside an endless loop of disappointment, distance and retreat. Freedom comes knocking and offers a new perspective. Response to adversity can take a different shape; it can be altered, healed, reconstructed. Freedom to develop new patterns of thought and behavior. Freedom to try again. . .over and over again, like growing a new muscle.
Where are you today? Do you want to learn more about how freedom opens places in your life that have felt closed and shut down? Reach out today and begin that journey-

We are all at mid-year. Good time to check in on your peace. How are you doing?  Are you at peace with yourself?  Etty H...
06/24/2025

We are all at mid-year. Good time to check in on your peace. How are you doing? Are you at peace with yourself? Etty Hillesum, a Dutch survivor of a concentration camp in 1943, is quoted as saying, “Ultimately we have just one moral duty: to reclaim large areas of peace within ourselves.” How is that going? And have you begun the permission process in that claim? Seems like most of us try to get there from the outside in. We try to order and re-order outside circumstances hoping that will deliver the peace we crave. . . But Etty invites us to think differently. She asks us to restore our peace within ourselves.
How? I believe some of the how is inside Mahatma Gandhi’s reflection: “Peace is not the absence of conflict but the ability to cope with it.” Part of restoring peace within ourselves is about distress tolerance; it is about returning to a state of elasticity- where we bounce back from stressful events and circumstances and come back to a place of center or calm. Permission comes in the form of recognizing that we first have a relationship with ourselves prior to and previous to any other relationship we are engaged in. Go there first and then discover that the peace you carry is contagious.

“There is no place so awake and alive as the edge of becoming.”  Sue Monk KiddI am often asked in session, “How do I hea...
06/04/2025

“There is no place so awake and alive as the edge of becoming.” Sue Monk Kidd
I am often asked in session, “How do I heal?” And the answer is a challenging one; it involves being open. The challenge of being “fully alive” as Sue said is about accepting that both good things and devastatingly difficult things will come our way.
Brene’ Brown in her book, “Atlas of the Heart,” wrote, “It takes alot of courage to show up and be all in when we cannot control the outcome.” This is where healing has its way- in acceptance that we never controlled the outcome anyway. But we can control how we respond to it.

Grief can leave us fisted, swollen and isolated from others. As Donna Ritz, LCSW was quoted as saying, “We talk about (g...
05/11/2025

Grief can leave us fisted, swollen and isolated from others. As Donna Ritz, LCSW was quoted as saying, “We talk about (grief) like it is water.” Universal. Known. Describable. But grief is completely individualized; it is experienced on a very personal level. How grief gets processed and lived out is unique to each of us. It can take many forms. It can measure in different intensities from day to day. It can wash over us in unpredictable ways, provoked by everyday things like a song, of a photo, or an encounter. We can be overcome by tears or anger or feel like withdrawing from activities. It is the manifestation of “something isn’t right here” or “this shouldn’t be true.” It can feel like a lonesome ache, a carried anguish, a deep longing to be restored.
Francis Weller wrote, “These seasons in our lives are intense and require a prolonged time to honor what the soul needs- to fully digest the grief. To be human is to know loss in its many forms.” Grief is best carried in relationship. We are not meant to carry it alone. Reach out to someone near you that you can trust and open there in relationship your most tender places of sorrow and allow yourself to become un-fisted. Together we can soothe each other’s pain and heartache.

What are the stories that expand you?How often do we recite, repeat or rehearse the stories that shrink us or others?  L...
04/20/2025

What are the stories that expand you?
How often do we recite, repeat or rehearse the stories that shrink us or others? Listen deeply to the narratives that you recycle. Are they carving a path in your mind toward creativity and expansiveness? Or are they focused on the limiting in yourself or others? Do they have hope and possibility built into them? Or are they banking on the collapse, the demise, or the intolerable?
This month we are encouraged to observe Earth Day. A day focused on believing that the best is still possible for this planet and that our behavior can bring healing and change to a nature system that is interdependent on us and our practices. Recycling is imperative to manage waste. And the same applies to our inner lives as well. What we think about and focus on matters. It has the ability to be life giving and renewing or holds the terms of our discouragement and our sense of defeat.
Consider today some of the well-beaten paths of your thinking. Challenge yourself to look at some of those narratives. And choose to turn over new ground.
Concepts lifted from, “Healing Your Map” by Jodee Gibson, MA (p.87)

As we climb deeper into the Spring season here in the Midwest, we begin to see the trees open in their first bloom. All ...
04/04/2025

As we climb deeper into the Spring season here in the Midwest, we begin to see the trees open in their first bloom. All of a sudden what looked empty and vacant, maybe even skeletal, looks full and vibrant- it creates a different vision of parks and neighborhoods; it creates dimension.
Hedges, Treelines, Groves, Landscapes- these are all forms of boundaries. They define spaces. They create helpful barriers. They set up places of entry and exit. Good boundaries are important in the human sphere as well. Good boundaries afford us ways to love well. Prents Hemphill in her book, “What It Takes To Heal,” writes, “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Her vision of why boundaries are important point to the protective measures of good boundaries. They act as place cards on where someone else ends and you begin.
The struggle to set up good boundaries and the challenge of respecting other people’s boundaries mark a lot of our relationship conflicts. If you are struggling with the idea of boundaries or recovering from violations to the boundaries you have tried to set, it may be important to take a closer look at those patterns and find new ways to establish those much needed places of personal safe-keeping.

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