11/27/2025
We’re living in an age of infinite distraction—news alerts, DMs, scrolling, algorithms pulling at our minds 24/7. The human attention span has dropped to about 7 seconds, the same as a goldfish. Seven seconds before the mind wanders. Seven seconds before we drift.
That’s why the most valuable asset we have today isn’t money, status, or things…
It’s our attention.
Attention is presence.
Attention is connection.
Attention is love.
When we offer someone our full attention—no phone, no rush, no half-listening—we’re offering them something rare in today’s world: our presence. Our humanity. Our care.
In a culture engineered to steal your focus, choosing to pay attention is a revolutionary act. And who you give that attention to shapes your relationships, your happiness, and your life.
Attention is the new currency of love.
Spend it wisely.
Sources:
Waldinger & Schulz, The Good Life (2023);
Harvard Study of Adult Development;
Turkle, Reclaiming Conversation (2015);
Killingsworth & Gilbert, “A Wandering Mind Is an Unhappy Mind,” Science (2010).