08/11/2025
Ken and Helen Elsey are our spotlight for August. Ken was born in Brigham City, Utah, and raised in Salt Lake City, where he spent his youth and early married life. The younger of two brothers, Ken grew up close to his older sibling, though their personalities were very different. Ken loved basketball and could often be found playing with friends at the church. Music was also a big part of his life; he plays both the piano and the ukulele.
Helen was born and raised in the small town of Fountain Green, Utah. She was the youngest of five children, very close to her sister Shirley, and lovingly protected by her brothers. Her father passed away when she was only 16, a loss that shaped her early years. After high school, Helen pursued cosmetology and always carried a talent for creativity and beauty. She also plays the piano and later discovered a passion for crafting, sewing, flower arranging, and ceramic doll making—her delicate dolls from the 1980s still decorate their home.
Their paths crossed in Sunday School, not long after Ken returned from his mission in Australia. The connection was instant, and their love story began. They were married on August 18, 1961, and built a life filled with shared adventures. Together, they enjoyed dinners out, the theater, and trips to Maui together.
Ken graduated from the University of Utah and later completed courses at Stanford University. He worked as an electrical engineer, eventually retiring after a successful career. His love for woodworking and fixing things around the house became his hobbies in retirement. Helen, meanwhile, shared her talents through crafts and made their home a warm, inviting place.
Together, they raised two children, Kim (who now lives in Moraga, California) and Tami (who lives in Mesa, Arizona). Their home was full of love, laughter, and traditions. As a family, they enjoyed movie nights, amusement parks, and summer road trips to visit cousins. Christmas was always a highlight—Helen went all out with baking, music, and carefully chosen gifts, making it a magical time for everyone.
Their travels took them to Europe several times, including to visit Helen’s sister shortly after Kim was born, as well as trips to London and Hong Kong. The Sound of Music remains a family favorite, a fitting soundtrack to their life filled with harmony and togetherness.
Helen’s favorite color is pink—so much so that it became a signature in their home. Ken lovingly went along with it. They both enjoy Italian food, with Olive Garden being an all-time favorite.
Life hasn’t been without its challenges. In 1993, Helen was diagnosed with stomach cancer. It was one of the hardest times they faced, but with courage, faith, and the support of family, Helen survived—a testament to her strength and determination.
With four grandchildren and six great-grandchildren, their legacy continues to grow. Friends and family alike know Ken and Helen for their warm, welcoming nature. They have a gift for making everyone feel accepted and loved.
Just this past month, Helen was asked to participate in the Lamb’s Day Parade to celebrate her days as Miss Fountain Green in 1957.
A lesson they have learned in life is to live a life of gratitude and to love people just as they are.
After writing this spotlight Helen passed away. We will miss her beautiful smile, and are grateful we had a chance to know her. We send our condolences to Ken and the rest of the family.
