03/30/2020
Loss is hard and we’ve all lost something during this time. Let us know if you need to talk.
Lets talk about disappointment.
Ambiguous loss is a term referring to undefined loss. The loss of an experience, the loss of the psychological presence of a loved one, and a missing loved one. These are all examples of ambiguous loss.
This might not be the ending you expected to your college or high school experience, you may have just had to reschedule your wedding, a day you have been planning and dreaming about for years, you might have missed out on special family time, or seeing a friend you haven’t seen in years. I’m sure you have lost certain experiences, and it is incredibly disappointing. You are certainly allowed to grieve! You are not overreacting, you do not need to “just get over it”, and yes, you can still be thankful for what you have while you are missing what you lost.
All emotions are allowed, especially in this chaotic and unknown season.
If you need help navigating through your grief, or just need someone to listen to you, please reach out! We are still here for you and are offering online counseling.