12/15/2025
WHERE DOES IT HURT?
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When I was 6 years old, I fell in love with my mother’s uncle from New York, Will Sockett. He came barging into our house, smoking a big cigar; he was larger-than-life, like a Dickens character. They say that a doctor once asked my uncle where he was hurting—what was wrong. Will replied, “You’re the doctor, you tell me.”
In doctor shows on TV, we notice that the medical team makes 3 or 4 misdiagnoses, before they finally find the true source of an illness. Likewise, most people miss the target, when they aim to find the real root of human misery. But our Happy Little Critters Band (HLCB) claims to have discovered the genesis of all human ills: simply, all real human agony stems from minds that compulsively think that they must CONTROL.
Of course, problems and obstacles arise from all kinds of factors beyond our CONTROL. But the real misery comes from our own “masterminds” being driven to engage in life-or-death struggles to maintain our BELONGING, amid a universe we’re convinced is hell-bent on SEPARATION.
The HLCB never has to fight life-or-death battles, because we believe that we already BELONG, as parts of the ONE ORGANISM (God)—the only life that exists. Since that God Life is eternal, we are eternal—there is no death. God always has had a Trinity of “Persons,” and each of us has a “person” who (when human life ends) is drawn by God to join the eternal Triune “Persons” in sharing everything.
Meanwhile, on Earth, we are intimately connected and constantly evolving, rising into new forms that are totally good and marvelous. Think of a kaleidoscope. As it turns, every nudge creates new and beautiful patterns—each unique. Yet, not a single colored particle is added to—or lost from—the cylinder. Once minds SURRENDER to the reality of our cosmic ONENESS (a totally self-contained organism), there’s no agony.
We human forms of life are temporary and have no other purpose than learning how to be happy together, right here and now. We accept our limitations and failures as parts of our “growing pains.” As our immature “masterminds” surrender, our minds become servants, actively searching for new opportunities and better methods for forming healthy INTIMACY with everyone and everything.
My friend Dan was born with severe cerebral palsy. Neither he nor anyone else could change that condition. But Dan had an active, clever and humorous mind that did its best to avoid envy or self-pity. In my very first meeting with Dan, he (literally) spelled out for me that his mission was to bridge the gap between disabled and able-bodied people. (Overcoming what appears to be SEPARATION is all humans need to be happy.)
Dan accomplished his goal by putting himself in the midst of able-bodied people—“forcing” them to deal with him. Unable to travel on his own, Dan would get one his friends, whom he wryly called his “lackeys,” to take him to a meeting. The more meetings he attended, the more “lackeys” he attracted.
Believing in the ONE ORGANISM is the great equalizer. It rids our conscious minds of our desperate need to CONTROL. No longer does the delusion that there’s not enough food, space, clothing, shelter or intimacy drive us. The only reason we have a scarcity of any necessity is because we think we are SEPARATE, so we hoard and CONTROL.
When we no longer believe in SEPARATENESS, “good and evil”, we can relax and enjoy the discovery of INTIMACY. Our conscious minds, at least, become havens of sanity amid the “growing pains” of humanity. The HLCB (or the Good News of Jesus) has the perfect “medicine” for all our woes.
© 2025 Rev. John Vogler [HappyLittleCrittersBand.com]