12/21/2024
Winter Solstice is here—the longest, darkest day of the year. Also, a reminder that despite all of the holiday hustle and bustle, we are in resting and reflection season, my friends.
I’ve heard a lot this past week, from people feeling guilty for a lack of holly and jolly, merry and bright, twinkle and jingle. Instead, they're feeling an inclination toward stillness, hibernation, and sleep. My response? “Of COURSE!”, and then, a quick list of all the reasons why there may be a little less glee and more… Clark Griswold:
It's cold.
It’s dark.
Everything is so damn expensive.
We’re still recovering from one of the most polarizing elections in history (“recovering” might be strong…).
Wasn’t it JUST Thanksgiving?!
Didn’t we JUST DO the forced family time?!
We. Are. TIRED.
Also, did I mention it’s resting season? The creatures are hibernating. So are the trees. Why aren’t we? [Fill in every obligation here]
Listen, I’m just here to say, that it is OKAY if you’re not feeling it this year! It’s okay if you are feeling slow, feeling quiet, or feeling introverted. Part of resting season, and a focus of winter solstice, is quiet reflection and introspection. Instead of criticizing yourself for doing the holidays the “wrong way”, take some minutes, lean into yourself, and listen. What do you hear? What do you need? Can you find a way to honor that? Even if for just a few minutes…
If you’re feeling down, feeling sad, grieving—so many are—know you’re not alone. This season, the darkness, the holidays, bring up SO much, for so many. Take a breath, lean in, listen: Are there moments of joy? Even one? Is there a speck of light?
Find your heart, hold it in your hands; find your breath, feel it in your toes.
Take a breath.
Lean in.
Listen.
Rest.
There is sunshine on the other side; I promise.
❤️