03/18/2026
Gross is often sold as a "glow-up" but let's be honest. Sometimes it feels like a breakdown.
Healing requires us to grieve the versions of ourselves that kept us safe for so long, even when the versions that used coping mechanisms we no longer needed. It's uncomfortable to outgrow your old skin. It's quiet, it's heavy, and it's brave.
If you are in the middle space right now, where the old you is gone but the new you hasn't quite arrived yet, take a breath. You are not lost. You are transforming.