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We specialize in many types of funeral services and offer flexible and competitive pricing. The Nicholas F. Cognetta, Sr. and Naida E.

In addition to wakes, memorial and traditional services, we are the only funeral home in Fairfield County with an onsite crematory. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory of Stamford, CT, has seen many changes since May 15, 1953, when Nicholas F. Cognetta opened their doors for the first time. Today, amidst all of the large funeral home conglomerates, we remain a family-owned and operated funeral home and crematory. When you call or visit our funeral home, you will find a member of the Cognetta family. Our funeral directors will help you create a ceremony that is meaningful and fully affordable for you and your family. Whether burial and/or cremation, our staff can take care of all the arrangements, relieving you of all unnecessary burdens. We'll always be here for you.

12/19/2025

Elizabeth "Betty" Victory

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12/18/2025

Anna Marie Carlucci

Anna Marie Carlucci, a resident of Southport and a beloved wife, mother, sister and daughter, passed away at St. Vincent's Medical Center on the morning of Wednesday, December 17, 2025. She was born in Stamford, CT on December 29, 1963 and was a child born to the late John and Dorothy (Conti) Rotelli. Anna Marie was 61 at the time of her passing. Besides her parents, Anna Marie is predeceased by her loving husband of 34 years, Peter Carlucci.

Anna Marie graduated from West Hill High School in 1982. She will be remembered as a devoted wife and mother, who always brought goodness into the world and gave a helping hand to those in need. She lit up any room she was in with a radiant smile, vibrant laugh, grace, and loving demeanor. She was ever calm and serene in her Catholic faith. She was the glue of the family, hosted countless holidays, continued family traditions and ensured family was a core value. She took immense pride in everything she did, especially as a loving wife and nurturing mother. She always modeled exemplary characteristics such as patience, thoughtfulness, hard work ethic, inclusiveness, and reliability. She enjoyed helping others as demonstrated when working as a; Pre-School teacher, Assistant Manager and a legal administrative assistant. Most recently, she was employed by Willinger, Willinger & Bucci. She enjoyed spending time outdoors by the pool, gardening, cooking, baking, and taking weekend trips to the casino.

Anna Marie is survived by her loving sons, Anthony and his wife Antonia, Christopher Carlucci, her sister Connie Alaimo, her brothers: John Rotelli (Jennifer), Louis Rotelli (Allison) and Joseph Rotelli, brother-in-law Leo Alaimo and sister-in-law Carolyn Rotelli; her nieces, cousins, and many friends.

She will be dearly missed by her family, friends and most of all, her children.

A funeral procession will leave the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT on Monday, December 22, 2025 at 9:45 AM and proceed to St. Anthony of Padua, 149 S Pine Creek Rd, Fairfield, CT for a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 10:30 AM. Interment will follow at Oak Lawn Cemetery & Arboretum, Bronson Road, Fairfield. Family and friends may call at the funeral home on Sunday, December 21, 2025 from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM.

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12/11/2025

Grace Curto Roman

Grace Roman, 82, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away with her family by her side on December 9, 2025.

Grace was born in Stamford, CT on May 3, 1943 to the late Sam and Rosalie (Piscionieri) Curto. She graduated from Stamford High School in 1961.

Grace is survived by her husband, Orestes (of Shelton, CT); son Thomas, Daughter-In-Law Susan & Grandchildren Matthew, Samuel, and Raeanne (of Stamford, CT); Son Todd, Daughter-in-law Courtney and Grandson Hudson (of Shelburne, VT); and Daughter Gina.

Grace: (noun) - simple beauty of movement or form.

Grace was the centerpiece of her family and friends. Her vibrancy, laughter, and love filled any room she entered. To know Grace was to be loved and embraced, enough to last a lifetime.

In Grace’s later years she and Orestes relocated to Shelton, CT. Grace’s grandchildren spent many weekends at her house where she would always have "Grammy's soup" waiting as well as endless arts & crafts and cookies to bake. Visits to Grammy’s also called for "Just because" trips to Walmart for a toy, CD, or new pajamas.

Grace loved spending time with her friends, also known as her posse. Wednesdays were reserved for the girls whether a trip to TJ Maxx, coffee or a game of Dominos. Grace loved to open her home and cook dinner for any of her grandchildren's friends. It didn't matter two or 10 friends- and they all left with a new Grammy.

She took pride and full advantage of her creative abilities. Grace painted anything in sight, and I mean anything. Her painting skills beloved by all and enjoyed gifted them to family and friends. Four cups of coffee and she was painting the crown molding on the living room ceiling while vacuuming the carpets.

There was never a Christmas where her house wasn’t decorated to the finest detail and many homemade crafts.

Grace was a lover of all animals and pets whether her frogs, bunnies, dogs and cats, as well as her Grandpets and any wandering neighborhood pet that found their way to her. Although Todd moved to Vermont, that did not slow Grammy down. She was always on the go and present for her youngest grandson, Hudson. Every September, Grace and Orestes took their convertible to Oguniquit, Maine. This is where they would enjoy some peace and quiet, cruising with the top down, and take in the scenery that they both adored, the lighthouses, wildflowers, and the ocean views.

Visitation will be held on Monday, December 15th from 4PM to 7PM at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT. Her family will also host a committal service at the graveside at St. John’s Cemetery, 25 Camp Ave., in Darien at 11AM on Tuesday, December 16, 2025.

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12/10/2025

Marguerite Maynard Weberg

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12/09/2025

Theodora A. Burtis

It is with great sadness that the family of Theodora (Teddi) A. Burtis, 82, of Seymour, announces her passing at home, peacefully and surrounded by her loved ones, on December 8, 2025. Born in Stamford, Connecticut on May 16, 1943, she was the daughter of the late Mae and Theodore Coppola. Teddi was a graduate of J.M. Wright Technical School, where she completed her certification in Cosmetology and worked for many years at Vincent Richards and Creations by Kathleen Salon. She dedicated her life to her family and cherished her role as a mother, grandmother, and friend. Teddi is survived by her children; Valoree Duquette of Fort Mill, SC, David W. Burtis III of Seymour, and Andrea Velez of Stamford. She is also survived by her daughter in-law, Janaye Burtis, and sons in-law Scott Duquette and Esteban Velez, as well as her beloved six grandchildren: Alexandrea Velez, David W. Burtis IV, Ryan Burtis, Grayson Duquette, Nora Duquette, and Nicholas Duquette. Teddi was predeceased by her husband, David W. Burtis Jr. and grandson Esteban Velez Jr. Calling hours will be held at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, from 8:30 AM to 10:30 AM, followed by a mass of Christian burial at 11 AM at Sacred Heart Roman Catholic Church, 37 Schuyler Avenue, in Stamford. Interment will follow at Lakeview Cemetery, New Canaan.

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12/08/2025

Arlene Ann Dahlgren

Arlene Ann Dahlgren, a beloved wife, mother, and grandmother passed away peacefully on December 6, 2025, at The Residence at Summer Street. Born June 20, 1938, in Brooklyn, NY, to the late George and Helen (Needham) Pierce, Arlene was known for her kindness and generous spirit, touching the lives of all who had the privilege to know her.

Arlene dedicated her career to helping others as a medical assistant, working diligently for both Doctors Littlejohn and Andriani in Stamford until her retirement. A survivor of breast cancer, Arlene found her true purpose and fulfillment in her volunteering at the Bennett Cancer Center, where she offered her time and uplifting spirit to those in need of support. This long-standing commitment brought her much joy and was considered one of her proudest accomplishments.

Arlene is survived by her beloved husband, Donald J. Dahlgren, who was by her side through life's many journeys. She also leaves behind her cherished daughter, Erin A. Meyer, and son-in-law, Jeff; her beloved grandchildren, Lauren and Michael; and her dear sister, Carol A. Hurley.

Family and friends are invited to offer their condolences during the visitation to be held on December 11, 2025, from 8:30 AM to 9:30 AM at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home, located at 104 Myrtle Ave, Stamford, CT. A mass of Christian burial will follow at St. Maurice RC Church, located at 358 Glenbrook Road, Stamford, CT 06906, starting at 10:00 AM. The interment will take place at Queen of Peace Cemetery in Stamford following mass.

Arlene will be profoundly missed by her family and by all who knew her. Her legacy of love, resilience, and generosity will live on in the hearts of those she touched.

The family would like to express sincere thanks to the staff at The Residence at Summer Street for the kindness shown to Arlene and for their compassionate care.

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12/05/2025

Helen C. McKenna

Helen C. McKenna, 91, of Stamford, passed away peacefully on December 3, 2025 surrounded by her loving family. Helen was born in Boston, MA on October 8, 1934 to the late George and Helen Spry Carney.

Helen was raised in Boston living in Mattapan, Roslindale, Winthrop MA, Jamaica Plain and finally Canton MA after she was married. She moved to Stamford CT in 1969 and continued to live there for the rest of her life. She worked at Stamford Hospital for 31 years until she retired at the age of 75. Helen was affectionately known as "Nana" and cherished her time with her family (especially her grandchildren) and friends.

Helen is survived by her son Kenneth C. McKenna and wife Frances as well as her two beloved grandchildren; Melissa Swayze and Calum McKenna as well as numerous nieces, nephews and friends.

Besides her parents, Helen is predeceased by her husband Kenneth F. McKenna, her brother George Carney, and sister-in-law Shirley Carney.

The family would like to thank the staff at the Villa At Stamford and Stamford Hospital for the wonderful care she received in her final days.

Family and friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT on Monday, December 8, 2025 from 3:00 to 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, December 10, 2025 at 11:00 AM at St. Thomas Aquinas Parish, 97 South St, Boston, MA. Interment will follow at Forest Hills Cemetery, 95 Forest Hills Avenue, Boston, MA.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Helen’s memory to Tunnel to Towers Foundation, 2361 Hylan Blvd, Staten Island, NY 10306 or online at //dogood.t2t.org/give.

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12/02/2025

Catherine J. Leary

Catherine J. Leary, 88, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on November 28, 2025.

Catherine was born on June 21, 1937 in Jamaica, NY, to the late Hermann and Anna Brede. She was raised in Laurelton, NY, where she met the love of her life, Denis J. Leary. Catherine and Denis had four sons, all born in Queens, NY. In the mid-1960s, they moved their family to Wappingers Falls, NY, so that Denis could pursue his career at IBM, and they could build a loving home in the Hudson Valley. Catherine spent most of her life in Wappingers Falls.

Catherine was predeceased by her husband, Denis, her sons Denis and Bill, her brother-in-law Peter Olive, and her sister-in-law Catherine Leary. She is survived by her sons Jim (Pauline) and Rich (Sharon); cherished grandsons Denis (Kayla), Michael, James, and Thomas; and her dear sister Anne Olive. Catherine also leaves behind her niece Christina Caputo (Frank), nephew Raymond Olive (Dorene), grand-nephews Logan, Frankie, and Matthew, and grand-niece Olivia, all of whom she adored.

Catherine was a lifelong sports fan, and her favorite pastime was watching her sons, grandsons, grandnephews and grandniece play ball. She also enjoyed doing crossword puzzles and was an avid bowler. She lived a life filled with love, laughter, and simple joys. She brought warmth and humor to every gathering and will be sorely missed by all that were privileged to know her.

A celebration of Catherine’s life will take place on Friday, December 19, 2025, from 2-4 pm at Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT. Her family will also host a graveside service at St. Mary’s Cemetery, 19 Clinton Street, Wappingers Falls, NY, at noon on Monday, December 22, 2025, where she will be buried with her husband, Denis. Friends are invited to join her family as they celebrate Catherine’s life at either event.

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12/01/2025

Katherine M. Gorman

Katherine (Katie) Mazzola Gorman went to her eternal home on November 22, 2025 in Fort Myers, Florida, at the incredible age of 105. She was born on October 20, 1920 in Mount Kisco, New York to the late John and Veronica (Lena) Mazzola.

Her parents always stressed the importance of education, and, as a result, Katie earned a Bachelors of Science in Physical Education from East Stroudsburg University in Pennsylvania and a Masters in Education from Columbia University in New York City.

Katie passionately taught for 40 years in the Stamford, Connecticut school system as a Physical Education Teacher and Guidance Counselor. She touched the lives of many students throughout her career.

She married James Gorman in Stamford, Connecticut in 1949. They had two children, Patricia (Patty) and James (Jim). Katie was the daughter of Italian immigrants, and James the son of Irish immigrants, so she learned how to cook Irish food. Every year, she would make Irish Soda Bread for Saint Patrick' s Day and distribute over 100 loaves to her friends and family.

Katie and James retired to Bonita Springs, Florida in 1995 and lived at Worthington Country Club. She played golf and was an active card player. Being a former physical education teacher, she enjoyed watching all sports and never missed a tennis or golf match on TV. She was known by friends and family as an exuberant, independent, and caring woman.

Starting on her 90th birthday, Katie threw big birthday celebrations every year with a full house. On her 100th birthday, due to Covid restrictions, a birthday party was out of the question. Instead, however, an outside parade was put on in her honor and attended by many. She deeply loved everyone and was loved by everyone!

Katie was preceded in death by her husband of 57 years, James Gorman; sister, RaeTurturro; and daughter, Patricia Gorman.

Her memory lives on with her brothers, Joe Mazzola and Frank Mazzola; sister-in-law, Dee Mazzola; son, James Gorman and wife, Dana Gorman; grandson, Cole Gorman and wife, Ashley Gorman; granddaughter, Alyssa Gorman; and two great grandchildren, Charleston and Raleigh Gorman.

Katie will be remembered and honored by friends and family on Friday, December 5, 2025. There will be a private family burial followed by a 10 o’clock mass at Our Lady Star of the Sea in Stamford, 1220 Shippan Avenue, Stamford, Connecticut.

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11/29/2025

Ann Farrell

Lorraine Farrell, as she was affectionately known to her family and friends, passed away peacefully at her residence in Stamford on November 25, 2025 at the age of 90. Born on December 21, 1934, in Stamford, Connecticut, she was the cherished daughter of the late George and Loretta Murphy Farrell and the youngest of five sisters.

Throughout her life, Ann was a beacon of love and support for her family, lovingly known as "Aunt Lorraine" to her 17 surviving nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her four beloved sisters and their husbands: Elizabeth "Betty" Brown (Bill), Alice DeFrancesco (Aldo), Mary Lou Kerr (Matthew), and Dorothy Nestor (James). The bonds she shared with her sisters were strong and deep-rooted, reflecting the love they had for one another throughout their lives.

Lorraine grew up on Hill Street in Stamford, where she created countless memories with her family. Following her schooling, she attended secretarial school and forged a successful career as an Executive Secretary and later as a paralegal at Champion International. Her professional journey was marked by dedication and hard work, traits that she carried through in her personal life as well.

Those who knew Lorraine would describe her as someone who led an active lifestyle. She was an enthusiastic member of the "Ski Bears" ski club of Norwalk, and her adventurous spirit took her skiing on slopes around the world. She was passionate about travel as she loved exploring new destinations. Lorraine was also a faithful parishioner of St. Mary R.C. Church in Stamford. Even in her retirement years, Lorraine remained very active, participating regularly in water aerobics classes at the Tully Center.

A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, December 3, 2025, at St. Maurice Church, located at 358 Glenbrook Road, Stamford, CT, beginning at 10:00 AM. Following the mass, she will be laid to rest at St. John Cemetery in Darien, CT.

Lorrain's legacy of kindness, love, and spirit will continue to resonate with her family and friends. She will be missed, but her memory will remain in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.

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11/28/2025

Ann Marie Greco

Ann Marie Greco, passed away peacefully at the blessed age of 99 on Tuesday, November 25, 2025. Ann was born on November 1, 1925, in Port Chester, New York, Daughter of the late William and Maire Bracciale Bologno.

A proud 1945 graduate of Port Chester High School, Ann initially explored cosmetology but soon followed her heart to her true vocation: nurturing the next generation. She poured her love into the community as a reading paraprofessional in Port Chester elementary schools for over 40 years, where her patience and kindness left an indelible mark on countless children. Her life was anchored by unwavering faith as a longtime parishioner of Sacred Heart Church and a member of the Columbiettes. A devout Catholic, she never missed Mass, attending faithfully in person for as long as she could and remaining spiritually connected through television in her later years.

Ann’s hands were rarely still, as she was constantly creating beauty for those she loved. She was an artist at heart, meticulously building ceramic Christmas trees that have now become cherished family heirlooms, and her kitchen served as the joyful heart of every holiday. Her family will forever miss the aroma of her famous Spritz cookies and Easter pies—traditions she baked with pure love. Above all, Ann’s greatest happiness was found in her role as a grandmother and great-grandmother. She cherished every moment spent with the youngest generations of her family, leaving behind a legacy of warmth, faith, and devotion that will be deeply missed.

Ann is survived by her loving daughter Cheryl Moore and her husband Bruce of South Carolina, her cherished grandchildren, Kimberly Moore-Kolman and her husband Jonathan of Stamford and Bruce Moore, Jr. and his wife Lauren of Stamford, along with her adored great-grandchildren James, Jonathan, Giavanna, William and Jospeh, and several nieces and nephews.

Besides her parents Ann was predeceased by her beloved husband James Greco, and her sisters, Carmella Smerligio and Molly Fusco-Ruspini.

A mass of Christian Buril will be celebrated on Thursday, December 4, 2025, at Sacred Heart Church, 37 Schuyler Ave., Stamford, CT at 10:00AM. A procession will follow to Queen of Peace Cemetery, Rock Rimmion Road, Stamford

In lieu of flowers donations can be made in memory of Ann Marie Greco to a charity of one’s choice.

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11/22/2025

Vincenza "Winnie" Gallace Ely

Vincenza “Winnie” Gallace Ely, our beloved mom, passed away peacefully with her family by her side on Saturday, November 22, 2025. Winnie was born in Brooklyn, NY on April 6,1927 to the late Angelo and Felicetta Molaro Gallace.

Growing up in Stamford, she met and married the love of her life, Ken, in August of 1946. Together they made a home and raised their four children. They lived in Stamford for 28 years before moving to Bradenton, FL where they made their home for the next 40 years.

Over the years she welcomed and looked forward to hosting many family and friends. Their home affectionately became known as “Win’s Inn”, where home made breakfasts and famous Sunday sauce were loved by all. Also, during her years in Bradenton, she was a devoted care giver to many seniors. After Ken’s passing Winnie moved back to Stamford to be close to her children and grandchildren. She moved in to The Wormser where she had many friends and was loved by everyone.

Winnie is survived by her children Glen Ely (Joyce) and Phyllis Ely Bria (Rick); her nine grandchildren Michael Ely, Krista Ely Mondschein (Andrew), Danny Bria (Kristyn), Mark Bria (Amy), Jamie Ely Landi (Giovanni), Brett Ely, Justin Ely (Dipali), Brooke Ely Miller (Robert) and Lara Ely; four great grandchildren; brother Gus Gallace (Hilda); and several nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by her loving husband Kenneth N. Ely Sr.; two sons Kenneth N. Ely Jr. and Donald Ely; sister Jennie Gallace Ely; and step-sister Pat Bellantonio.

Winnie will be remembered for her beautiful smile and for the way she lived her life… with kindness and love.

A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10:30AM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2025 at St. Cecilia Church, 1184 Newfield Avenue, Stamford, CT 06905. A private inurnment will follow mass at St. John Cemetery in Darien.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to DAV – Disabled American VeteransP.O. Box 14301, Cincinnati, OH 45250-0301 or online at www.help.dav.org.

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The Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory of Stamford, CT, has seen many changes since May 15, 1953, when Nicholas F. Cognetta, Sr. and Naida E. Cognetta first opened their doors for business. But some things have remained the same like the commitment to the Stamford community and the pride that comes with serving families during a difficult time. Today, amidst all of the large funeral home conglomerates and corporate take overs of area funeral homes, Cognetta remains a family-owned and operated funeral home and crematory. When you call or visit our funeral home, you will find a member of the Cognetta family. Our funeral directors will help you arrange a ceremony that is both meaningful and affordable for you and your family. Whether you are planning/arranging a burial and/or a cremation, our staff can manage the arrangement process, relieving you of all unnecessary burdens. We'll always be here for you.