01/06/2026
Not every “mother wound” comes with a dramatic story.
Sometimes it looks like:
* being the “strong one” for your mom, even as a kid
* feeling guilty any time you need space or say no
* shrinking yourself to keep the peace
* never quite feeling “good enough,” no matter how much you do
You can love your mother, see her humanity, and still be honest about the places where you felt over-responsible, unseen, or emotionally alone.
That honesty isn’t disrespect. It’s the beginning of healing.
As therapists, we often hear:
“She did the best she could… so why am I still hurt?”
Two things can be true:
* She did the best she could.
* And parts of you were still left without what you needed.
If this lands for you, you’re not “too sensitive” and you’re not alone. You’re a person whose story deserves compassion.
This month, we’re working on a gentle Mother Wounds mini-guide for adult daughters navigating complicated relationships with their moms — no mom-bashing, just language, clarity, and care for you.