01/28/2026
Good morning, friends.
Over the past few years, something has been stirring deeply in my heart.
Like many others, Iāve felt disillusioned by the exposure of abuse within well-known ministriesāparticularly those whose teachings I once trusted. This grief is not theoretical for me. I have personal experience with church-based abuse, both in childhood and adulthood, and that lived reality shapes how I now listen, discern, and respond.
As conversations continue across social media, I find myself returning again and again to Scripture. Leadership is clearly held to a higher standard of accountability.
āNot many of you should become teachersā¦ because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictlyā (James 3:1).
āFrom everyone who has been given much, much will be demandedā (Luke 12:48).
Scripture does not soften responsibility for those in spiritual authorityāit strengthens it.
Because of this, I have reached a place where I am choosing to be taught primarily by the Holy Spiritāthe Spirit of truth who guides us into all truth, convicts hearts, and leads us into healing (John 16:13). Human systems, even religious ones, too often fall short of the standards God sets in His Word.
Forgiveness is essential. Scripture is clear about that. Forgiveness is a vital part of healing for those who have been harmed, and it frees the wounded heart from being bound to the offense. At the same time, forgiveness does not cancel accountability. It does not remove the need for truth, boundaries, or repentance.
In many cases, true repentance looks like stepping down, taking responsibility, and entering into deep, honest healingānot only for victims, but also for those who caused harm. Healing is needed on all sides, but it cannot occur where truth is avoided.
What grieves me most is how often religious systems prioritize protecting power rather than protecting people. When abuse is minimized, hidden, or quietly moved āunder the carpet,ā the pattern reflects the very dynamics Scripture warns against. Power and control are at the root of all forms of abuse, including spiritual abuseāand this is not the way of Christ. Jesus Himself said that leadership in His Kingdom would look different: rooted in humility, service, and care for the vulnerable (Mark 10:42ā45).
I share these reflections as part of my own healing journeyāone that continues to evolve under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. My prayer is that we continue to allow the Spirit of God to lead us into truth, freedom, and restoration, at a pace that honors both our wounds and our worth.
Disclaimer:
Iām not a medical doctor or licensed counselor; however, I am a professional holistic provider supporting the mind and body. My content is intended for wellness and educational purposes only and should not be considered medical or mental health advice. Please seek care from a qualified healthcare or mental health professional for diagnosis, treatment, or emergencies.
