02/09/2026
Lately, during so many conversations I’ve been having with both friends and students, similar questions seem to keep arising, things like: “How can I help, without also losing myself?” Or, “How can I stay involved, without falling into anger or despair?”
The challenge is this:
On one hand, so many of us have been feeling pulled in some way to roll up our sleeves and try to help alleviate some of the suffering that’s been happening in our world right now - even if we might not be exactly sure how best to do this.
On the other hand, there seems to be an equally powerful need for us to prioritize self-care, and work on nurturing and calming our own minds, bodies, and hearts.
And here, it might be helpful to know that this is truly an ancient human struggle: our effort to discover this balance.
It’s actually something the Buddha was highly aware of during his lifetime - a time that was also filled with conflict, strife, and societal distress.
In fact, even after he had become enlightened, the Buddha confessed that he, too, experienced both fear and despair when witnessing some of the human battles that were taking place all around him.
Gratefully, though, he was able to discover a healthy way to work with this, and offered us some very sage advice about how we too can learn to find this balance in a way that can help us experience more compassion, peace, and ease – and then offer it out to others.
This month’s new talk – Balancing Care for Self & Others: Buddha’s Advice – dives into some of his most important teachings on this subject.
It includes a meditation at the end. As always, I hope that it will serve.
Just a few heads up!
1) The next daylong retreat on MAR. 7, "True to Your Heart," will be in Berryville, VA, and seats are almost full!
2) The next residential retreat APRIL 23-27, "KEEP CALMLY KNOWING CHANGE" in Romney, WV is less than 3 months away! And spots have been filling quickly! ...
3) I'm still in the process of looking for a venue for a new weekly meditation group I plan to start in Wi******er this year (I promise!) ...thank you for staying tuned!
In the meantime, we hope that you can join us!
With care and much metta (loving-kindness),
~ Shell 🙏🏽💕
Email from Mindful Shenandoah Valley Warm greetings, Lately, during so many conversations I’ve been having with both friends and students, similar questions seem to keep arising, things like: “How can