Dighton Marler Funeral Home

04/03/2026

Alva Fred Cole

Alva Fred Cole, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and dear friend, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 23, 2026, in Stillwater, Oklahoma. Born on October 28, 1946, in Clinton, Oklahoma to Alva Allen Cole and Mary Ethel (Mastin) Cole. Fred’s life journey was one marked by dedication, kindness, and an unwavering commitment to his family and faith.

Fred grew up in Weatherford, Oklahoma, where he attended school and graduated in 1964. Demonstrating a love for service early in life, he joined the United States Army in 1966 and served honorably until his discharge on October 24, 1969. His time in the military shaped him deeply, reinforcing values of discipline, integrity, and devotion.

In 1976, Fred embarked on a new chapter, becoming the Manager of Dunlap Sporting Goods in Oklahoma City. His passion and vision led to an expansion from one store to three locations, showcasing his entrepreneurship and leadership. Four years later, in 1980, Fred took a courageous step and established his own sporting goods business. Yet, amid his success in the sporting goods field, he felt a higher calling. Sensing God’s guidance, he sold his enterprise and purchased a farm in Perkins, Oklahoma, dedicating himself fully to evangelical ministry and missions. Fred embraced this sacred purpose with the same love and devotion that defined every facet of his life. He was a member of World Harvest Church in Stillwater.

Known widely for his loving and kind nature, Fred’s warmth touched all who knew him. His generosity, gentle spirit, and steadfast faith left an indelible mark on his community and all whose lives he entered.

Fred is lovingly remembered by his wife, Shelley, whose partnership and support were constants in his life. He is also survived by his daughter, Mary Anne Cantwell of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; and son, Tom Cole of Faye, Oklahoma. Their family grew richly with three grandchildren and one great-grandchild, all of whom were sources of immense joy for Fred. His sister, Katherine Sinner of Westlake Village, California, also survives him, along with numerous nieces, nephews, and a wide circle of cherished friends who hold his memory close in their hearts.

Fred’s parents, Alva Allen Cole and Mary Ethel (Mastin) Cole, preceded him in death, having laid the foundation of love and faith that sustained him throughout his life.

A Celebration of Life honoring Alva Fred Cole will be held on Sunday, April 19, 2026, at 11:45 AM at World Harvest Church, located at 1718 West Lakeview Road, Stillwater, Oklahoma. This gathering will provide all who loved Fred an opportunity to remember and honor a man who exemplified kindness, strength, and an unwavering commitment to his faith and family.

Alva Fred Cole leaves behind a legacy of love that will continue to inspire those who knew him. His life was a testament to the power of following one’s calling with courage and compassion, and his memory will forever be cherished by his family and friends.

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Ronald Lee Funderburg

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04/03/2026

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03/30/2026

Mary Kathryn Webb

Mary Kathryn Webb, 85, of Perry, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 28, 2026. A woman of strength, spirit, and deep devotion to her family, Mary will be remembered for her vibrant red hair, her feisty determination, and the steadfast love she shared with all who knew her.

Mary was born on December 7, 1940 in Pryor, Oklahoma to Agnes Watkins Henderson and Elza Earl Henderson. She was one of seven children raised on the family farm in Morrison, Oklahoma. Growing up in a large, hardworking family shaped Mary’s resilience, independence, and strong sense of responsibility. These qualities would define her throughout her life.

She attended Shiloh County School through the eighth grade and graduated from Morrison High School in 1958. Shortly after graduating high school, she began working at Oklahoma State University in the Student Union before marrying and dedicating herself to raising her family.

On June 30, 1967, Mary married the love of her life, Robert Lee “Bob” Webb in a ceremony at the First United Methodist Church in Perry, Oklahoma, officiated by Rev. Clifton McKoy.

Mary and Bob built a loving home together where they raised their five children: Peggy, Bobbie, Rhonda, Keith, and Eric, until Bob’s death on June 13, 1985. She was known to “rule the house” with a yardstick or a flyswatter in hand, always with firm love and a sense of humor that left a lasting impression on her children.

In addition to her role as a homemaker, Mary worked later in life at Charles Machine Works (Ditch Witch) for 16 years. A few years into retirement, she worked part-time at Brown-Dugger Funeral Home and Dighton-Marler Funeral Home. She brought the same dedication and work ethic to her jobs as she did to her family.

Mary found joy in the simple and meaningful things in life. She loved gardening and took pride in canning the fruits of her labor. Her yard, fish pond, and ongoing garden projects were sources of both relaxation and accomplishment. She also enjoyed reading, traveling, shopping, and playing dominoes, but nothing brought her more happiness than spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

A woman of strong faith and community spirit, Mary was actively involved in several organizations, including United Methodist Women where she helped prepare funeral dinners, Petunia Gardening Club, Lions Club, Operation Blessing, and the Monday Night Bunko Club. Her generosity and willingness to serve others touched many lives.

Mary is survived by her siblings Eldon “Jim” Henderson and wife, Wilma of Morrison, OK and James Henderson and wife, Deloris of Perry, OK. She was preceded in death by her siblings Earlene Henderson Adler, Elene Henderson, Elza Earl Jr. “Junior” Henderson, and Audrey Henderson Shiever.

She will be lovingly remembered by her children, Rhonda Webb Dugger of Perry, Keith Webb and wife, Julie of Stillwater, Eric Webb and wife, Jana of Orcas Island, WA, grandchildren, Donnie Webb and wife, Madesyn of Dallas, TX, Katherine “KC” Webb of Stillwater, Mesa Webb of Puyallup, WA, and McCabe Webb and wife, Libby of Lake Oswego, OR, great-grandchildren, Karsyn Webb, Kolby Webb, and Kytrell Webb of Stillwater, brother-in-law, William “Billy” Webb and wife, Gloria of Broken Arrow, numerous nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and dear friends who will cherish her memory.

Visitation will be held from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Friday, April 3, 2026, at Dighton-Marler Funeral Hme Chapel, Perry. No family visitation is planned. A funeral service will be held at the First United Methodist Church in Perry, Oklahoma on Saturday, April 4, 2026, at 10:00 a.m., with burial to follow at Grace Hill Cemetery pavilion. Condolences may be sent to the family via an online guest book at www.dightonmarler.com.

Memorial contributions may be made in her honor by making checks to the First United Methodist Church and send in care of Dighton-Marler Funeral Home, PO Box 189, Perry, OK 73077.

Mary’s life was one of strength, love, and unwavering devotion. She leaves behind a legacy rooted in family, faith, and the enduring impact of

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03/30/2026

Carey Schreter

Mr. Schreter passed away on Monday, March 23, 2026 at his home in Glencoe, Oklahoma at the age of 83. Graveside services are scheduled for 11:00 A.M. Tuesday, April 7, 2026 at Fort Gibson National Cemetery in Fort Gibson, Oklahoma.

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03/30/2026

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Carrie Lynn Patterson

Carrie Lynn Patterson, 72, was born September 23, 1953, in Ponca City, the daughter of Bob Christenson and Bertha Miller Christenson. She passed away in Perry, Oklahoma on March 22, 2026. She is the mother of Casey Stoops, Perry. Services are pending at this time.

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03/25/2026

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03/24/2026

Andrew Jacky Delano

Andrew Jacky Delano, born on December 26, 1958, in Stillwater, Oklahoma, to William "Billy" and Dorcus (Owens) Delano, departed this life on March 21, 2026, in his beloved hometown. Andrew's journey through this world was marked by dedication, love, and unwavering kindness. He passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by his loving family, after a courageous battle with cancer.

A man of many talents and passions. His professional life included work at Swan Hose, and National Standard here in Stillwater, followed by mechanic work and eventually Vasser Manufacturing, where he retired. Beyond his career, Andrew was genuinely proud of his ability to always welcome others warmly and lend a helping hand whenever needed.

Andrew's time in the United States Army, beginning in September 1978, was a significant chapter in his life. After serving honorably for four years, he received an honorable discharge, a testament to his dedication and service. He was proud to serve his country.

Known for his fun, loving, witty, and kind nature, Andrew brought joy to all who knew him. He cherished his family deeply and delighted in spending quality time with his children and grandchildren. He especially adored spoiling his wife Carolyne rotten. His hobbies were diverse and reflected the fullness of his character: he loved target shooting, working on cars, and cooking big meals for family and friends. Andrew was also an aficionado of classic westerns, particularly the films of John Wayne and Chuck Norris’s “Walker, Texas Ranger.” He was also an avid Dallas Cowboy fan, especially when they were winning!

Andrew's legacy is carried on by his devoted wife, Carolyne; his children, Christina Arnett and her husband Ty of Yukon, OK; Jenifer Golden and her husband JT of Stillwater, OK; Andrew Delano of Stillwater, OK; Raymond Donaldson of Austin, TX; Heather Wallace and her husband Ron, and Thomas Donaldson and his wife Belinda all of Perkins, OK. Nine grandchildren, Michael, Britney, Donnovan, Riley, Gracelyne, Hazel, Ashelyne, Skylah, and Andi. Siblings Bill Delano and his wife Carla of Crescent, OK; Brenda Pate of Stillwater, OK; Tom Delano of Texas; Hazel Pendergrass and her husband Ronnie of Perkins, OK; Katie Jarvis and her husband Terry of Perkins, OK; and Tim Delano of Stillwater, OK; and his best friend and Army buddy, Terry Luthy. Numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and countless friends also hold Andrew dear in their hearts.

Andrew was preceded in death by his loving parents, William "Billy" and Dorcus Delano.

A Celebration of Life to honor Andrew will be held on Friday, April 17, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. at Dighton -Marler Funeral Home, located at 5106 N Washington St, Stillwater, OK 74075.

In remembering Andrew Jacky Delano, we honor a man whose genuine warmth, wit, and unwavering love left an indelible mark on everyone fortunate enough to know him. His spirit lives on in the stories, laughter, and memories shared by those who loved him dearly. Though his absence leaves a profound silence, the love he gave and the lives he touched continue to shine brightly as a testament to a life well lived.

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