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12/26/2025

Thomas "Tommy" Edward Jack

Thomas “Tommy” Edward Jack, of Perry, Oklahoma, passed away on December 24, 2025, at the VA Hospital in Oklahoma City after a courageous battle with Choleanigo Carcinoma. He was born at home in Orlando, Oklahoma, to Arthur Theodore Jack and Eleanor Lou (Hurst) Jack.

Tommy grew up in Orlando and graduated from Orlando High School in 1963. During his school years, he enjoyed playing basketball and spending time with siblings and friends, often playing cowboys and Indians. His childhood was full of memorable moments, including the time he mistook a neighbor’s milk cow for a lion and his playful sparring with his sister Shirley. These stories reflect his adventurous spirit and loving nature, qualities that stayed with him throughout his life.

After graduation, Tommy worked in the oil fields before being drafted into the U.S. Army on November 21, 1966. He served honorably in the Vietnam War and retired with disabilities on February 11, 1969, holding the rank of Specialist Fourth Class. His bravery earned him two Purple Hearts with Oak Leaf Cluster and several other military awards. Following his military service, Tommy married his beloved wife, Kathy, and returned to work in the oil fields, later assisting local farmers with their operations.

Tommy’s greatest joy was his family. He is survived by his wife, Kathy Jack; daughters Dee Bay (Michael), Becky Miller (Gerald), Tammy Vance, and Jaylynn Malcolm; sons Larry Hoggatt and Jacksen Williams; sister Shirley Marie (Jack) Marquardt; 16 grandchildren; and 32 great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; brothers Arthur Theodore Jack Jr., Kenneth Lee Jack, and Richard Alan Jack; sister Betty Lou (Jack) Flower; son Jim Hoggatt; and granddaughter Christian Paige Vance.

Tommy will be remembered for his unwavering love, dedication, and generosity toward his family and friends. His life was a testament to resilience, service, and compassion.

A viewing will be held on Tuesday, December 30, 2025 at the Dighton-Marler Funeral Home in Perry from noon until 6PM. Funeral services will be held in the chapel of the Dighton-Marler Funeral Home in Stillwater with graveside services immediately following at Grace Hill Cemetery in Perry.

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Charlotte Ann Costa

Charlotte Ann Costa, a beloved mother and grandmother, passed away peacefully on December 14, 2025, in Stillwater, Oklahoma, at the age of 89. Born on October 5, 1936, in Oklahoma City, to Ernest and Nancy Loft, she lived a life full of love, devotion, and cherished memories.

Charlotte graduated from Northeast High School in 1954, after which she attended Hill's Business University, laying a foundation for her many pursuits. She was married to the love of her life, Victor Costa, on May 18, 1957, in Oklahoma City. Their partnership was one of deep commitment and unwavering love, as they navigated life together, relocating multiple times for Victor's career.

In her role as a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, Charlotte prioritized her family above all else. She is survived by her children, Stacie Costa, Vicki Branstetter and husband Roy, and Steven Costa and wife Kaili. Her legacy continues through her grandchildren: Krista, Lindsey, Melissa and husband Richard, Jessica and husband Kyle, Jacob and wife Logan, Michael, Joshua, Mandy and husband Chris, Becca and husband Layne, Nathan and wife Ayries, Zach, and Emma, along with eight great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild. She is in heaven reuniting with her husband Victor, her parents, Ernest and Nancy Loft, her sister Norma McCallister, and host of other family and friends.

Charlotte had a passion for writing and enjoyed crafting short stories, always nurturing her creative spirit. She found great joy in the Christmas season, reveling in the traditions of gift-giving and baking, illuminating the lives of those around her with warmth and joy. Her faith was a cornerstone of her life; Jesus was her savior, and she walked steadfastly in her beliefs.

Charlotte will be greatly missed by all who knew her. A visitation will be held on December 22, 2025, from 4:00 PM to 6:00 PM at Stillwater - Dighton Marler Funeral Home, located at 5106 N Washington St, Stillwater, OK 74075. A Celebration of Life will take place on December 23, 2025, at 1:00 PM at Countryside Baptist Church, 2124 South Western Road, Stillwater, OK 74074, followed by interment at Memorial Park Cemetery-Edmond at 3:00 PM, located at 13313 North Kelley Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73131.

Charlotte leaves behind a profound legacy of love and faith that will forever remain in the hearts of her family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Jacob Branstetter, Kyle Schumann, Michael Costa, Josh Costa, Nathan Costa and Cris Chen.

Memorial contributions can be made in Charlotte’s name to the Central Oklahoma Adult and Teen Challenge, c/o Dighton Marler Funeral Home, 5106 N. Washington St., Stillwater, Oklahoma 74075.

Condolences may be sent to the family via an online guest book at www.dightonmarler.com.

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12/17/2025

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Kenneth Jay Brown

Once upon a time a beautiful baby boy was born on December 13, 1967, to Mr. Walter and Armethas Mildred Brown and they named him Kenneth Jay Brown. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, December 17, 2025, from 12-8pm at Dighton Marler Funeral Home of Stillwater. Funeral service will be held on Thursday, December 18, 2025, at Dighton Marler Funeral Home in Stillwater, Oklahoma. Interment will follow at Grace Hill Cemetery in Perry, Oklahoma.

Kenneth was a godsend to us, a lovely and kind person that just sit rocking and humming songs. He loved working in the garden and collecting mail. Kenneth loved to play around and have fun with family. He loved to bowl and even became a champion bowler. Kenneth was always happy. He lived in Perry with his parents up until Walter and Armethas went home to live in heaven. Kenneth moved to Muncie, Indiana with his brother Willie Brown and his wife Tina until his death.

Kenneth leaves behind four brothers, Gary Brown and wife Karen, Tony Brown and wife Trenda, Willie Brown and wife Tina, Ricky Brown, and four sisters, Glenda Brown, Sandra Brown, Gloria Brown and Carolyn Lockhart and husband Al. He is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.

Kenneth will be deeply missed, however NEVER forgotten by all who knew and loved him.

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Alicia Dawn Mayfield

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12/12/2025

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