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03/11/2026

Arlene Calavan

Arlene Yvonne Calavan, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, peacefully entered into eternal rest on March 10, 2026, at the age of 94. Born on October 11, 1931, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, Arlene was the cherished daughter of C.M. and Ruth Hawkins. She was preceded in death by her parents, her devoted husband of 68 years, Wayman Calavan, and her brother, Lon Hawkins.

Arlene's life was a testament to love, faith, and dedication. She married the love of her life, Wayman Calavan, on July 28, 1951, in Okarche, Oklahoma. Together, they built a life rich in family, faith, and community, raising six children: Mark and Kay Calavan, Cindy and Wade Cornelison, John and Lu Calavan, Linda and Mike Beaver, Matt and Katie Calavan, and Chris and Pam Calavan. Her legacy of love and devotion continues through her 19 grandchildren, including Thomas Bebee, Rachel & Travis Hall, Sarah and James Williams, Hannah and Aaron Spears, Garrett and Katie Cornelison, Daniel and Alisa Cornelison, Joshua and Alicia Calavan, Jacob and Patricia Calavan Jordan and David Morgan, Natalie and Nick Reuther, Brandon and Brianna Beaver, Austin and Alexa Beaver, Christian and Sarah Beaver, Caroline and Erik Banuchi, Grace Calavan, Spencer and Kylie Calavan, Nate Calavan, Nick Calavan, and Kayci George, alongside 41 great-grandchildren who brought immense joy to her life.

Arlene was a woman of remarkable faith and strength, attributes that guided her through life's journey. She graduated from Okarche High School in 1949 and pursued further education at Oklahoma A & M. Later, with unwavering determination, she returned to college and earned a Bachelor's degree in Education from Connors State College and Northeastern State University in 1986. Her passion for nurturing young minds led her to a rewarding teaching career in Oklahoma City and Shawnee until her retirement in 1997.

A devoted farmer's wife, Arlene worked tirelessly to provide for her family, managing their home with grace and skill. In 1975, she and Wayman embarked on a new venture, opening the Lucky 7 Cafe and Steak House, where she warmly welcomed guests as hostess. An active member of her church communities, Arlene served as music director and Sunday School teacher at Warner First Baptist Church, and Sunday School Teacher and Choir member at Blackburn Baptist Church, and later was an active member of Perkins First Baptist Church.

Arlene's heart was as vast as her garden, where she lovingly tended to an abundance of vegetables and fruits. Her culinary skills were unmatched, and her home was a haven of hospitality. She shared her talents and wisdom with her children, teaching them to work hard, love deeply, and hold their faith at the center of their lives. Arlene was a living embodiment of Proverbs 31, a woman whose virtues were praised by her family and all who knew her.

Throughout her life, Arlene was known for her compassion and selflessness, always putting others before herself. She rose early each day, dedicating time to her faith and ensuring her family's needs were met with love and care. Her unwavering devotion to God and family was the foundation of her life, leaving an indelible mark on her loved ones.

Arlene's memory will be honored in a celebration of her life on March 20, 2026, at 1:00 PM at Perkins First Baptist Church, located at 500 E. Knipe St. The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Legacy Village for their exceptional care during Arlene's final years and to hospice staff for their compassionate support.

As her children rise to call her blessed, Arlene's legacy of love and faith will continue to guide and inspire future generations. Her gentle spirit and unwavering devotion to her family and faith will forever remain in the hearts of those who were privileged to know and love her.

Pallbearers: Thomas Bebee, Garrett Cornelison, Daniel Cornelison, Joshua Calavan, Jacob Calavan, Brandon Beaver, Austin Beaver, Spencer Calavan, Nathan Calavan, and Nick Calavan.

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03/11/2026

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03/11/2026

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03/09/2026

Robert I. Hesser

Robert Ira Hesser was born December 31st, 1933, in Yale, Oklahoma to Eliza Jane (Billie) Mendinghall and Ira John Swazy Gray Grewell. He was adopted later by Hugh (Candyman) and Kathryn Hesser. He passed peacefully at the age of 92 on March 3rd, 2026.

Robert, or Bob, as everyone knew him as, graduated from Glencoe High School in 1954, where he had met the love of his life, Bertha Mae Fisher.

Bob joined the US Army and served for 2 years before being honorably discharged into the US Army Reserves. While in the service he was deployed to Germany.

He and Bertha Mae Fisher were married May 8th, 1958. They had 3 children, Robyn (Hesser) German, Robert (Bobby) Hesser, and Dawn (Hesser) Lore.

Bob held many different jobs in his life. Starting out on the dairy farm with Hugh, retiring from the City of Stillwater. After retirement, he worked at Walmart in the maintenance department. He spent his later years working on his farm with his cattle.

Bob and Bertha enjoyed playing cards with family and friends and camping with fellow Church of Christ members. Bob was a devoted Christan and member of the Glencoe Church of Christ. Bob was a regular coffee drinker at Ross’ Station in Glencoe as often as possible. He was sure to have his roll of dimes handy.

He is survived by 1 sister, Karen Esteson of Enid, Oklahoma. His 4 Grandchildren, Shad German, Candace German, Cody German, and Carter Drevs, 7 Great-grandchildren, Kensley, Mason, Whitely, Clayton, Emili, Michael, and Maeva and 1 Great-Great-Granddaughter, Aurelia, as well as numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews as well as friends and neighbors. His orneriness and smile will be missed by many who knew him.

He was greeted at the gates of Heaven by his wife Bertha and their son, Robert (Bobby) Hugh. As well as brothers Raymond and Jack, and sisters Joann and Evelyn. His parents, Hugh, Kathryn Hesser, Ira Grewell and Eliza Jane (Billie) Justice, and many other family and friends.

Services have been entrusted to Dighton Marler Funeral Home in Stillwater. A viewing will be held Thursday, March 19th, 2026, from 10am to 8pm with family greeting guests from 5pm to 7pm. His memorial service will be Friday, March 20th, 2026, at 10:30am with Pastor Curt Anderson officiating, with a family meal to follow at the Glencoe Church of Christ.

In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to the Glencoe Church of Christ in care of Dighton Marler Funeral Home, 5106 N. Washington. Stillwater, OK 74075.

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03/09/2026

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03/03/2026

Terry Lynn Shea

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03/02/2026

Larry Brown

Larry Gene Brown, born on November 17, 1951, to Helen and Clifford Brown, passed away on February 21, 2026, in Pawnee, Oklahoma. Larry was a proud servant of his country, dedicating time to the U.S. Army. He grew up in Carney and Tryon, Oklahoma and attended High School in Carney where he graduated in 1970. He made many lifelong friends during this time of his life.

On May 16, 1981, Larry married Shelia Vassar Brown. This union was blessed by two sons: Zachary Allan Brown, and Parker Grayson Brown. They built a life for their family in Stillwater and later divorced. Larry is survived by his son, Zachary and siblings: Bill Brown and his wife Veronna, Betty Scrivner, Jerry Brown, Shirley Haney, Carl Brown and his wife Gail, and Carol Brown. Each sibling will hold their unique memories of Larry, a man they loved dearly.

Larry will always be remembered for his warm personality. He was a generous soul, considering everyone he met a friend. His kindness knew no bounds, and he worked diligently to provide for his family, earning the admiration and love of those around him. His big heart and unwavering spirit will remain a cherished memory for his family and friends.

Larry was preceded in death by his son, Parker Grayson Brown; his parents, Clifford and Helen Brown; and his brother, Jim Brown. Their absence is felt deeply, but their memories will live on in the hearts of those who loved them.

A graveside service will be held on March 13, 2026, at Tryon Cemetery, located at East Highway 105, 74875, in Oklahoma. The service will begin at 2:00 PM, providing family and friends the opportunity to pay their respects and celebrate Larry's life.

Larry Brown’s legacy of friendship, kindness, and love will continue to impact all those who had the privilege of knowing him. He leaves behind a tapestry of cherished memories that will be fondly remembered for years to come.

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03/02/2026

Velma Hotson

Velma Hotson, 90, of Covington, Oklahoma, was born September 23, 1935, in Skedee, Oklahoma, the daughter of Royal Winfield Watson and Christine Pearl (Barnes) Watson. She passed away February 26, 2026, at Enid Senior Care in Enid, Oklahoma.

Mrs. Hotson was reared in Skedee and graduated from high school. She married Ernie Hotson in 2004 at Eureka Springs, Arkansas. She was employed for Brown & Root while they were building Sooner Lake, and Best Western Motel, and worked 18 years as a welder at Ditch Witch before retiring. In her spare time, she enjoyed doing crafts. She was very fond of her dog “Sissy.”

In addition to her husband, Ernie, she is survived by one daughter, Cindy Williams, of England; and one sister, Estelle Grimes and her husband Ken of Pennsylvania.

She was preceded in death by two sons and two daughters: Doug Stearman, Earl Stearman, Patricia Ann Stearman, and Kathy Stearman; her parents; and six siblings: her twin, Thelma Rodgers, Orbie Watson, Gene Watson, Johnny Watson, Bennie Watson, and Chuck (Charles) Watson and his wife Addie.

She will be buried in a private ceremony at Pawnee Cemetery.

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03/02/2026

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