12/18/2025
Believe it or not—
Most OBs and hospitals actually do want good outcomes for you and your baby.
They’re not out to ruin your birth.
They’re doing what they believe is safest—using the tools and training they have.
And that’s the key phrase:
what they believe is best.
We’ve been fed this idea that empowerment means walking in ready to fight the system.
But blame isn’t empowerment.
And going in combative isn’t control—it’s fear dressed up as strength.
Here’s the truth most women never hear:
✨ Empowered birth isn’t about controlling the room.
✨ It’s about owning your preparation.
You cannot expect an easy, physiological vaginal birth
if your body hasn’t been prepared to do one.
Not because your body is broken—
but because modern life has changed how we live inside it.
We sit more.
We move less.
We carry stress, trauma, toxins, and tension in our nervous system and pelvis.
And then we expect our bodies to perform a once-in-a-lifetime physical event…
without training.
Reading another book won’t fix that.
A birth plan alone won’t fix that.
A few hip circles won’t fix that.
What does change everything?
• Restoring pelvic range of motion
• Regulating the nervous system
• Preparing ahead of time for decisions—so you’re not reacting in fear
• And learning how to surrender with confidence, even when the plan changes
Your body was designed to birth.
But in today’s world, that design needs support.
And if you don’t prepare your body,
It’s unfair to become upset when the system steps in to manage what your body wasn’t ready for in an environment that wasn’t designed for you to take your time.
If this feels like the missing piece in your birth prep,
I created Birth to Remix—a private micro-podcast that walks you through exactly how to prepare your body and nervous system for an empowered birth, no matter the setting.
🎧 Link Below
Listen in your favorite podcast app.
Prepare on purpose.
https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/subscribe/eb45e73a-e9e0-425d-ae2d-e304b501ebd1/5AQOX1Vzv7.