Ayizan Life Alchemy Center

11/05/2025

Now accepting new clients. For group and individual support.

11/04/2025

The Chase Game

Some people don’t ask for what they want.

They pull back, go silent, or create distance hoping their partner will notice, pursue, and “prove” love.

That pattern sounds like:

“If you cared, you’d come after me.”

“If I don’t say it, you should still know.”

But you cannot build partnership on emotional obstacle courses.

Healthy love doesn’t need to be chased; it needs to be claimed, communicated, and co-created.

Marriage Mindset Shift:

Love is not a test. If I want connection, I must speak it, not set up a chase. Allow it to form. Heal the part of you that need that chase.

Book a session with me to break this pattern and create real communication + safety in your relationship.

10/16/2025

This will shift your lane

Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.

10/16/2025

As I exited my home I was reminded that every moment is an opportunity to see something usual in a . New way
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09/26/2025

Navigating Relationship Challenges: Insights from a Healer

09/26/2025

Understanding Our Connection to the Universe

09/26/2025

Breaking Generational Curses: A Choice to Heal

09/26/2025

Transformational Moments: Embracing Change for Growth

07/09/2025

Now accepting new clients. Just give us a call.

06/11/2025

💫 “It’s not just a retreat. It’s a reset, a renewal, and a remembrance.”
Ready to see what’s waiting for you in Arizona this Sweetest Day weekend?

DAY ONE – ARRIVAL & CONNECTION
• Gift baskets + toasts in your room
• Welcome breakfast + meet & greet
• 3 Workshops including Romance Revival & Intimacy Rituals
• Couples hike + reflection
• Evening: Spa vibes, soul touch, dinner on your own
💌 This day is all about soft landings and sacred beginnings.
DAY TWO – ALIGNMENT & CELEBRATION
• Morning workshops on vision + emotional repair
• Couple exercises + healing conversations
• Private counseling sessions
• Free time for reconnection
• Evening: Elegant dance party + sacred date night (cocktail attire encouraged)
💃🏾 We’re dancing our way back into joy.

DAY THREE – INTEGRATION & FAREWELL
• Brunch with purpose
• Reflective send-off workshop
• Free time + travel grace
• Check-out by 3PM
🕊️ You’ll leave clearer, softer, and stronger—together.
What we’re not doing:
❌ Forced “fix your marriage” lectures
❌ All-day processing without pleasure
❌ Awkward silences & surface-level work
What we are doing:
✅ Deep conversation + guided healing
✅ Play, joy, touch, laughter
✅ Sacred accountability + intention
✅ Celebration of Black love, real love, and renewed love

This retreat is for couples who:
• Are thriving but want more
• Feel stuck and need sacred space
• Want to choose each other again
• Believe love is worth healing
💛 Join us October 17–19 in Arizona
$1,500 per couple | Payment plans available
Spots are limited. Sacred space is reserved.

05/26/2025

Sometimes love walks us straight into a storm—
Distance. Conflicts. Misunderstandings.
But what if those storms aren’t signs to give up…
…but invitations to grow?

Relationships thrive not because they’re easy, but because both people choose to keep learning, healing, and showing up.

This video is a gentle reminder:
Struggles don’t always mean you’re with the wrong person.
They might mean you’re becoming the right people—together.

Let’s normalize working through it, not walking away from it.

Tag your partner or someone who needs to hear this.
Need support on the path? I’m here to help.
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—Marrian Efua