11/06/2025
It’s easy to mistake being alone for being lonely, but emotionally, they couldn’t be more different.
Loneliness is the ache of disconnection; the feeling that we’re unseen, unheard, or emotionally distant from others. It can happen even when we’re surrounded by people.
Solitude, however, is intentional. It’s a state of being with yourself, reflecting, resting, and reconnecting without feeling isolated. Solitude helps you process your thoughts, regulate emotions, and build a stronger sense of self.
Both experiences tell us something important about what we need. If loneliness feels heavy, it may be a sign to reach out and reconnect. If solitude feels nourishing, it’s likely helping you restore your emotional balance.