02/18/2026
In couples therapy, most relationships are not struggling because of conflict or arguments. More often, they are caught in recurring cycles of misunderstandings that slowly create distance, frustration, or defensiveness.
Many couples assume their partner’s behavior reflects intent - “They don’t care,” “They’re controlling,” “They’re too sensitive.” In reality, what we often uncover in therapy are mismatched communication, unmet attachment needs, stress responses, or different expectations that were never clearly discussed.
The most common issues couples therapists help resolve are not about incompatibility. They are about misinterpretation, patterns, and trust. When partners learn to slow down, clarify intent, and respond to the need underneath the behavior, conflict becomes more manageable and connection becomes more possible.
If this sounds familiar, it means therapy is for you. Couples therapy is a structured, supportive experience designed to help couples better understand each other, not to assign blame but to work together. It is an opportunity to see your relationship differently and find new solutions together. Reserving a couples session is often a sign that you care deeply about your partner.