02/16/2026
Why it’s about feeling like they’re in control! So it doesn’t feel harder than it should⤵️
You’re not failing, you just need a better way.
Independence isn’t about motivation. It’s about skills, sequencing, and confidence.
➡️Many kids want to be independent but get overwhelmed by too many steps or unclear expectations.
📍So giving them a choice between 2 things helps them regulate and know what to expect.
✅Start here inside the app:
• Using Choices to Stop Conflicts with Kids
Choices reduce resistance and help kids feel capable — not controlled.
🧐What to do next?
👉 Watch Using Choices to Stop Conflicts with Kids in the Parent Support & Mindset section
👉 Check the Events tab for sensory-friendly community outings where kids can practice independence safely