10/21/2025
the mental games we play as we transition from maiden-to-mother, before we allow the softening.
the feminine exists in her pontentizing stillness — a deepened pause, one many have been unfamiliar with. we find ourselves in pregnancy and mothering spiraling in this stillness towards the next thing to do, evaluating every milestone in our birth and children, the planning of an event, scrolling on instagram trying to gather all the information about…
this dominant masculine energy must be unlearned for most of us as we let go of that version of ourselves as “the worker, the do-er, the strength” some of us were taught we had to become to walk through this life.
this requires a deepened surrender into our mother-line as the tone setter and away from our entrepreneurial versions, a falling into the unknown, as we witness our bodies stretch open , and we carry our children through their unfurling.
for some reason i thought this stretch would end in birth, with my child in my arms.
to be our children’s everything as mothers, we supply-on-demand their nourishment, sleep beside one another to wake when they wake, regulate ourselves within one nervous system as the family nervous system, and continue carrying them to new places of expansion. and yes we spiral together, we express together which is why the aid to a mother heals millions.
now this is the surrender. we don’t get our pre-pregnancy bodies back or our life back, we fold into and rise as one family towards a bigger awakening , and a bigger damn stretch.
that’s the power of the feminine, the mother-line, as the great pontentizing of the present for her family and village.
in her stillness the river flows within her and all around her and us as women are grateful for other woman to sit beside her.
here’s to a village on regulated mothers and children.