03/15/2026
Trauma-informed horsemanship does not mean we never get it wrong.
The other day Wyatt and I had a moment where both of our nervous systems escalated.
A mare nearby was in heat and the environment shifted quickly.
Instead of staying grounded in the approach I’m building through Equine Insight, I reacted with more correction than connection.
We both left that interaction disconnected.
But the next day I came back differently.
No agenda.
No pressure.
Just presence.
Brushing.
Walking.
Massage.
And slowly the connection returned.
The truth is this:
progress with horses is not about being perfect.
It’s about recognizing when we miss the moment and having the humility to repair it.
That repair is where trust is built.