03/16/2026
Here are 5 ways to help during a panic attack, for yourself or someone you are trying to help calm.
Panic attacks do not always start with your thoughts.
When the heart races, the chest tightens, and breathing gets shallow, most people think the answer starts in the mind.
But often, the first step is helping the body feel safe again.
At a recent Church Safety Conference, Dr. Emily Kalambaheti spoke about mental health, faith, and answered a question on practical tools that can help regulate the nervous system during moments of stress and/or anxiety.
She shared a 5 ways to respond:
👉 Slow the breath down: Try a short inhale and a longer exhale. Think in for 2, out for 4. Or in for 4, out for 8.
👉 Hum: The vibration can help calm the system.
👉 Sing: Even softly. It can help shift the body out of panic mode.
👉 Gargle: It sounds simple, but it can help stimulate the vagus nerve.
👉 Eat something small: Chewing gum or eating can help send safety signals to the body.
This matters because panic is not always a willpower issue.
Sometimes the nervous system is overwhelmed and needs help settling down.
Most people have seen this happen somewhere, at work, in school, at church, or even in the middle of a store.
🤫 Sometimes the best first response is not more words.
It is helping the body feel safe again.
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