The Center for Sexual and Relational Healing

The Center for Sexual and Relational Healing I am an online Marriage & Family Therapist/ Certified S*x Therapist licensed in Florida & Wisconsin.

So true when you are in a creative space your vasal vagal system is being activated that calms you
10/16/2025

So true when you are in a creative space your vasal vagal system is being activated that calms you

Your imagination can help heal your trauma.
Not by escaping reality—but by rewiring it.

Most people think healing only happens through what’s real—what we do, say, or experience in the outside world.

But neuroscience shows something extraordinary: your brain responds to vividly imagined experiences in many of the same ways it does to real ones.

That means you can start forming new neural pathways of safety and connection even before those experiences happen in real life.

✨ Imagining being held by a caring figure can calm the amygdala and activate oxytocin pathways.
✨ Visualizing yourself setting a boundary or speaking up can strengthen prefrontal circuits involved in self-agency.

While imagination doesn’t fully replicate lived experience, research shows it can activate enough of the same neural pathways to begin changing how the brain encodes safety and connection.

This is what makes imagination one of the most powerful ways to create corrective experiences in trauma healing—moments where your brain and body get to feel, even symbolically, what should have happened but didn’t.

Because trauma locks the brain into rigid patterns—hypervigilance, shutdown, shame loops. Imagination reintroduces flexibility.

Even something as simple as imagining yourself moving, running, or being protected can begin to complete the defensive cycle your body never got to finish.

In that imagined movement, your brain begins to relearn: I can act. I can choose. I’m not frozen anymore. And as those images become felt in the body—not just seen in the mind—they begin to anchor a new sense of safety.

Over time, these imagined experiences activate neuroplasticity—carving new neural pathways that anchor safety, power, and connection where fear once lived.

So when you close your eyes and picture a new ending, don’t dismiss it as “just imagination.”

That’s your brain—and your body—practicing healing in real time.

A great 2 weeks of profession and relational development - the IFS Conference in St Charles Il and the American Associat...
09/30/2025

A great 2 weeks of profession and relational development - the IFS Conference in St Charles Il and the American Association of Christian Counselors in Nashville....So many great talks, learning, connections and mentors....

IFS INFORMED IGNATIAN RETREAT - TAMPA BAY NOV 7-10.Join us post election for time of guided quiet reflection and connect...
09/04/2024

IFS INFORMED IGNATIAN RETREAT - TAMPA BAY NOV 7-10.
Join us post election for time of guided quiet reflection and connection as Fr Jeff Puthoff (Jesuit Priest) leads therapists, spiritual directors and others through the Ignatian Excersise and understanding our parts. The setting - St Leo's Abbey on the beautiful gronds of St Leo University just north of Tampa. Retreants will stay and eat with Benedictine brothers and enjoy sacred surrounding - perfect for quiet and reflection. Space still available. All are welcome...

Kimberly Lee provides a variety of spiritual retreats, and more in Florida.

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Much sadness and grief for such a peaceful town full of memories frommy childhood
11/22/2021

Much sadness and grief for such a peaceful town full of memories from
my childhood

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602 S Boulevard
Tampa, WI
33606

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+14143950167

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http://sexualandrelationalhealing.com/

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