David E Clarke, PhD

David E Clarke, PhD Clinical Psychologist and Author. HOW I CAN HELP YOU
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https://www.davideclarkephd.com Dr. David E. Clarke is a Christian Psychologist, Speaker, and Author.

Through his Bible-based teaching, and therapy, he guides people toward healthy marriages. Dr David Clarke is also the host of the I Don't Want a Divorce Podcast. Listen here; https://linktr.ee/drdavidclarke

For more information and marriage resources, visit: http://davideclarkephd.com/

11/14/2025

The divorce from your narcissistic ex may be over… but the healing journey has just begun.

Even after you’ve left your narcissist, the emotional and spiritual wounds don’t disappear overnight.

You still have to heal from:
💔 The trauma he caused
💔 The damage to your confidence and faith
💔 The impact on your kids

That’s why I wrote I Didn’t Want a Divorce — Now What?
It’s your biblical recovery manual for healing, rebuilding your life, and teaching your children how to manage their narcissistic ex-parent.

God’s plan for you isn’t survival — it’s freedom and joy.
Start your healing journey at 👉 DavidEClarkePhD.com

11/13/2025

A toxic relationship doesn’t just hurt your heart, it kills your confidence, your purpose, and your masculinity one argument at a time.

Most men think they can “talk it out.”
But you can’t reason with a narcissistic woman.
You can only rise above her through strength, mental, emotional, and spiritual.

When you start working out, journaling, healing, and finding purpose again… she feels it.

Because the moment you stop reacting, she loses control.

Self-improvement isn’t about being perfect.
It’s about becoming unmanipulatable,the 2.0 version of yourself she can no longer break.

Brother… she was never your peace.
She was your prison.
It’s time to walk out and build your freedom

11/13/2025

If you’re still trapped with a narcissist, you need a plan — not more prayers for him to change.
God isn’t asking you to stay in bo***ge. He’s calling you to clarity, truth, and freedom.

Here’s the escape roadmap 👇
1️⃣ Realize you’re living with a narcissist — come out of the fog (My Marriage Hurts).
2️⃣ Eliminate the codependent lies keeping you stuck (20 Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser).
3️⃣ Break the trauma bond that ties you to him (Codependent Hell).

Each step matters. Each one moves you closer to peace, sanity, and spiritual strength.

You’ll find every resource at DavidEClarkePhD.com — that’s Clarke with an E.

11/12/2025

Being married to a narcissist is a nightmare.
But divorcing one? It’s another nightmare, and most of the Christian community won’t tell you that.

They’ll say, “Stay and pray.”
I say, no, survive and escape.

In my book Escaping Your Narcissist, I walk you through the step-by-step process of divorcing a narcissist biblically, safely, and strategically.

Because God never asked you to stay and be destroyed by abuse.

📘 Learn how to:
✅ Protect your sanity during divorce
✅ Keep your kids close
✅ Navigate a toxic, manipulative ex
✅ Heal and rebuild your life with God’s strength

Available now at DavidEClarkePhD.com

11/11/2025

Leaving and divorcing a narcissist isn’t easy — it’s brutal, painful, and confusing.

But God never called you to stay chained to abuse.

Here’s the truth ⬇️
1️⃣ Realize you’re with a narcissist — come out of the fog.
2️⃣ Reject the codependent lies keeping you stuck.
3️⃣ Break the trauma bond that ties you to the abuser.
4️⃣ Heal from the abuse and rebuild your life — and your children’s lives — after divorce.

This is your biblical roadmap to freedom from narcissistic abuse.

If you’ve been praying for clarity, this is it.

11/09/2025

Some Christians will pressure you to “stay,” “submit,” and even “keep having s*x” with a narcissist who abuses you.
They’re wrong — and the Bible makes that clear.

God’s Word never commands you to tolerate narcissistic abuse.

In fact, Scripture tells you to separate from the unrepentant:

📖 Matthew 18:15–17 — Confront, then separate.
📖 Romans 16:17 — Avoid divisive, destructive people.
📖 Titus 3:10–11 — Warn the sinner, then have nothing to do with them.
📖 2 Timothy 3:1–5 — Describes the narcissist perfectly… and says, “Have nothing to do with them.”

God is not calling you to endure s*xual, emotional, or spiritual abuse from a narc.

11/07/2025

You have every Biblical and emotional right to stop physical intimacy with an abusive husband.

S*x with a narcissist isn’t love, it’s ongoing trauma.

If you’ve been pressured by “Christian advice” to keep giving yourself to a man who wounds, controls, and degrades you, hear this:

Your body is your own. God calls you to protect it.

This short clip from my video series He’s Not Changing explains why emotional and physical detachment are critical steps in breaking free from your abuser.

It’s that time of year again, and I’m kicking off an early Black Friday sale on all of my eBooks and online courses at d...
11/07/2025

It’s that time of year again, and I’m kicking off an early Black Friday sale on all of my eBooks and online courses at davideclarkephd.com

From now until November 30th, everything is 50% off.

If you’ve been waiting to get one of my resources, now’s the time:

The Narcissist Un-Momed Me - How to fight back and win your kids back
He’s Not Changing – Understand why the narcissist will never change.

Codependent Hell – Break free from the trauma bond for good.

Escaping Your Narcissist – A step-by-step plan for a safe, Biblical divorce.

My Child Is in Love with a Narcissist – How to rescue your son or daughter from a toxic relationship.


You can grab all of these (and more) right now for half the usual price.

Here’s the link:
ebooks 👉 https://www.davideclarkephd.com/bookstore
courses 👉 https://www.davideclarkephd.com/video-series

This deal ends Saturday, November 30th at 9PM EST — once it’s gone, it’s gone.

Dr. David E. Clarke

11/07/2025

When it comes to dealing with a narcissist, some clueless Christians will often pressure you to keep having s*x with your narcissistic spouse.


11/06/2025

Having s*x with your abusive narcissistic husband isn’t intimacy — it’s trauma.

Dr. David Clarke says it plainly:
When you’re forced, pressured, or guilted into s*x by a man who continually abuses you emotionally or physically… that’s not love.
💔 It’s s*xual abuse.
💔 It’s emotional violation.
💔 It’s trauma disguised as marriage.

Most people in the church don’t understand this, because they’ve never experienced it — but you know the truth.
Every time you make yourself vulnerable to a man who hurts you, it rips you apart a little more inside.

You have every biblical right to set boundaries, protect your body, and begin your healing.
God does not call you to be s*xually available to your abuser.

📘 Watch Dr. Clarke’s full message and learn how to break free from your narcissist in his series “He’s Not Changing.”
Available only at DavidEClarkePhD.com — that’s Clarke with an E.

11/05/2025

Many abused women are told by well-meaning but clueless Christians to “keep meeting his needs” — even if he’s emotionally or physically abusive.

But here’s the truth:
💔 Having s*x with an abusive narcissist isn’t intimacy. It’s trauma.
Every time you give in, it wounds you on a deep internal level.
It enables him… and it keeps you stuck in the cycle of abuse.

Dr. David Clarke explains that a big part of escaping your narcissistic husband is emotional and physical detachment.
You have every right to stop physical intimacy with your abuser.
And when you do, you’ll begin to regain your strength, your peace, and your identity.

Learn more in Dr. Clarke’s powerful video series “He’s Not Changing” — where you’ll discover why he won’t change and how you can.

Find it exclusively at DavidEClarkePhD.com (Clarke with an E).

11/04/2025

How narcissists make you the problem in the relationship.

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