01/18/2026
Narcissists don’t target weak women.
They target the fixers.
Fixers are often people who grew up with inconsistent love—warm and connected one moment, distant the next. That kind of childhood teaches the nervous system to tolerate crumbs and call it love.
As adults, this can show up as limerence: falling hard and fast, idealizing someone, becoming emotionally consumed, and believing that if you just try harder or give more, they’ll finally choose you.
That isn’t love.
It’s a trauma-based attachment pattern.
Limerence is driven by longing, fear of rejection, and familiar emotional chaos—not secure connection. And it can be healed.
When the inner child learns safety and consistency, attraction shifts. Love stops feeling like a roller coaster and starts feeling calm.
✨ Hypnotherapy can help gently rewire these patterns.
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