Tucker Christian Counseling

04/12/2026

Forgiveness, forgiveness, and forgiveness…..
Receiving God’s forgiveness, forgiving each other, and forgiving self….. are all necessary facets of true freedom.

It was at the cross that Jesus ushered in grace, mercy, and forgiveness, giving us the opportunity to be reconciled with Him and with one another—bringing His body back together.

Even as He hung on the cross, Jesus prayed:
“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing….”
Luke 23:34 (NIV)

“When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness, which stood against us and condemned us; he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross.”
Colossians 2:13–14 (NIV)

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”
1 John 1:9 (NIV)

Jesus gives grace, mercy and forgiveness to the adulteress woman….
“The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” “No one, sir,” she said.
“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”
John 8:3–11 (NIV)

04/04/2026

It is finished! ❤️☝🏻

The crucifixion was necessary so that a holy God could righteously deal with sin while opening the way for sinners to be fully forgiven, made new, and brought back into relationship with Him through faith in Christ

Jesus—fully God and fully man, yet without sin—took our place. He bore the judgment our sins deserved (“the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all”), satisfying God’s justice, so that God can forgive without compromising His holiness. His shed blood provides cleansing and a new covenant, and His death breaks the power of sin, death, and the devil.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” John 3:16–17

“He himself bore our sins in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; ‘by his wounds you have been healed.’”
1 Peter 2:24

“When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness, which stood against us and condemned us; he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross. And having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross.”
Colossians 2:13–15

03/29/2026

Nothing to fear!

Nothing in your life escapes His awareness. He upholds the universe by His word and His power. Nothing lies outside His authority. Nothing is wasted under His sovereign hand. Even what feels chaotic to us is not chaotic to Him—it is being woven into a design that is in line with His predestined perfect purpose.

This means every heartbeat, every breath, every rise and fall of nations is not random, but sustained. Creation wasn’t simply set in motion and abandoned; it is actively, continually held together—moment by moment—by Jesus Christ Himself.

“The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of His being, sustaining all things by His powerful word. After He had provided purification for sins, He sat down”
Hebrews 1:3 (NIV)

Love you my Lord, my King and closest Friend! ❤

02/12/2026

The Great Commission is for every Christian!

Deliverance is not the finish line but the beginning of a Holy Spirit–empowered life that pushes back darkness and advances the Kingdom.

When captives are set free, they are not meant to return to life as usual. They become living, breathing testimonies of God’s transforming power—vessels of His Spirit, carriers of His presence. Their stories of redemption become weapons of warfare, breaking chains and igniting hope in the lives of others.

It is the entrance into a life of mission—living proof that Jesus is still the transformer, setting captives free while moving them in line with His perfect purpose.

Jesus came to them and said….
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”
Matthew 28:18–20 (NIV)

Jesus said to them:
"Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father." (John 14:12 NIV)

Jesus also commissioned:
“Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned. And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues; they will pick up snakes with their hands; and when they drink deadly poison, it will not hurt them at all; they will place their hands on sick people, and they will get well.”
(Mark 16:15–18 NIV)

Thank you Lord for not letting us perish! Thank you for giving us the opportunity to get to know You personally! ❤️

12/28/2025

There’s a different kind of wine flowing here in Temecula Valley Wine Country…. taste it and see!

The new wine of the New Covenant flows through new wineskins, Spirit-filled believers, carried not by religion, rules or human striving, but by the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit who brings truth to life, transforms the heart and renews the mind.

“He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.”
2 Corinthians 3:6 (NIV)

Love you Lord! ❤

12/24/2025

Religion vs. Relationship

Jesus, please pull back the vail..... let them see You for who You really are. Come quickly Lord... please come quickly! 🙏🏻

Jesus wants a relationship with His creation.
Religion is humanity’s attempt to strive for God’s approval. Salvation, however, is not about earning approval—it is about receiving Jesus Christ, who is our approval before the Father. This establishes a relationship built on love rather than performance, and on God’s sufficiency rather than our own.

“Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’”
(Matthew 7:22–23 NIV)

Born-again, Spirit-filled, Spirit-led believers are the new wineskins, and the New Covenant—established through Christ’s blood and empowered by the Holy Spirit—is the new wine.

“Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.”
(2 Corinthians 3:5-6 NIV).

12/19/2025

The Holidays can be very challenging for some!

If you’re struggling…. don’t give up… look up and reach out! There is One who knows your story and cares! Jesus, the Good Shephard loves you and wants to help you! ❤

“For you were like sheep going astray, but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls.”
1 Peter 2:25 (NIV)

“When He saw the crowds, He had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.”
Matthew 9:36 (NIV)

Thank you Lord! Happy Birthday! ❤

10/19/2025

The true love of God - How He rescued me, restored me and gave me purpose!
A skinny version of where it all started....... how it was, what happened, how Jesus intervened....... and how it is today!
Eternally grateful Lord! ❤

In this episode of Compelled, Stephanie welcomes her first guest — her husband, Robert Tucker. Together they share their story of commitment, forgiveness, an...

07/11/2025

“Transformation is progressive, not instantaneous—an ongoing process of inner change.
It’s not about trying harder or striving to fix ourselves. It’s about yielding to the work of the Holy Spirit within us.
This transformation begins in the spirit—where we are made new in Christ—and continues as our minds are renewed by truth.

As the Holy Spirit works in us, He conforms us into the image of Christ.
This affects every part of who we are:
Our character is refined.
Our desires are purified.
Our behaviors begin to align with God’s will—not out of obligation, but out of love.

We are not called to perfection overnight.
We are invited into a journey of growth, healing, and identity—where grace leads and truth transforms.”

— Dr. Robert T. Tucker

07/09/2025

Let’s get real for a moment.

Not everything you're struggling with is demonic. But not everything is just a habit either.
Some strongholds have a spiritual root—and they need to be dealt with spiritually.
Others are patterns you’ve been practicing for years, often without even realizing it.

The key is learning to tell the difference.

Some things need to be cast out—straight up.
Other things need to be retrained—with time and truth.

That’s why we need both deliverance and discipline. One without the other leaves us unbalanced.

🗝 Deliverance clears out what doesn’t belong—spiritual junk that’s taken up space in your life for too long.
🧠 Discipline teaches your soul a new way to think, feel, and respond—according to the Word of God.

If you want real freedom, you need to walk in both power and process.
You need to know when to fight with authority—and when to surrender to truth and let God renew your mind.

I’ve seen too many people quit too early because they didn’t understand this.
And I’ve seen too many others chase deliverance after deliverance, wondering why they still feel broken.

You need both. And the Holy Spirit will guide you—if you’re willing to listen.

07/07/2025

🕊️ You Were Redeemed for a Reason

You weren’t just saved from something—you were saved for something.

God didn’t pull you out of the pit to leave you standing still.
He redeemed you to release you into purpose.

Your healing isn’t random.
Every tear, every scar, every breakthrough is part of a story that carries power.

👉 Someone needs to hear what you’ve walked through.
👉 Someone needs to see that freedom is possible.
👉 Someone needs to know—because of you—that God still redeems and restores.

07/04/2025

🕊️ True Freedom in Christ�
“What you know—and even more importantly, Who you know—makes all the difference when facing spiritual battles and navigating through brokenness. A personal relationship with Jesus, coupled with His wisdom and the guidance and power of the Holy Spirit, is essential for discerning truth and walking in lasting freedom.
Once freedom is attained, it requires intentional effort to maintain. Spiritual growth, constant reliance on God, and a commitment to living out His truths day by day are necessary to guard and nurture that freedom. Transformation is a continual process, and maintaining freedom means staying aligned with God's truth, strengthening our relationship with Jesus, all while keeping the doors closed to any new spiritual attacks or influences.”�— Dr. Robert T. Tucker