05/04/2023
It is human’s innate nature to seek out a connection through bonding. When someone experiences trauma and other forms of hardship, and feels as if they cannot find human connection, they will find a way to bond with something else…such as alcohol, drugs, or other addictive things. It is recommended that instead of cutting an addict off while they are in their depths of addiction, we should be there for them and offer support while setting firm boundaries. When we take away the human connection that an addict does have, such as cutting someone off, it is fair to hypothesize that the addiction will only worsen.
Having authentic connections with family or even a small group of friends can provide enormous mental health benefits. Forming close connections helps to add meaning and purpose to an individual’s life, especially through addiction and during the recovery process. As an addict connects with healthy natural supports, their desire to engage in destructive habits will decrease. This is because people bond with others over the process of healing and supporting each other.
Though it may be difficult to support someone who is battling addiction, or who is in the recovery process, it is crucial to offer hope, support, and encouragement, all while suggesting strategies and providing resources for change.
