01/24/2026
A little girl walked up to Bhikkhu Pannakara with the purest request in the world —
“Can I have a hug?” 🥰
The monk smiled… and gently said no.
Not because he didn’t care.
Not because he was distant.
But because he was faithful to his path.
In the monastic life, there are clear vows. Monks do not touch women or girls — ever. It’s not personal, it’s discipline. It’s how they protect their practice, their clarity, and their commitment to a life of renunciation.
Seeing the little girl’s confusion, the monk softly asked,
“Who did you come with?”
She pointed proudly to her mother.
He laughed and said,
“Oh… you’re a female too!” 🤣
Then he noticed the father standing nearby. The monk lightly touched the dad’s arm — and just like that, the whole family leaned in together. A rule-respecting, heart-warming group hug happened anyway. 👐
✨ That’s the beauty of wisdom — it finds compassion within boundaries, not by breaking them.
This is something many people don’t realize:
Monks can’t always accept gifts
They can’t pose for one-on-one photos
They may say “no” even when their hearts say “yes”
And that “no” is not rejection.
It’s reverence — for their vows.
This is also why the Walk for Peace touches people so deeply.
When monks walk silently through streets, they aren’t protesting, performing, or preaching. They’re reminding us — without words — that peace begins with restraint, humility, and presence. Their stillness unsettles something inside us… and then heals it.
People pause.
Hearts soften.
Egos quiet down.
And then there’s Aloka 🐾 — walking alongside, doing what animals do best: loving without conditions, without rules, without ego. A rescued soul reminding humans how simple compassion really is.
Together — monks, the walk, and Aloka — create something rare: A moving lesson in humanity.
So if a monk ever refuses a hug, a photo, or a request — don’t take it personally.
Take it wisely.
Respect the journey.
Receive the lesson.
And let the peace walk with you long after they’ve passed.