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12/18/2025

A Fresh Way to Think About The Meaning Triangle

09/09/2025

☀️ A Moment of Meaning

“Behind the clouds the sun is still shining.” – Logotherapy Metaphor

Even when it’s hidden by the clouds, the sun is always there. Its light is only veiled, not extinguished. A veiling of the light, yet still shines. The light persists.

By maintaining one’s will in the face of difficulties, with this attitude one can overcome even the greatest adversities. In a time of darkness, it furthers one to be persevering.

Just as the sun does not cease to exist when clouds obscure it, the meaning of life does not vanish in the face of suffering. It is simply hidden from view. Viktor Frankl, in his reflections on survival in N**i concentration camps, reminds us how meaning and spiritual freedom can persist even in the darkest and most despairing circumstances.

Although he was held a prisoner, he did not allow external misery to deflect him from his convictions. In order to escape danger and adversity one needs invincible perseverance of spirit.

In the depths of the harshest winter, one discovers an invincible summer.

🧠 Practice This: Triumph through Attitude

Frankl's logotherapy emphasizes that while we cannot always control our external circumstances, we can always choose our attitude. It is not about what we go through, but how we go through it. By the attitude we give it.

Reframe the Tragic Triad into a Triumph Triad:

- Pain/Suffering --> Transform into human achievement and accomplishment
- Shame/Guilt --> An invitation to change oneself for the better
- Death --> A reminder of life’s transitoriness, awakening us to responsible action

Even when life feels overwhelming, pause and ask: What attitude do I choose to give it? This act of conscious choice transforms suffering into growth, resilience, and meaning.

🌱 The Deeper Why

Meaning and spiritual freedom have permanence and are unconditional, independent of external conditions. The sun's light is always there, but we must choose to remember it and find it.

The clouds represent unavoidable suffering while the sun represents the eternal light of love, hope, and purpose that can never truly be extinguished.

By cultivating awareness of this inner light, we maintain hope, strengthen our character, and continue forward with courage, even in life’s most trying moments.

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* Reflections inspired by text found in the I-Ching, Wilhelm/Baynes

09/05/2025

Meaning Through the 7 Pillars of Self-Esteem

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08/17/2025

✨ A Moment of Meaning

“No man should judge unless he asks himself in absolute honesty whether in a similar situation he might not have done the same.” – Viktor Frankl

What is justice? If harm is done, how should we respond?

The wind stirs the water by moving deeply within it.

In the same way, when a person must judge the mistakes of others, the highest approach is to reach into their minds and hearts with a deep understanding — to truly grasp the circumstances that shaped their actions and to gain appreciation for the human story behind them.

This was once considered the highest form of justice: a wisdom that knows how to pardon mistakes and forgive misdeeds not out of weakness, but from a clear-sighted strength.

Through clarity, we bring deliverance.

When failings come to light, those with clarity do not linger on them — they pass over mistakes just as thunder fades away, forgives misdeeds just as water washes everything clean.

By reaching into the hearts of others, we establish the foundation of trust necessary in which collective transformation can take place.

Such trust requires a heart free of prejudices and therefore a heart open to truth.

🧠 Practice This: Forgiving Self and Other
Forgiveness often begins with ourselves.
Start simply: “I forgive myself for judging myself and others”
Let go of the weight of judgment toward yourself and others.

When offering an apology, aim for both sincerity and accountability:
1. Acknowledge the offense.
2. Provide an Explanation — not a justification.
3. Express remorse.
4. Offer amends and a commitment to improve.

🌿 The Deeper Why: It takes courage and vulnerability to admit wrongdoing and take steps to make things right. Done with humility, forgiveness restores dignity, mends trust, and protects the heart from the corrosive effects of blame and resentment.

It does not erase responsibility or allow harmful behavior to continue. Instead, it frees us from the grip of condemnation and self-criticism, creating space for growth, grace, and the reminder that the best is yet to come.

Forgiveness is always available. The question is whether we choose to pick it up.

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* Reflections inspired by text found in the I-Ching, Wilhelm/Baynes

08/14/2025

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08/10/2025

Meaning-Centered Psychotherapy for Psilocybin-Assisted Therapy Among Patients with Advanced Cancer and Depression: Rationale and Preliminary Evaluation of MCP-PSIL

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08/10/2025

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06/22/2025

🌞 A Moment of Meaning

“No one you love is ever truly lost.” — Ernest Hemingway ✨

This line from For Whom the Bell Tolls, stands as a soft rebellion against despair. Hemingway offers a rare glimpse of tenderness. While life is impermanent, love gives us permanence.

Love, once shared, endures.

The people we’ve loved—whether they’re gone physically or emotionally—remain with us. Their impact doesn’t vanish, the love shared with them lives on.

It weaves itself into memory, into the lives we’ve touched, into our choices, into who we become. It deepens.

Viktor Frankl observed, “Nothing is irretrievably lost but everything irrevocably stored.”

Whether through spirit or story, what we’ve lived and how we’ve loved holds eternal significance. All experiences, as it passes into the immediacy of this moment, is forever saved and cherished. Held in duration becoming part of a living time.

Nothing real is ever truly lost.

The universe remembers, and so do we.

🧠 Practice This: Feeling Connected

Humans have an innate drive toward compassion. One that grows stronger when we feel connected to others.

This week’s practice invites you to reflect on a moment when you felt a deep sense of connection with someone.

Write about that experience. Then ask yourself: How does that connection still shape my choices and values today? In what ways did your experience make you feel close and connected to that person?

Let the memory of that bond guide you. Compassion begins where connection is remembered.

🍃 The Deeper Why

Grief often tells us something is gone. But meaning tells us something has been given.

Those who come to understand and learn to see in end and beginning, in death and life, in loss and growth, begin to rise above the limitations of time and reach those regions which lies beyond.

In the end, “when we leave this earth, we can take nothing that we have received—only what we have given.”

When we live in this way, we touch eternity.

06/08/2025

🧘 A Moment of Meaning

“Human kindness can be found in all groups, even those which as a whole it would be easy to condemn.” – Viktor Frankl ✨

True leadership begins with service and a heart of kindness. The most meaningful influence doesn’t come from controlling others, but from serving with presence, humility, and care.

In a culture where leadership is often confused with control or dominance, Frankl’s wisdom flips the script: true leadership arises from a kind and humble heart.

When our actions come from a genuine spirit, the impact spreads and multiplies. Others naturally recognize its sincerity, and in that recognition, a ripple effect begins.

If in truth you have a kind heart, and if kindness is recognized as your virtue, then your purpose has been fulfilled in full.

🧠 Practice This: 5 Random Acts of Kindness

(1) Choose one day this week to commit five small acts of kindness.

(2) They can be simple:
o A genuine compliment
o Send an encouraging text
o Pay for someone's coffee
o Help someone with a small task
o Just offer your silence and presence

(3) At the end of the day, reflect: How did it feel to give without needing anything in return? What did it open in you?

🍃 The Deeper Why

Kindness is contagious, and it spreads not through grand gestures, but through small, intentional acts that echo far beyond the moment.

In a world often driven by urgency, proving, and self-protection, kindness can feel radical. Yet, it's precisely what softens defenses and opens hearts.

In practicing generosity of spirit, we tune ourselves to the deeper rhythms of life: connection, compassion, and meaning. The more we act from this place of human kindness, the more we reinforce the world we want to live in.

It’s remembering that leadership begins not with status, but with service. When you serve with sincerity in your heart, you lead with soul.

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* Reflections inspired by text found in the I-Ching, Wilhelm/Baynes

06/01/2025

🌞 A Moment of Meaning

“Laugh at yourself.” – Viktor Frankl

This simple quote contains profound medicine. In humanity’s search for psychological security, we often forget that the more we try to feel safe, the more unsafe we become. When we anxiously grip the need for certainty, we inadvertently create the very insecurity we hope to avoid.

To put it simply: the desire for security is the same thing as the feeling of insecurity. Insecurity is the result of trying to be secure, as Alan Watts insightfully noted.

Anxiety and fear arise from the fundamental human desire to live and thrive. We worry because we feel unsafe and we want to feel safe. And yet emotional freedom and sanity lie in the radical acceptance that we have no way of saving ourselves.

Like something out of Alice in Wonderland, we find ourselves in a world turned upside down.

The contradiction lies in the conflict between the desire for security to ensure our survival and the fact that life is always changing. Trying to defend ourselves against the change is to separate from life itself and that separation is what makes us feel insecure.
Paradoxically, the more we allow life to be uncertain, the more grounded we become.

🧠 Practice This: Paradoxical Intention

This week, experiment with Paradoxical Intention, a core technique in logotherapy and one of Frankl’s greatest contributions.

Try this: Notice one anxiety this week, and for a moment, instead of avoiding the fear or habit, try leaning into it on purpose. “Prescribe the symptom” and see what shifts when you stop resisting and start engaging with it from a place of curiosity or even laughter.

The idea is this: instead of resisting or avoiding a symptom, you’re invited to intentionally exaggerate it. Say “yes” to it fully, as if it were exactly what you’d been hoping for. For example, someone afraid of blushing in public might try to blush as hard as possible on purpose.

In doing so, the absurdity becomes clear, self-detachment grows, and the fear loosens its grip. This approach interrupts the vicious cycle of fear-resistance-fear, replacing it with playful acceptance.

Instead of trying to fix feelings, we can change our attitude toward them—choosing to live in spite of them.

🍃 The Deeper Why

Life is living paradox. As Suzuki Roshi said, “If it’s not a paradox, it’s not the truth.” The divine paradox is not a riddle to be solved, but a mystery to be lived.

Grief and joy, fear and freedom, longing and letting go—they all belong. To be “cured” does not mean eliminating discomfort, in fact the opposite, it means engagement with life and taking meaningful action even in the presence of difficult emotions, without being ruled by them.

The situation may be difficult, but the inner power to carry it through is there. Maybe a good laugh is all it takes.

In saying Yes to Life—exactly as it is—with all its uncertainty and unpredictability, we begin to rediscover our wholeness. When we stop needing life to be different, we begin to live it more fully.

"Paradox as it may seem, we likewise find life meaningful only when we are convinced that we know nothing about it."

To affirm life, even in its absurdity, is the most courageous and creative act of all.

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05/25/2025

🌞 A Moment of Meaning

“If we can stay with the tension of opposites long enough—sustain it, be true to it—we can sometimes become vessels within which the divine opposites come together and give birth to a new reality.” – Marie-Louise von Franz

Jungian psychology reminds us that if we wish to achieve an effect, we must first investigate and understand the forces at play so that each finds its place. In a time of transition, when order has yet to emerge from disorder, the task is great, but with a promise of success because there is a goal that can bring the opposing forces into harmony. Therefore, one must separate things in order to unite them. This careful handling of opposites—like fire and water—prepares the ground for something entirely new. It is the essence of alchemical transformation: discovering meaning in the midst of confusion, preparing for a new beginning with deliberation and care.

🧠 Practice This:

Sit with the Opposites (IFS-Inspired)

Reflect this week on the inner opposites you carry. Choose a quiet moment this week to pause and sit with two parts of yourself that seem to be in tension — for example, one that wants to grow and take risks, and another that feels afraid or reluctant. Rather than resolve or eliminate these tensions, practice holding them gently.

Try journaling or dialoguing with both sides:

1. Notice where each part lives in the body.
2. Breathe gently and let each part speak, without fixing or judging.
3. Just witness the tension with curiosity and compassion.

This practice is not about solving or choosing sides — it's about increasing your capacity to hold both with compassion. From this inner space, new clarity can begin to arise. Let your inner space become a vessel for something new to be born.

🍃 The Deeper Why

We live in a time between times—a space where much feels unfinished, uncertain, and disordered. But transition is sacred. Meaning is often born from the tension between who you are and who you are called to become. The potential for a more beautiful world, like a forest reborn more freshly green after a fire and the redoubled beauty after the rain, it all depends on how we handle this space in-between.

Unity cannot be forced; it must be prepared for with care, like alchemists handling precious and volatile elements.

By staying with the tension, we participate in the sacred task of inner and collective birth and renewal. The gold of the new era is formed in the furnace of opposites.

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05/11/2025

🧘 A Moment of Meaning

“Without music, life would be a mistake.” — Nietzsche

Why does music move us so deeply? How can it reach through time and memory, ease grief, stir love, bring us to tears, and even save our lives? Music moves us in ways that remain mysterious. Some say the Great Ancestors sang the world into being. From the beginning of time, music has carried the inspiring effect of the invisible sound that moves all hearts. Music is the purest and most profound expression of nature. The great uniter, drawing all together, transcending language, culture, and belief. Even where people differ, music offers something in common. At our core, we are a music-making species. Music is not just sound — it reveals the soul. Every heart sings a song, each melody a rhythm of life, transformed into beauty, love, and a remembrance calling you back to your origin.

🧠 Practice This: The Bonny Method 🎶

This week, explore the power of music using a 3-part process known in music therapy as the Bonny Method:

1. Preparation – Set a quiet space and clear intention. Reflect on what feelings are being stirred within. What part of your soul wants to be heard?

2. Music Journey – Drift and let the music take the lead for about 45 minutes. Choose an instrumental playlist, which could include classical or mostly non-verbal and culturally diverse music. Turn inward, eyes closed, lying down. Listen with your whole body. Let yourself feel, move, or be still. Stay open and trust the music.

3. Integration – Journal, draw, go for a walk, or simply sit with what arose. Ask: What emotions were stirred? What parts came up? Images? What emotional truth revealed itself through sound?

In many traditions, rituals and journeys have been accompanied by music. In psychedelic-assisted therapy, music serves as a powerful medium, moving the traveler through expanded states. The task is to trust the music, allowing it to lead and reveal deeper truths along the way.

🍃 The Deeper Why

Music is medicine—one of our greatest tools for healing. Music has always held the power to soothe, to elevate, to unite. Designed to purify emotions, it has the power to ease tension within the heart and loosen the grip of trapped feelings. Music invites us into communion with the world of the unseen. It uplifts the mind, stirs the imagination, and gives wings to the soul.

Music has moral significance. Revered as something holy, music speaks when words fall short. Music becomes a sacred offering. It opens a path and constructs a bridge to the invisible, used to connect, to communicate, to express, and bring a sense of meaning into the everyday.

It remains one of the most sacred and uniting forces we share—one of our greatest communal gifts.

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