Milkins Trymbiski & Kirkhoff Funeral Home

11/14/2025

Our hearts are with the families, friends, and neighbors grieving recent tragedies in our community. During times like these, it’s hard to find the right words or know what to do — but it’s important to remember that no one has to face grief alone.

If you or someone you know is struggling after a loss, please know that there are resources available to help.
💙 Berks County Mental Health Crisis Line: 610-236-0530
💙 SAMHSA’s 24/7 Helpline: 1-800-662-4357
💙 National Su***de & Crisis Lifeline: 988

Our team at Milkins Trymbiski and Kirkhoff Funeral Homes is also here to connect families with local grief support programs, counselors, and peer groups. Healing takes time — and it begins with reaching out.

You are not alone. 🕯️

11/13/2025

🌌 Northern Lights Over the Coast & Home

Last night, our owner Sam was sent these incredible photos of the northern lights from her home in Ocean City, Maryland — and it looks like we may even get another glimpse here in Berks County tonight!

It’s not often we get to see something this far south, and even if you can’t spot them easily with the naked eye, try using your phone or camera — sometimes the lens picks up colors our eyes can’t see. 💫

If skies stay clear, take a moment to step outside, look north, and see what you can capture. Nature has a way of surprising us when we take the time to look up.

11/12/2025

Grace Irene Wirtz

Grace Irene Wirtz, 89 of Bernville passed away on November 8 at Reading Hospital.

She was the daughter of the late Walter and Grace (Taylor) Bisson. Irene was born in the family home, August 7, 1936 in Southhampton, PA.

She married the love of her life, William Wirtz, Jr. on Oct. 2, 1957. They enjoyed 47 years of marriage before he passed on June 7, 2004

Irene had one son, William Wirtz III who passed away May 26, 2013.

She enjoyed jigsaw and word search puzzles and gardening. Irene cherished her beloved pets.

Per Irene's wishes there will be no service. Burial is private at Doylestown Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations to Salvation Army, Bernville Fire Co. & Ambulance can be made in her honor.

View Grace Irene Wirtz's obituary, send flowers, find service dates, and sign the guestbook.

11/10/2025

Betty I. Henne

Betty I. Henne, 96, of Bernville, passed away Monday, November 3, 2025 at Berks Heim. She was the loving wife of the late Richard A. Henne. She was the daughter of the late Raymond and Erma Long of Bernville.

Betty was a homemaker for much of her life. She was also known as "The Cheese Lady" at Troutman's IGA in Bernville for many years. Betty enjoyed counted cross stitch and other embroidery.

Betty was active in the Bernville Woman's Club, St. Thomas Church, and Young at Hearts. Betty enjoyed holiday dinners with her family. She looked forward to dining with friends and family followed by card games at the Henne house.

Betty is survived by her children, Rowena Henderson, wife of Stephen Henderson, of Bernville and Kerry Henne, husband of Joan (Armstrong), of Davenport, Florida. She was preceded in death by one son, Dale Henne, husband of Joan Henne, of Bernville. She has six grandchildren, Jeffrey, Lisa, Matthew, Chad, Brady, and Danielle; 12 great-grandchildren; One great-great-grandchild. Also surviving is a brother, Carl Long of Millville, DE.

Funeral Services will be private at the convenience of the family with Pastor Stephen Hollinger officiating and interment will be held in St. Thomas Cemetery, Bernville.

Memorial contributions in Betty's name may be made to a charity of your choice.

Arrangements are entrusted to the Kirkhoff Funeral Home, Bernville.

View Betty I. Henne's obituary, send flowers, find service dates, and sign the guestbook.

11/07/2025

🌿 “Should I Have a Funeral?” 🌿
We found a meaningful article titled “Should I Have a Funeral?” which explores an important question families face after a loss: is a funeral really necessary? The piece explains that yes—a thoughtful service can play a vital role in helping friends and family acknowledge the reality of the death, share memories, express grief, support one another, and begin the healing process. (https://www.funeralbasics.org/should-i-have-a-funeral/)

At Milkins Trymbiski Funeral Home & Kirkoff Funeral Home we believe in tailoring this experience to fit you. Times are changing — and so is the way we honor those who have died. Whether a traditional service, a simple gathering, or something more personal — what matters most is that you and your loved ones find comfort and connection. 💙

If you’ve ever wondered “Should I have a funeral?”, or want to explore different ways to make it meaningful, we’re here to talk it through.

After a loved one dies, should you have a funeral? Learn why we have funerals and how they can help your family.

11/03/2025

11/03/2025

🎃 A House of Love, Laughter, and Community 🎃
This Halloween, the halls of our Kirkoff Funeral Home location were filled with giggles, costumes, and candy — not sorrow. We love moments like this, when the children of our staff, family, and friends fill the space with life and joy. 💛

Our funeral home is more than a place of goodbye — it’s a place of love, community, and connection. Seeing little ones play just steps away from where we help families honor their loved ones reminds us what our work is truly about: celebrating life in all its seasons. 🌻

11/01/2025

Honoring Life and Memory: Día de los Mu***os 💐💀

Día de los Mu***os, or Day of the Dead, is a vibrant Mexican tradition celebrated on November 1st and 2nd. It’s not a day of sorrow, but one of remembrance—honoring loved ones who have passed by celebrating their lives with color, music, and love.

Ways to Celebrate:
🌼 Create an ofrenda (altar) decorated with marigolds, candles, photos, and favorite foods of your loved ones.
🍞 Enjoy traditional treats like pan de mu**to or sugar skulls.
🕯️ Share stories, songs, and memories that keep their spirit alive.

It’s a reminder that love transcends time, and those we’ve lost remain with us in heart and memory. 💛

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10/30/2025

We’ll be handing out treats at Kirkhoff Funeral Home (Bernville) on Halloween night. Bring the kiddos in costume, snap a cute photo, and say hi—we love seeing our neighbors! We’ll have candy, stickers, and lots of smiles. 👻🍬

Stop by, be safe, and have a wonderful Halloween!

10/22/2025

We’re honored to have won Best Overall: Halloween Theme! 👻 Thanks to everyone who stopped by and joined the fun! 🕸️🕷️

10/20/2025

🎃 Trunk or Treat 2025 was a huge success! 🎃

We had an amazing turnout and so much fun seeing all the creative costumes, decorated trunks, and smiling faces. 👻🍬

Thank you to everyone who stopped by to celebrate with us — your energy and Halloween spirit made the night extra special! 🧡🕸️

Check out some of our favorite moments below! ⬇️

10/19/2025

📈 Cremation is on the rise, and with that comes a common misconception — that choosing cremation means you can’t have a visitation or funeral service. That couldn’t be further from the truth.

A funeral can be as traditional or as unique as you wish. Whether it’s a service steeped in faith and long-standing customs or a celebration that reflects someone’s personality, passions, and story — there is no “right” way to honor a life.

At Milkins Trymbiski Funeral Home and Kirkhoff Funeral Home, we’re here to walk families through every step of the process and help them create a meaningful experience that feels right for them.

Funerals aren’t just about saying goodbye — they’re about honoring, remembering, and beginning to heal. Gathering with others to share memories and support one another is a powerful part of the grief journey. 💛

If you have questions about cremation or planning a personalized service, we’re always here to help.