Embodied Acceptance

Embodied Acceptance I help women recover from body shame and increase their well-being through mindful movement & body aw Compassionate Movement For Body Love. But we need help.

I help women access their physical, spiritual, and emotional well-being through mindful movement and body-awareness. I work as a guide and collaborator to release stuck patterns and feelings, recover from body shame, and develop a more loving relationship with ourselves. You’ve come to the right place if:
*You love moving but don’t particularly enjoy regimented exercise
*You want a HAES®-aligned movement experience where you feel truly accepted and comfortable
*You would like to reconnect to joy, freedom, playfulness and pleasure inherent in movement
*You want to move your body but worry you’re out of shape, don’t have the “right” body, are too old, or feel too uncoordinated
*You’re tired of struggling with shame and are looking to accept your body
*You want to explore your emotions with intuition, flow, and curiosity, rather than through analysis and logic

What I believe in
I believe in the body as our greatest teacher. I believe the body has information that our mind has walled off, that all of our life experiences accumulate to create our physical and emotional ecosystem, and we must address them all if we want to transform the system. We are built to survive, and I celebrate that. But often, what we need to survive does not serve us to thrive. We need our body to tell us what it feels, desires, and wants to release. The mind cannot do this work because it doesn’t hold that material. The body holds our past, and it is up to the body to release and transform it. When a person is met with radical acceptance through a compassionate, open, non-judgmental presence, they feel safe enough to become vulnerable and meet their authentic self. This is where the healing process can begin. I believe we can heal in an infinite number of ways: through sensual movement, playful invention, and communal connection. I believe in release, compassion, acceptance, honesty, and the body as the brain. I believe in listening, in being at the service of healing others, in the power of community. How I do this
As a therapist and healer my job is not to analyze, give advice or direct the client, but rather to make space for them to connect with the story their own body has to tell. I know that my clients are the best experts on their life. We use the body, and movement, as the map to the treasure chest of our feelings, needs, and memories. Joyful movement allows for freedom from shame, develops feelings of respect for our bodies, and generates momentum towards a deeper happiness and sense of peace. I provide an inclusive space for people to move without worrying about their shape, size, fitness level or experience. I create a love and acceptance-filled environment where respect, compassion, generosity, and delight are central to everything we do. About Odelia
Odelia has trained across multiple Somatics platforms including Bartenieff Fundamentals, Laban Movement Analysis, Body-Mind Centering™ (BMC), Yoga, and more. She has a BA in Psychology from The Open University, and was certified as a Doula by DONA (Doulas of North America) in 2003. She subsequently was certified as a Structural Yoga instructor through the Stone Center in 2004. In 2005, She graduated from the Leven Institute with dual certifications in Shake Your Soul™ and SomaSoul™and was certified as a Somatic Movement Therapist through ISMETA. She later became a teacher in Re-evaluation Counseling (RC), and has been counseling and teaching co-counseling privately and in groups since then. She started her Somatic and Movement Education Company, Movement Bliss, in 2013, offering classes and workshops, both live and virtual to hundreds of women. Recently, Odelia embarked on training in Intuitive Eating, and will soon be an IE practitioner. Her work focuses on self-acceptance, inclusion, compassion, and joy, and is HAES™-aligned.

When it comes to s-x, we might judge what someone else is saying, doing, or wanting as “not appropriate.” But what does ...
11/05/2025

When it comes to s-x, we might judge what someone else is saying, doing, or wanting as “not appropriate.” But what does “appropriate” really mean?

It’s a word loaded with shame, implying a universal rulebook for what’s right and wrong.

In reality, s-x is deeply personal, and the most helpful approach isn’t about external moral codes, it’s about our own authentic boundaries.

When we label something inappropriate, we assume the other person is wrong. But more often, our reaction is a sign our own boundaries have been touched.

Discomfort doesn’t mean the other person is wrong. It means something in us is being activated, inviting us to check in. Instead of relying on external rules, we can ask:

- How does this land in my body?
- Does this feel good, or does it bring up discomfort?
- Am I open to this, or does it cross a line for me?

Imagine your partner suggests watching p**n together, and your reaction is, *That’s inappropriate! * You might feel discomfort or judgment, but instead of shutting down the conversation, you check in with yourself.

Is your reaction coming from a true boundary - you don’t want to watch p**n?

Or is it from shame-based messages that p**n is “bad” or “dirty”?

If it’s the latter, you might explore whether this belief still serves you. Either way, the key is to own your response rather than frame it as a moral judgment.

This process helps us consciously evaluate what we’re open to rather than react from old conditioning.

(Side note: did you know there’s ethical p**n and p**n made by women? Talk to me about it if you want more info ;)

As a s-x and relationship coach, I help you develop deep awareness of their boundaries, separate from shame and judgment.

I guide you in recognizing your “yes,” “no,” and “maybe” with clarity and confidence. Just as importantly, I help you practice communicating boundaries in ways that foster connection rather than shutting it down.

Are you ready to tune into your boundaries and communicate them with confidence?

Schedule a free consultation, click the link in my bio .

A lot of men think of romance as something “extra,” something women want, but something that doesn’t come naturally to t...
11/03/2025

A lot of men think of romance as something “extra,” something women want, but something that doesn’t come naturally to them.

And honestly, I get it.
If you’re doing something that feels forced or scripted, it’s going to feel awkward.

But here’s the thing: for many women, romance isn’t just fluff.
It’s meaningful because it touches something deeper.

In Somatica, we talk about Core Desires - the emotional experiences people want to feel in intimacy.

For many women, those include things like:
✨ Feeling chosen - “You could have anyone, but you want me.”
✨ Feeling adored - “You see my beauty and you love it.”
✨ Feeling special - “You thought about me, specifically.”
✨ Feeling safe and connected - “You see me and you’re here with me.”

That’s what romance really is.
It’s not about the flowers or the fancy dinners - it’s about helping her feel these things.

And if classic romantic gestures don’t feel natural to you, that’s totally okay.

You can find your own way to create those feelings.

It might be a text that says, “I can’t wait to see you.”
Or taking something off her plate when she’s stressed.
Or just looking at her in that way that says, you’re mine.

At the same time, there’s nothing wrong with gestures like flowers or notes - especially when they come from a genuine place, when you’ve thought about her.

The magic isn’t in the gesture itself, but in the message underneath:

“I see you. I choose you. I want you.”

That’s what romance is really about.
Not performance - presence.
Not the gesture - the feeling it creates.

If you want to understand your partner on a deeper emotional level - to connect through presence, curiosity, and attunement - this is the work I love helping people with.

Through Somatic S*x and Relationship Coaching, I help men and couples move beyond “doing the right thing” and into truly feeling each other.

👉 If that’s something you want to experience, you can learn more and book a free consultation call by clicking the link in the bio

True intimacy means:▪Feeling emotionally safe to be real, without fear of judgment.▪Trusting your partner to hold your t...
10/29/2025

True intimacy means:
▪Feeling emotionally safe to be real, without fear of judgment.
▪Trusting your partner to hold your truth, even when it’s messy.
▪Experiencing a deep connection that goes beyond words.

It’s that moment when your partner truly sees you, not just the version you present to the world, but the deeper, more complex truth of who you are.

Building intimacy isn’t about luck - it’s about foundation. A deeply connected relationship requires:

1. 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐚𝐟𝐞𝐭𝐲 – The freedom to express yourself without criticism or dismissal. Vulnerability thrives in safety.
2.𝐀𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 – Speaking your needs clearly and receiving your partner’s truth without defensiveness. Intimacy grows when both feel heard.
3. 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐑𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐫 – Conflict is inevitable; what matters is how you come back together. Repairing with care builds lasting trust.
4. 𝐌𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 – Physical intimacy isn’t about performance—it’s about shared exploration, where both feel safe to express their full erotic selves.

But intimacy isn’t just about the right communication tools—it’s about feeling safe enough to open up.

That’s where somatic work comes in.

As a somatic s-x and relationship coach, I help you:
▪Uncover emotional and physical barriers to intimacy.
▪Heal the wounds that make vulnerability feel unsafe.
▪Build emotional safety through nervous system co- regulation.
▪Explore new pathways to emotional and sexual closeness.

Through embodied exercises, communication coaching, and emotional repair, you’ll learn to open up fully, and feel safe doing it.

You don’t have to settle for surface-level connection. True intimacy is possible when safety and trust allow you to open up.

If you’re ready to experience deeper intimacy, let’s talk. To book a free consultation click the link in the bio

You deserve to be seen and loved for exactly who you are.

We’ve all been there, in the middle of an intimate moment, our body close but our mind miles away.“Am I doing this right...
10/27/2025

We’ve all been there, in the middle of an intimate moment, our body close but our mind miles away.

“Am I doing this right?”
“Do they like it?”
“Do I look okay?”
“What should I do next?”

That’s what it means to be in your head, stuck in thought, analysis, and self-judgment instead of feeling, sensing, and connecting.

Most of us were raised in a culture that prizes performance and control. We were taught to “do it right,” not to feel deeply. Add the fear of vulnerability, the risk of being truly seen, and it’s no wonder the mind takes over.

The head promises safety through control.

But in intimacy, that control is what disconnects us.

Being in your head is all about performing instead of feeling.

It’s about worrying about how you look or sound and trying to anticipate what your partner wants instead of listening to your own body.

All of these keep you from the very thing that makes intimacy electric: presence.

A great lover isn’t the one who knows all the techniques, it’s the one who’s embodied.

Present in their body.
Breathing.
Feeling.
Responding.

When you let yourself feel instead of think your way through intimacy, something shifts. You listen to the language of your body, excitement, warmth, pull. You respond to your partner from truth, not performance.

So the next time you notice yourself drifting into your head, pause.

Take a breath.
Feel your body - your heartbeat, your breath, the warmth of your skin.
Instead of asking, “What should I do?” ask, “What do I feel?”

That question alone brings you back home - into your body, into the moment, into the kind of presence that makes love, touch, and connection unforgettable.

Because being a great lover isn’t about knowing more.
It’s about feeling more and trusting what you feel enough to let it lead.

Want to learn how to drop out of your head and into your body, and connect through real presence?

Set up a free consultation with me by clicking the link in bio

Most people intuitively understand that in order to experience true pleasure, we need to feel safe. Our nervous system w...
10/22/2025

Most people intuitively understand that in order to experience true pleasure, we need to feel safe.

Our nervous system won’t allow us to relax and open up to sensation if we’re in a state of fear or tension.

If you don’t feel emotionally or physically safe with a partner, or if your body is bracing for some kind of threat, pleasure can feel elusive or even impossible.

But what’s less obvious, and just as powerful, is that the connection between safety and pleasure isn’t one-way.

Pleasure doesn’t just require safety; it can *create* it.

When we consciously choose to lean into pleasure, even in small ways, we send a message to our nervous system that we’re safe.

Pleasure, whether it’s the warmth of sunlight on your skin, the taste of something delicious, or the rush of sexual aliveness, can soften our defenses and build a sense of inner safety over time.

This creates a positive feedback loop.

Experiencing pleasure calms the nervous system → which helps us feel safer →which then makes it easier to experience even more pleasure.

When we choose to allow pleasure, we cultivate a deep inner sense of trust, both in ourselves and in our capacity to receive joy without bracing for something to go wrong.

As a somatic s*x and relationship coach, I help my clients explore this connection directly.

Through breath, touch, movement, and mindful awareness, I guide you to notice where your body feels tense or guarded and how to gently invite relaxation through pleasurable sensation.

This might look like slowing down during intimate touch to feel where the body naturally wants to open, or helping a client track the subtle shift from guardedness to softening as they follow the thread of pleasure.

The protective parts of us are trying to keep us safe.

That’s why they resist pleasure.

When those parts realize that pleasure can be a source of safety rather than a threat, they begin to soften.

This is how pleasure becomes not just an outcome of safety, but a pathway toward it.

This process isn’t about bypassing discomfort or forcing pleasure when it isn’t there.

It’s about learning to trust that pleasure can be a guide, a resource, and even a form of healing.

And when we make the choice, again and again, to move toward pleasure, especially in the face of old patterns of bracing or shutting down, we’re not only opening ourselves to more joy.

We’re also building a foundation of safety that allows us to experience life more fully.

Ready to try? Book a free consultation with me by clicking HERE.

While it’s good to learn techniques for emotionally and sexually satisfying women, there’s something even more essential...
10/20/2025

While it’s good to learn techniques for emotionally and sexually satisfying women, there’s something even more essential: knowing who you are and what you want and staying connected to that.

Most women are drawn to men who live from their desires and passions. Men who are in their own current. They might not always say it, sometimes that kind of presence feels intimidating or even a little dangerous—but it’s magnetic.

If all you do is try to please her or anticipate what she expects, you might win her approval, but you’ll lose the tension and mystery that make attraction come alive. The secret sauce of desire isn’t compliance, it’s polarity.

It’s a delicate balance: offering what women want while staying deeply rooted in yourself.

And here’s the good news, this kind of confidence isn’t reserved for a chosen few. It’s not something you’re either born with or without.
It’s learned through the body.

You can’t think your way into embodied confidence any more than you can learn to play an instrument or ride a bike from a book.

It’s a felt experience.

That’s why, when men come to my practice wanting to become better lovers, we don’t start with “what women want.”
We start with YOU.

Your body, your breath, your erotic energy.

We explore what truly turns you on, what boundaries feel right, and what desires want to move through you. From that place of embodied awareness, you naturally learn to express and connect in ways that are authentic, grounded, and magnetic.

Because real attraction begins when you stop performing and start inhabiting yourself.

✨If you’re ready to explore this embodied approach to attraction and learn how to connect to your erotic energy, I’d love to guide you.

To begin your journey back to your confident, alive, desirable self, book a free consultation by clicking the link in the bio .

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your desire, you’re not alone. Most women struggle with low libido at some poin...
10/15/2025

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your desire, you’re not alone. Most women struggle with low libido at some point, and it’s not because something is wrong with you. Your body isn’t broken, and you don’t need to "fix" yourself.

Desire is complex. It’s shaped by emotions, relationships, stress levels, and past experiences.

If s*x has felt like an obligation, a source of frustration, or something you just don’t crave anymore, there are real reasons behind that.

Through somatic practices, safety-building, and cultivating new ways to connect with your body, you can heal from the past and begin to feel more alive, safe, and open to pleasure again.

The good news? You can find your way back to desire.

As a Somatica practitioner, I help women reconnect with their sexuality through deep emotional exploration, nervous system regulation, and experiential practice.

This isn’t about pushing yourself - it’s about understanding what’s blocking your desire, healing what needs care, and discovering new pathways to pleasure.

You deserve to feel turned on, alive, and connected. If any of this resonates, let’s talk.

To book a free consultation click the link in the bio

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