Applied Psychological Services, PLLC

Applied Psychological Services, PLLC Applied Psychological Services, PLLC is driven to identify and assist with treatment in those with mental illness. https://www.youtube.com/c/DrDanielFox

Applied Psychological Services, PLLC began providing services in 2006 with three central goals: staunch commitment to ethical practice, professionalism at all times, and a focus on positive growth for its clients. Applied Psychological Services, PLLC has six employees and is owned by Daniel J. Fox, Ph.D. Dr. Fox has given countless presentations to universities, professional organizations, and businesses since 2001 on Emotional Intelligence for Professional Resilience, Emotional Intelligence and The Working Environment, Ethical Challenges in Working with Difficult Clients, Personality Disorders and Effective Treatment, and many others. Dr. Fox is an expert in the area of intellectual, cognitive, and personality assessment. Applied Psychological Services, PLLC is always growing and challenging itself to provide the best services possible. Applied Psychological Services, PLLC continues to be recognized by its colleagues and clients as a sought after business that provides consummate services in all the arenas in which it functions.

11/13/2025

What rejection really means.
Rejection is a moment, not a definition of your worth.
It’s when someone says, “No,” and that “no” can sting—
but it’s not proof that you’re unworthy.

Rejection is specific and situational:
you didn’t get the job, the date, the approval, the yes.
That’s all it is—one event, one boundary, one outcome.

When you start seeing rejection as an event, not an identity,
you free yourself from carrying every “no” like a wound.

Say it to yourself today:
👉 “That was a rejection, not a reflection.”

11/11/2025

When you feel rejected, it can sting — but abandonment hits deeper.
Rejection is an event.
Abandonment is a story that keeps replaying.

That’s why rejection can trigger abandonment fears — especially if your sense of worth depends on others. When that happens, your mind can turn into a storm, and every gust feels personal.

🌀 The key is learning to re-anchor your worth internally, not in someone else’s approval.
Start small: name what’s yours to hold and what’s not.

You’re not a leaf in the wind. You’re the tree. 🌳

11/09/2025

Retroactive jealousy isn’t about what’s happening now — it’s old pain resurfacing.
When you live with BPD, a comment or memory can feel like a new betrayal.
Pause before reacting.
Tell yourself: “This feeling is old. I’m safe now.” 🩶

11/06/2025

It Feels Like Betrayal

It’s not about what your partner’s doing now — it’s what their past wakes up inside you.
Retroactive jealousy isn’t proof of betrayal. It’s your old wounds being touched again.
And when you have BPD, that old pain can feel as real as what’s happening today.

11/04/2025

When you live with BPD, a thought about your partner’s past can hit like a fresh betrayal.
It’s not about control—it’s an old survival pattern trying to protect you.
But what kept you safe before is now keeping you stuck.

10/31/2025

Ever wonder why your emotions feel too big sometimes?
That might be your serotonin levels at work.

Serotonin helps balance mood, sleep, and energy — and when it’s low, emotions swing fast and hit harder. With balance, you feel steady; without it, every interruption can feel like an explosion.

It’s not “overreacting.” It’s chemistry.
And understanding it is the first step toward regulating it. 🧠

10/29/2025

Kindness actually changes your brain chemistry.
Every small act — like saying thank you or I appreciate you — boosts serotonin and calms your body.
It’s not just polite; it’s neuroscience.

Try one today and notice how it feels.
Kindness toward yourself counts too. 💬

New playlists just for mental health providers! Explore curated collections on Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Na...
10/26/2025

New playlists just for mental health providers!

Explore curated collections on Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), and General Mental Health—all free and ready to watch.

🎥 BPD Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaZELV1Tbq-P34sD32D8DkKCgeLfZVOhS

🎥 General Mental Health: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaZELV1Tbq-MOavwB19A8khKYzR8IpN2v

🎥 NPD Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaZELV1Tbq-OYjMfy1PmJRzd-63T_QZcj

10/23/2025

When you feel rejected, your brain demands perfection — not because you want control, but because you fear loss.

10/21/2025

You don’t chase perfection because you love control — you chase it because deep down, it feels safer than rejection. In this video, Dr. Fox explains how perfectionism in Borderline Personality Disorder starts as protection from fear of abandonment and rejection but becomes a trap that fuels self-blame and burnout. Learn how to see perfectionism for what it really is — a survival strategy that’s ready to be replaced with self-acceptance.

10/16/2025

Ever notice how they twist the story so you end up feeling like the problem?
That’s not an accident—it’s narcissistic deflection.
They use charm, humor, or guilt to dodge responsibility and protect their ego.
Once you see the pattern, you stop taking the blame that isn’t yours.

10/14/2025

Narcissists rarely say, “I was wrong.”
Instead, they twist the story until you’re the one to blame.
This deflection isn’t random—it’s how they protect their ego and avoid guilt, shame, or doubt.
Once you see the pattern, you stop owning what was never yours.

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