Dr. Charleanea Arellano

Dr. Charleanea Arellano Psychologist | Board Certified Life Coach | Keynote Speaker | Host of She Is Mother Podcast

I am a psychologist and psycho-spiritual transformational life coach who helps people create and experience the lives they crave.

01/27/2026

If you feel behind everyone, this is what happens. Here's what to do instead

01/20/2026

When you SHOULDN'T "lock in". Constricted thinking prevents you from moving forward productively.

01/11/2026

It's normal to feel disappointed in yourself. You have to understand that.

01/06/2026

It's a new year. Do you feel behind? #2026

01/05/2026

Did 2025 not work how you hoped? Here's how to start 2026 off right. #2026

Last night, I did something I’ve never done before.I created my first Winter Solstice ritual—a burn-and-release ceremony...
12/21/2025

Last night, I did something I’ve never done before.

I created my first Winter Solstice ritual—a burn-and-release ceremony—followed this morning by a candle-lighting intention ritual.

I didn’t do it for tradition.
I didn’t do it because it sounded mystical or poetic.

I did it because this year brought me to my knees.
Every survival pattern I thought I’d left behind came roaring back.
I poured myself into the work, and life kept handing me a big, unapologetic NO.

Those no's became my teachers.
They showed me—loudly—that the old way wasn’t just unsustainable…it was no longer an option.

So last night, I burned the beliefs that no longer serve me:
1. Hustling as a measure of worth
2. Proving myself to earn belonging
3. Chasing rooms and relationships without resonance
4. Tying my value to metrics or outcomes
5. Buying into the fear that slowing down or changing direction means failure

Watching those truths turn to ash was emotional—not because they were “bad,” but because they were familiar.

They protected me once.
They don’t anymore.

And today, with a candle and a quiet mind, I welcomed in:
1. Discernment over desperation
2. Doing less, with alignment and intention
3. Self-trust (and trust in timing) over external validation
4. Working from grounded capacity rather than fear
5. Belonging built through resonance, not performance
6. Rest as fuel, play as medicine, joy as strategy

This isn’t about becoming a “new me.”
It is about returning to the version of myself who refuses to abandon her truth to be chosen.

If you’re reading this, and you’ve spent this year pushing, proving, or running on empty— consider this your invitation:

You don’t have to earn your worth.
You don’t have to sprint your way to belonging.
And slowing down is not the same as giving up.

Sometimes the most radical thing you can do is to put something down
—and choose differently.

Here’s to longer days, deeper discernment, and work that aligns with who we are becoming.

The Denver Mic Drop Club met on Monday, and the energy in that room was unmistakably powerful.It was a smaller group thi...
12/10/2025

The Denver Mic Drop Club met on Monday, and the energy in that room was unmistakably powerful.

It was a smaller group this time, but nothing about the experience felt small.
Every woman arrived carrying something real… and then chose to give it voice.

There were shaky moments, courageous moments, and those powerful in-between moments where someone discovers a truth as she’s speaking it.

That’s the magic of this community: when one woman steps forward, everyone else rises with her.

This is why Mic Drop Club exists — because courage grows in community, confidence blossoms with practice, and something inside of us expands when we're supported rather than silenced.

Grateful for this group, my cohost Cheryl Braunschweiger, and the way they continue to turn courage into momentum.

11/27/2025

We all know nagging doesn't help. Here's what to do instead.

11/26/2025

Is your partner always late (or are you the late one)? If so, here's what you can do.

11/25/2025

Are you moving through live without consciousness? Don't.

11/24/2025

Don't try to control what isn't in your control.

11/21/2025

You have to know the difference between each

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Dr. Arellano @ Empowered Living

Dr. Charleanea Arellano's life work is inspired by the beautifully powerful resilience of the human spirit. Her heart has been deeply moved by stories of people who have not only overcome personal adversity, but have used this adversity, courageously, as a springboard into greatness. These stories of courage, hope and strength have fueled her passion to help and support others, as they heal, reclaim their personal power and pursue their highest potential.

Dr. Arellano pursued formal training in psychology. She received her Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Denver with Honors in Psychology, Summa Cum Laude and Phi Beta Kappa. She received her Doctorate in Psychology from the University of Denver. Dr. Arellano has been a psychologist and Work/Life Coach for over 25 years.