03/18/2022
I find this hard to coach parents in, because it IS such a natural part of our communication with our children. Making this change can have a huge impact on our child's ability to take a risk on imitating what we say or even saying something new on their own. Replacing a question with what you would like or think your child would say can give them more natural opportunities for imitation.
Instead of "What's that?", try saying what you wish or think they may say, such as "Oo a lion, rawr"! π¦
Some kids are totally fine with being asked question after question- and in fact, many kids thrive with the attention and/or getting to talk about their areas of interest. More often the kids that either enjoy or tolerate questions are the kids who find talking to be easy.
But when talking is hard for a kid- being asked questions over and over can be so difficult that they may shut down- and here are some reasons why you might see this.
I also think that sometimes parent anxiety over their child not talking increases these types of questions because they feel it gives their child more opportunities to speak. And sometimes we are just so proud of their progress we ask questions in order to show others what theyβve learned.
Iβm not saying to NEVER ask questions because asking and answering questions is a huge part of communication. I AM saying to try to be aware of how often you are asking questions. I try to say 3-4 statements per question I ask!