The Counseling Center for Relationships llc

The Counseling Center for Relationships llc TCCFR is a private practice located in Toms River. We have several licensed therapists.

Many of our therapists specialize in marriage and family therapy, other therapists on staff provide individual therapy.

12/30/2025

As we step into a new year, we want to share what we hope for you.

Not resolutions. Not pressure. Just gentle wishes for steadiness, clarity, and moments of connection along the way.

From all of us at TCCFR, weโ€™re honored to walk beside youโ€”wherever this year meets you. ๐Ÿค

#2026

12/28/2025

Being alone doesnโ€™t mean something is wrong.
Sometimes it means youโ€™re finally listening to yourself.

Authenticity grows in the spaces where thereโ€™s no pressure to impress, no roles to play, no noise to compete with.

Itโ€™s okay to take up space in your own life.
Itโ€™s okay to be alone while you do it.

Solitude can be grounding.
And choosing yourself is always allowed.

๐ŸŽฅ This video features Cristina DeFuria, LMFT, sharing a gentle reminder that being alone can be a powerful, healthy part of growth.

๐Œ๐ž๐ซ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐‚๐ก๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐š๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐š๐ญ ๐“๐‚๐‚๐…๐‘. ๐ŸŽ„Wherever and however youโ€™re spending today,weโ€™re sending warmth, comfort, and ...
12/25/2025

๐Œ๐ž๐ซ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐‚๐ก๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐š๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐š๐ญ ๐“๐‚๐‚๐…๐‘. ๐ŸŽ„

Wherever and however youโ€™re spending today,
weโ€™re sending warmth, comfort, and peace your way.
You deserve rest.
You deserve joy.
You donโ€™t have to carry it all alone.

๊œฐษชษดษช๊œฑสœ แด›สœแด‡ ๊œฑแด‡ษดแด›แด‡ษดแด„แด‡:๐™๐™๐™š ๐™๐™ค๐™ก๐™ž๐™™๐™–๐™ฎ๐™จ ๐™›๐™š๐™š๐™ก ๐™š๐™–๐™จ๐™ž๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ฃโ€ฆTake a moment. Thereโ€™s no right answer.The holidays can bring many emo...
12/24/2025

๊œฐษชษดษช๊œฑสœ แด›สœแด‡ ๊œฑแด‡ษดแด›แด‡ษดแด„แด‡:
๐™๐™๐™š ๐™๐™ค๐™ก๐™ž๐™™๐™–๐™ฎ๐™จ ๐™›๐™š๐™š๐™ก ๐™š๐™–๐™จ๐™ž๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ฃโ€ฆ

Take a moment. Thereโ€™s no right answer.

The holidays can bring many emotions โ€” joy, grief, stress, nostalgia, and everything in between. However this season feels for you is valid.

Tell us what helps make the season feel a little lighter for you.
And if youโ€™re finding it hard, our team is here to help.

You donโ€™t have to carry it alone.๐Ÿค





12/24/2025

The holidays often bring love, laughterโ€ฆ and a lot of pressure. ๐ŸŽ„

The goal of the team at TCCFR isย ย to reframe boundaries this time of year:
โ€ข Boundaries arenโ€™t walls meant to keep people out.
โ€ข Theyโ€™re guidelines that show others how to connect with you in ways that feel safe, respectful, and sustainable.

When you name a boundary, youโ€™re saying:
โœจ This is how I can show up fully
โœจ This is how I stay regulated and present
โœจ This is how our relationship has the best chance to thrive

Healthy boundaries actually increase closenessโ€”because resentment decreases and authenticity grows.

They let others know where you end and they begin, so connection can happen without harm.
This holiday season, remember:
Protecting your nervous system is not selfish.
Clarity is not cruelty.
And honoring your limits is often an invitation to deeper, more honest connection.

Conflict isnโ€™t the problem in relationships.Communication is.Research shows that certain communication patterns donโ€™t ju...
12/20/2025

Conflict isnโ€™t the problem in relationships.
Communication is.

Research shows that certain communication patterns donโ€™t just cause arguments, they slowly wear down trust, safety, and emotional closeness over time.

The four shown in this carousel are especially harmful because they shift conversations fromย connectionย toย protection:
โ€ขย Criticismย turns a concern into a personal attack
โ€ขย Defensivenessย blocks accountability and understanding
โ€ขย Stonewallingย creates emotional distance through withdrawal
โ€ขย Contemptย signals disrespect and erodes safety

Most couples donโ€™t use these patterns on purpose. They develop as ways to cope with stress, hurt, or feeling unseen.

The hopeful part?
When these patterns are recognized, they can be interrupted and replaced with healthier ways of communicating.

Awareness is often the first step toward change.

โœจย Which one shows up most for you?

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Strong families donโ€™t happen by accident. Theyโ€™re built with support, care, and connection.At The Counseling Center for ...
12/20/2025

Strong families donโ€™t happen by accident. Theyโ€™re built with support, care, and connection.

At The Counseling Center for Relationships, we provide compassionate, evidence-based counseling for families, couples, and individualsย in a safe, supportive space.

๐Ÿ“ Proudly serving Toms River
โ€จ๐Ÿ–ฅ In-person & virtual appointments available
Where families find support and connection.

๐Ÿ“ž 732-597-0470

My Soul cohort. What we experienced together this semester was truly remarkable. I am so hopeful for the future of our f...
12/19/2025

My Soul cohort. What we experienced together this semester was truly remarkable. I am so hopeful for the future of our field as I watch such beautiful souls embark on the journey of becoming healers. Such an honor to witness the beginnings of it all ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿค

12/18/2025

Starting therapy doesnโ€™t have to feel intimidating.
Your first session is simply a conversation.
No pressure. No judgment. Just a place to begin.

When youโ€™re ready, our TCCFR team is here.

๐˜š๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ.Cristina, LMFT and founder of TCCFR, shared this one because itโ€™s a...
12/13/2025

๐˜š๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ.

Cristina, LMFT and founder of TCCFR, shared this one because itโ€™s a powerful reminder of how rare it is to sit face-to-face with the people we love โ€” without distractions, without busyness, without anything in the way.

In both life and therapy, those quiet, undistracted moments are often where connection begins again.

โœจย Make space for them whenever you can.

๐‘ญ๐’†๐’†๐’๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’Ž๐’๐’“๐’† ๐’•๐’†๐’๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’, ๐’…๐’Š๐’”๐’•๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’†, ๐’๐’“ ๐’๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’˜๐’‰๐’†๐’๐’Ž ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’๐’†๐’“ ๐’๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’๐’š?It might be emotional overload โ€” and itโ€™s more com...
12/11/2025

๐‘ญ๐’†๐’†๐’๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’Ž๐’๐’“๐’† ๐’•๐’†๐’๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’, ๐’…๐’Š๐’”๐’•๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’†, ๐’๐’“ ๐’๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’˜๐’‰๐’†๐’๐’Ž ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’๐’†๐’“ ๐’๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’๐’š?

It might be emotional overload โ€” and itโ€™s more common than you think.

The good news? With support, clarity, and the right tools, connection can return.

๐Ÿ’™ Weโ€™re here to help you find your way back to each other.
www.TCCFR.com

Weโ€™re proud to spotlightย Stephanie, LAMFT, who brings warmth, skill, and an exceptional capacity for listening to her wo...
12/09/2025

Weโ€™re proud to spotlightย Stephanie, LAMFT, who brings warmth, skill, and an exceptional capacity for listening to her work with individuals, couples, and families. Specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Stephanie helps clients understand their emotional patterns and build deeper, more connected relationships.

She is guided by one of her favorite quotes:
โ€œ๐™๐™ค ๐™—๐™š ๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ง๐™š ๐™ž๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š ๐™ง๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™ฉโ€ฆ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™š ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™š๐™™ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™– ๐™—๐™ง๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก๐™ž๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™–๐™ ๐™จ ๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™– ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™จ.โ€ โ€” ๐—™. ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜๐˜ ๐—™๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‡๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฑ

Stephanie offers a compassionate and nonjudgmental environment where clients feel supported on their journey toward healing and meaningful change.

๐Ÿค ษดแดแดก แด€แด„แด„แด‡แด˜แด›ษชษดษข ษดแด‡แดก แด„สŸษชแด‡ษดแด›๊œฑ

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Toms River, NJ
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