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03/27/2026

Cinque Terre might be one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever been.

It’s also one of the hardest to get to and navigate.

Steep climbs. Endless steps. Narrow paths.
Moments where you’re out of breath wondering, is this even worth it?

And then you turn a corner.

Colorful buildings stacked along the cliffs.
The ocean stretching out endlessly.
Views that don’t even feel real.

It made me think…
isn’t that kind of how life works?

The things I love most in my life weren’t easy to get to.

My career required years of school, long days, and pushing through doubt.
Relationships take time, effort, and sacrifice.
Growth asks for discomfort, uncertainty, and showing up when it would be easier not to.

The most meaningful parts of life often ask something of us first.

Not because we’re meant to struggle endlessly, but because challenge expands us.

If we always choose the easy path, we may stay comfortable,
but we also stay within what we already know.

When we challenge ourselves, who knows what we might see, experience, or become.

🌿 What’s something in your life that’s been hard, but worth it?

03/26/2026

In some ways we are living in a time that is so progressive in how we think and address mental health. But, this can often lead to the misconception that stigma no longer exists. Stigma surrounding mental health is still very much present.

I can’t tell you how many times I have sat with someone and told them they are suffering from anxiety or depression to have a sigh of relief followed by, “thank goodness I’m not super crazy like Bipolar or Schizophrenia”.

I am always happy when people have conditions that are less severe, more manageable, but sometimes that is patients struggling with Bipolar that are responding well to treatments. To paint with a broad brush stroke what health looks like is foolish. Whether you are speaking with friends, providers, family, or the general community be mindful of your words and how you discuss mental health. You have no idea what someone might be working through and your words have the power to do good but also harm if not chosen carefully.

Coping with stigma from friends or family is hard. Here’s how people living with bipolar disorder respond and move forward.

03/26/2026

People often tell me, “Coping skills don’t work when my anxiety is at a 10.”

And honestly… I get it.

I don’t expect any tool to take you from a 10 down to a 1 or 2 in the middle of a full-blown crisis. That’s not realistic. But if a coping skill can bring you from a 10 to a 6 or 7? That’s a meaningful shift. That’s your nervous system starting to come back down. That matters.

The real challenge is that most people don’t use coping strategies until things already feel out of control.

Coping skills aren’t just emergency tools. They’re skills. And like any skill, they work best when you’ve practiced them before you actually need them.

When your anxiety is lower, that’s the time to:
• Figure out what actually works for you
• Learn how to use the tools effectively
• Notice subtle changes in your body and mind
• Build confidence that these strategies can help

You might even realize you were more anxious than you thought, and that’s important awareness too 😉

And just as important, we can’t ignore the role of lifestyle. Managing anxiety isn’t only about what you do in the moment. It’s also about how you care for yourself day to day.

Movement.
Connection.
Boundaries with work and devices.
Mindfulness.

These things lower your baseline so you’re not starting at a 7 before anything even happens.

If you want your coping skills to work when it really counts, start practicing them now, not in the middle of the next crisis.

03/24/2026

Uplift your whole brain 🧠today with some gratitude! Check out the science here: http://bit.ly/LetsGiveThx

03/23/2026

Distress tolerance is something I emphasize in sessions all the time.

It’s one of the most important skills we can build learning how to be with discomfort instead of avoiding it. When we stretch our ability to handle distress (physically, emotionally, socially), we become more resilient, more adaptive, and more confident in our ability to handle life.

Recently, I had a real-life opportunity to practice this.

I went horseback riding in the mountains. It was scenic, snowy, and objectively beautiful… but internally? I was anxious.

I had a negative experience riding horses in my late teens. Even though I love animals and have plenty of experience around them, I feel much more comfortable on the ground.

My mind started going:
• Will I be safe?
• Will I make a fool of myself?
• Can I even get on this horse? (she was tall)
• What if I’ve forgotten how to ride?

And then came the environment:
• It was cold.
• Snow was falling.
• The ground was slippery.

More thoughts:
• What if I fall?
• What if I get wet and freeze?
• What if I can’t do this?

But here’s what actually happened:

I took the walk slowly and carefully and I had the right boots.
I needed help getting on the horse, but I got on.
It was cold, but I was okay.

And then something shifted.

The ride became peaceful. Quiet. Beautiful. I watched the beauty of winter; snow on pine branches, a stream running through snow covered rocks, and such stillness.

In the end it was 100% worth the discomfort.

That’s what distress tolerance is.

Not eliminating fear.
Not waiting until you feel ready.
But learning that you can move through discomfort and that something meaningful is often waiting on the other side.

Life will always include discomfort, uncertainty, and challenge.

Sometimes, those are the very things that lead us to the most beautiful and meaningful moments.

03/22/2026

"Mom Guilt" is a feeling many experience. If you're feeling like you could always be doing better, or that you're never doing enough, these are signs of it: http://bit.ly/mother_guilt

03/22/2026

"A flower does not think of with the flower next to it. It just blooms ." 🌺 (Anonymous) | https://woodruff-counseling.com/

03/21/2026

"The great myth of our times is that technology is communication." 📱- Libby Larsen

03/18/2026

Are you or a loved one coping with bipolar disorder and want to understand it better? http://bit.ly/FactsBipolarInfographic | https://woodruff-counseling.com/

03/16/2026

"Hygge" is all about connection and coziness, and can help new mothers feel happier! http://bit.ly/happyhygge | https://woodruff-counseling.com/

03/15/2026

“Love rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness.” ― Esther Perel

03/14/2026

Strength doesn’t always look the way we expect.

Today I had the opportunity to watch the United States men’s national para ice hockey team compete in the semifinals of the Winter Paralympics and win.

What stood out wasn’t just the victory. It was the resilience behind every athlete on that ice.

For some of these players, hockey was part of their life long before their injuries. For others, the sport came later, something they discovered after life forced them to adapt and rebuild.

Either way, what you see on the ice is perseverance, creativity, and an incredible commitment to moving forward.

In therapy we talk a lot about resilience, but resilience doesn’t mean pretending something isn’t difficult. It means acknowledging reality and asking, “Given where I am now, how can I keep going?” “What opportunities does this challenge present?”

Watching these athletes compete was a powerful reminder that strength isn’t about avoiding hardship. It’s about adapting, rebuilding, and continuing to pursue what matters.

The human capacity to grow and persevere is remarkable.