01/23/2026
Were you targeted… or chosen?
If you’ve ever loved a narcissist and walked away feeling broken, confused, or ashamed for staying too long—this piece is for you.
This blog explores a powerful reframe: that you weren’t targeted because you were weak, but because you were light. That the heartbreak wasn’t meaningless, and that the suffering—while devastating—may have been the doorway to awakening, healing, and wholeness.
This isn’t about excusing abuse or bypassing pain. It’s about understanding the deeper purpose, breaking generational cycles, reclaiming your truth, and emerging stronger, wiser, and more grounded than before.
If you’re in recovery, questioning your story, or searching for peace beyond anger and blame, I invite you to read and reflect.
👉 Read the full blog here:
https://donnashinwellness.com/were-you-targeted-or-chosen-to-love-a-narcissist/