SoulWays Body-Mind Healing & Integrative Energywork

02/04/2026

01/19/2026

Step out of old habituated patterns of blame, rationalization, and being the victim, and into accountability....

01/17/2026

Helpful info @ Functional Freeze from Frank Anderson: "You may have seen the term functional freeze lately. It’s resonating because a lot of people quietly recognize themselves in it.
Functional freeze isn’t a diagnosis. It describes a nervous system state where you keep functioning, but mostly on autopilot.
You go to work, answer emails, keep routines, show up socially. From the outside, life looks fine. Inside, things often feel flat, stuck, or disconnected.
That’s usually where the guilt shows up. “I’m doing everything I’m supposed to. So why do I feel this way?”
From a trauma perspective, this isn’t laziness or a character flaw. It’s a nervous system that learned how to stay operational under ongoing stress by dampening feeling and conserving energy. And as long as we see this as a flaw, we won’t give it the care it actually needs.
Insight alone rarely shifts this state. You can understand what’s happening and still feel stuck. From a nervous system perspective, this isn’t shutdown. It’s survival mode.
In my work, I don’t try to push people out of functional freeze. I get curious about what the nervous system is still protecting against.
Instead of asking “What’s wrong with me?” I often invite questions like:
– What has my system needed to stay functional?
– What might it be protecting me from?
– What helps me feel even slightly more settled in my body?
That shift, from pressure to understanding, is often where things begin to ease.
If this term resonates, let it be information, not an identity. A starting point for curiosity, not another reason to judge yourself."

01/05/2026

Helpful information from Frank Anderson about "trauma bonding"...
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