When I was 46 years old, my husband, Mohit, was killed in a motorcycle accident. A mere ten months later, my 18-year-old son, Nachu, died of widespread bone cancer. Even as a medical doctor, I had never seen anyone suffer as much as Nachu did during his abrupt decline. After my husband and son both passed, I sank into the darkest depths of despair. Time, willpower, self-reflection, and a conscious acceptance of what had happened allowed me to re-emerge as a new version of myself – joyful, excited and hopeful for my next chapter in life. Now I feel that it is my turn to help you overcome your obstacles. If I can heal and be happy again, I know that you can, too. I want to share my story, methods that helped me, messages I received, and specific steps that I took to help myself both accept and move forward in life. You might find something in my articles, you might have an “Aha” moment, or you might say to yourself, “You know, I should try this. It made her feel better.” That’s what I hope to do—help you get through your grief. Pain and loss come in various forms: physical, mental, spiritual, emotional, financial, and many more. This experience is incredibly individual. Unfortunately, there is no “cookbook” of answers, no “recipe” for loss. However, I hope that this website will help you by offering suggestions to enable you to start moving forward. I ask you to venture into the recesses of your heart and soul to reevaluate who you truly are; this will help you determine how to rise above your current reality. I know this is hard to imagine – but, when you dig deep enough, you will eventually find your own answers. You will then be able to overcome your loss, instead of being buried by it. I have discovered that out of the darkest moments come the brightest days – ones full of gratitude, joy, love and hope for the future.
