Marriage and Communication Coaching

Marriage and Communication Coaching Learn the skills, insights, and best practices for relationships that grow to last a lifetime. Love and Intimacy got you to your Wedding day.

Good Communication will see you through to your Golden Wedding Anniversary. We offer a five session (over about a 2 month period), a program during which couples learn the skills, insights, and best practices for relationships that grow to last a lifetime. Our program is short-term, cost effective and convenient. Five sessions, Seven and one half hours traning and support for about $550.00. Individual sessions are $125.00 for a ninethy-minute session. Military and First responder families receive a $75.00 discount. There is a ten session package designed for families seeking to restore trust and forgiveness after expereincing marital infidelity and cheating. Face to face sessions are designed to be safe. The office is sterilized each day with UV light, ozone gas. There is a medical-grade HEPA air cleaner. Couples sit at a nine feet distance from the coach with or without masks. Coaching sessions available by Zoom for relationships fromanywhere in North America. We are so confident about our program that If your first session does not work for you for any reason - no hard feelings - no cost.

03/29/2026

Where is the center of marriage?

Before marriage we may point to our own heart as center.

After marriage that center shifts.

What used to be I, me, and mine becomes we, us, and ours.

That shift transforms how we decide about children, careers, money, home, and daily life.

Where we place the center of our marriage shapes our choices and the future we build together.

I invite you to take a moment to notice from where you and your partner evaluate and choose.

Let us choose wisely, together.

Sincerely,
Paul Zohav

03/28/2026

IF is to Maybe, as
When is to Will be.

There are those of us who have a greater tolerance for uncertainty than do others.

IF for them, occurs as an opportunity to consider, to create, to imagine and speculate.

And there are others who require to know as much as possible ahead of time, get it done as soon as possible, so they can predict outcomes and achieve desired results. They seek to reliably anticipate the experience of that about which they are concerned.

They tend to have a lower tolerance for and resist IF-based conversations.

As a marriage and communication coach, I see these personalities routinely marrying each other and the resulting stress and the discord in these marriages can rise to extraordinary heights.

And it's not necessary - so long as you are aware of who you're marrying and how they process.
And it's not necessary - so long as you are aware of who you're marrying and how they process.

03/28/2026

There are Words that, when spoken, cost us life and vitality.

For example,
"Should" and "But."

"Should" leaves us dissatisfied, imagining an alternative reality that never turned out the way it "Should" have.

It "Should" have happened "But" did not.

"Could" is clean, factual.
Something "Could" have been "And" was not.

Another example would be
"But" and "And."

"But" breaks the flow.
"But" erases that which has gone before.
"But" interrupts communication.

"And" supports flow.
"And" maintains connection.
"And" promotes communication.

With a "Should" and a "But" we are left with less life, diminished vitality, with an interrupted connection.

With a "Could" and an "And" we are free, connected, and in communication.

Who "Could" you be?
"And" who will you be?
Choose.

Paul Zohav

03/22/2026

Healing and clarity after infidelity

Infidelity can feel devastating—betrayal, shattered trust, forgiveness impossible. At Marriage and Communication we treat infidelity as a symptom, not the cause. We work together to uncover what it reveals, building mutual awareness, insight, clarity, and effective communication so you can decide how to proceed.

I guarantee you will know:
1) Why infidelity occurred.
2) How it happened to you.
3) What comes next for your relationship.
4) That you have what you need to choose.
5) That you are complete with that choice.

When you are ready, I look forward to working with you.
Blessings,
Paul Zohav M.Ed.

Makes me feel, orLeaves me feeling?Choose When something or someone "Makes" you feel X.You have no choice.A victim of ci...
03/18/2026

Makes me feel, or
Leaves me feeling?
Choose

When something or someone
"Makes" you feel X.
You have no choice.

A victim of circumstances
Subject to another's will.
You are not free.

When something or someone
"Leaves" you feeling X.
At the source of your being,
You enjoy choice
You are free.

Be free.

03/15/2026

Me and We worlds in collision

Consider the following sentence.

"I am sorry. It's my fault. I should have called ahead."

This statement contains at least three significant relationship and communication deficits.

Sorry, Fault, and Should.

1) Faults last a long time and provide no significant path forward.
2) Responsible does provide a path forward. Response-able.
3) "I Should" implies that there was a better choice in the past and a better outcome.
4) "I Could" indicates that there were alternative choices that Could have been made. Could provides Us a future of alternative choices.
5) "I am Sorry" is about the speaker and does not speak to the relationship nor to the influence of integrity lost.
6) At best, "I am sorry" can be understood as "I regret." "I am sorry" does not necessarily indicate a path forward.
7) "I apologize" acknowledges the damaged relationship, unfulfilled expectations, disappointment of the other, and the integrity cost to the damaged relationship.

"Sorry, Fault, and Should" all belong to world given by "I and Me."

There is no path forward for Us.

"I Apologize, am Responsible, and I Could" relate to world given by "We and Us."

These words do offer a path forward for Us.

In a "We and Us" world, when restated appropriately,

"I am late. I am responsible. I apologize. In the future I promise to call ahead as soon as I know I will be late."

In relationships and in marriage, I invite Us to speak in a "We and Us" given world.

Free to comment and freely share.

Paul Zohav M.Ed.

03/15/2026

Makes me feel vs Leaves me feeling

When something or someone
"Makes" you feel X
You have no choice.

You are a victim of circumstances
Subject to another's will.
You are not free.

When something or someone
"Leaves" you feeling X
At the source of your being,
You enjoy choice
You are free.

Be free.

Paul Zohav M.Ed.

'Tis the Season to be Wedded!Give the gift of Premarital Communication Coaching.When you, a member of your family, a fri...
03/10/2026

'Tis the Season to be Wedded!

Give the gift of Premarital Communication Coaching.

When you, a member of your family, a friend, or someone you know is preparing to get married, consider giving a truly meaningful gift: Premarital Communication Coaching.

Premarital coaching is a gift that keeps on giving—one that supports couples throughout their entire marriage.

In three informative and engaging sessions, couples learn and adopt practical skills, valuable insights, and proven communication practices that help build a resilient, loving, lifelong partnership.

Give the gift of strong communication, deeper understanding, and a healthy foundation for marriage.

03/08/2026

There are distinct differences in the level of connection implied by 'Thank you for', 'I appreciate you for', and 'I am grateful to you for'.

Notably,
'I appreciate you for' indicates that the person is valued for their actions, while 'I am grateful to you for' conveys a more significant level of appreciation and connection.

On the other hand, 'I thank you for' serves as an acknowledgment of the person's decision, which underscores the varying connotations of these expressions.

At Marriage and Communication, we become aware of the distinctions among the words of acknowledgement we use.

We invite us all to choose words that support positive connections.

Marriage and Communication speaks to the followingWhat is a good way to relieve yourself from guilt? Swap the language y...
03/07/2026

Marriage and Communication speaks to the following

What is a good way to relieve yourself from guilt?

Swap the language you use to experience your life and living.

Specifically, exchange of Guilt for Responsibility and Accountability.

Why? Guilt never ends. Accountability provides you with a path forward.

Exchange Shame for Responsibility. Shame never ends.

Choosing Responsibility provides you with a Path forward. You can take actions that repair that which you were once Ashamed of.

For example, you can Apologize for what you did. The moment you Apologize: You have an opportunity to choose Accountability.

Once you choose Accountability you can take action to transform the original situation. Once you take action you begin to disappear Guilt and Shame.

Get yourself free from dis-empowering language.

Choose the language that will provide you with the experience of being alive.

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