12/23/2025
We have spoken with many women after they had medical abortions, and one of the things we hear most often is, “It was nothing like what I expected.” While there are many sites that mention the abortion pill, as with any medical procedure, you may need additional details. If you are ordering the abortion pill online or through telehealth, you might get very little time to ask important questions or be given clear expectations. If you have questions about your options, you can call Mend at 918-745-6000.
Here are some things women experience after administering a medical abortion:
-Some women experience severe cramping for weeks afterward. If cramping and bleeding are excessive or last beyond 2 weeks, further medical attention may be required.
-You may have a positive pregnancy test up to five weeks after a successful abortion. HCG will remain in your system for some time. If you are uncertain if your medical abortion was successful, an ultrasound can determine the viability of your pregnancy.
-When passing the fetus, some women see identifiable body parts. Eight weeks after conception all of the organs and the arms and legs are present, though not fully developed yet. Because of this, some women see the developing baby after they expel it from their bodies. The sight may be very distressing for many women, especially when they have no one around to support them emotionally.
-Every individual is affected differently. While some women experience relief after having an abortion, many others suffer from depression, anxiety, poor body image, or a numbness and inability to bond with others. Just as it is important to have a follow up appointment with your doctor to make sure that your abortion has not resulted in infection or other health complications, it is also important to reach out to a professional or someone you trust to talk about your emotional and mental state regarding your abortion.
Call or text (918) 745-6000 to speak with one of our trained and licensed RNs.
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