Lynetta Clark LPC, Grief Counselor

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Lynetta Clark LPC, Grief Counselor

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Welcome! We all experience a natural response to these events & that is what grief is.

The main goal of my services is to offer specialized guidance to the community to help individuals understand & move through the process of grief. We all have events of loss throughout our lives....divorce, loss of finances, pets, loss of health, loss of loved ones through death. It's natural...we don't decide it...& it varies from person to person. It can range from sadness, depression, loneliness, fears, anxiety and anger. Mourning is the expression of all these feelings. The services that I offer can help you to understand healthy ways to express your grief & heal your life. Grief is a physical, mental, social & spiritual process of adapting to a major change. Today you are one step closer to finding a positive path towards healing. The best way to reach me is my contact number 918-734-5537. An alternative form of contact is by email at:

lclarklpc14@yahoo.com. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

04/04/2026

Life is fluid, forever moving, and we must learn to adapt to its ebb and flow. At times, when faced with grief or trauma, it’s easy to feel stuck and overwhelmed, as if the current is too strong to navigate.
However, remaining in that place indefinitely is not a feasible option. It’s okay to pause and allow yourself to process your emotions and absorb the impact of what you've endured.
Gradually, as time passes, you will begin to find your way forward. The universe has a way of bringing new opportunities into your life, showing you that joy and fulfillment are still possible.
As you move ahead, take a moment to look back and appreciate the distance you have traveled; memories can soften over time, allowing you to reflect on your journey with a sense of growth.
Embrace the movement of life, for it carries you toward healing and new beginnings ..

🖋️C.E. Coombes
🎨Karen Chatham

Serendipity Corner 🌊

03/23/2026

"If the mountain seems too big today
then climb a hill instead;
If morning brings you sadness
it’s okay to stay in bed.
If the day ahead feels heavy and your plans feel like a curse,
There’s no shame in rearranging,
don’t make yourself feel worse.
If a shower stings like needles
and a bath feels like you’ll drown;
If you haven’t washed your hair for days,
don’t throw away your crown!
A day is not a lifetime.
A rest is not defeat.
Don’t think of it as failure,
Just a quiet, kind retreat.
It’s okay to take a moment
From an anxious, fractured mind.
The world will not stop turning
While you get realigned!
The mountain will still be there
When you want to try again
You can climb it in your own time,
Just love yourself till then!"
Laura Ding-Edwards

Artist: G. S. Laron

Paired by Whispers from the Heart

11/03/2025

The Light Within Loss

If you dare to enter
the heart of your loss,
it will not destroy you,
it will illuminate you.

Grief is not the end of love
but its final, raw expression.
When you stop turning away
and let the pain
move through you,
something tender awakens.

The depth that holds your sorrow
also holds your light.
Healing is not escape,
it is surrender,
a soft unfolding
into compassion,
into transformation,
into grace,
into love.

~ 'The Light Within Loss' by Spirit of a Hippie

✍️ Mary Anne Byrne

~ Art 'The Embrace' by Lucy Campbell

08/12/2025

Grief Comes in Waves

The heart doesn’t heal in a straight path,
it moves in circles,
looping back through memories
we thought we’d already survived,
touching wounds
we believed had closed.

Some days, the ache crashes in
sharp as the first night;
other days, it ebbs,
a whisper in the background,
a shadow that moves when we do.

Over time, the jagged edges soften,
not because love has lessened,
but because it learns
a new shape inside us.

Grief weaves itself
into our days,
a quiet companion,
not an open wound.

It walks with us
into the morning light,
stands beside us
in moments of joy,
settles with us
in the stillness of night.

It does not leave; it changes,
from a force that breaks us
to a thread that binds us
to what we cherished,
to the person we are becoming
in its wake.

~ 'Grief Comes in Waves' by Spirit of a Hippie

✍️ Mary Anne Byrne

~ Art Unknown via Pinterest

07/31/2025

Growing Around Grief

Grief doesn’t simply pass with time; it reshapes you.
At first, it fills every corner of your life, leaving no space for anything else.
But slowly, you begin to grow around it.

Grief does not vanish, it remains, a part of you,
but your life expands to hold both the sorrow
and the possibility of joy again.

You are not who you were before the loss;
you are someone new,
carrying the weight of love in a different form.

Grief changes your heart, your priorities,
and the way you see the world,
not by erasing the pain,
but by teaching you how to live alongside it.

~ 'Growing Around Grief' by Spirit of a Hippie

✍️ Mary Anne Byrne

~ Art Unknown via Pinterest

07/28/2025

The Sacred Work of Grieving

Grief is not just an emotion,
it is a weight the body carries.
A fog that settles over the mind.
A quiet ache in the bones.

It is no wonder you feel tired.

In this season of sorrow, let yourself rest, deeply, unapologetically, and often.
This is not laziness.
This is the work of healing.

Nourish your body with what you can.
Even if it’s just a piece of bread, a cup of tea, or a few sips of water.
You are feeding a body that has been cracked open by loss.

Move gently.
Stretch your arms.
Step into sunlight if you can.
Breathe with intention.
The goal is not strength, but softness.
Not pushing through, but allowing yourself to be exactly as you are.

Let the tears come if they need to.
Let the silence linger if it comforts you.
Speak your loved one’s name.
Or hold it quietly in your heart.

You do not need to be ‘okay.’
You do not need to be ‘productive.’
You only need to be present with what is true for you now.

Grief is love, with nowhere to go.
Let that love cradle you, even in your exhaustion.

You are not alone in this.
You are not broken.
You are grieving.

And that is sacred work.

~ 'The Sacred Work of Grieving' by Spirit of a Hippie

✍️ Mary Anne Byrne

~ Art by Kiera Violet

06/23/2025

You do not get a say in whether you change. Loss demands it. When someone you love dies, the world you knew is gone, and the version of you that existed in that world is gone with it. With them. You are left standing in the wreckage of your old life, trying to understand how to move. Not even move forward, just to move.
This is what grief does. It forces change, even when you are not ready. You have to figure out who you are now. Certainly not because you want to, but because you cannot go back. And that’s one of the hardest parts.
You might not know who you are anymore. Things that once brought joy might feel meaningless. Conversations feel harder. You may pull back from people, or feel like no one understands you. That’s ok. This part of grief is disorienting. You are not doing it wrong. This is what it feels like when you are in between the life you had and the life you did not choose, but now have to live.
If you are here, I want to say gently... please, be patient with yourself. You do not have to have it all figured out right now. But yes, over time, you will begin to find pieces of yourself again. Maybe new ones. Maybe old ones in a different shape. The person you become will carry the loss with them, always. But they will also carry love, memory, and strength they did not know they had. You are still here. That matters. And you are allowed to take your time finding your way forward.

05/13/2025

In the stillness of nature, we remember what it means to simply be—free from the weight of the world, grounded in the present, and held by the earth. Liberated from the stresses of tomorrow, we are reminded of our oneness with the universe. Each flower, a blooming soul. Each constellation, a tapestry of destiny.

Let go of what was, and what will be. Your soul already knows what to do - be still and silent. Welcome your spirit home, and embrace the wonder and endurance of the natural world. We are all interconnected, in a world full of contrasts and layers. Our loved ones fly with us through love's reflection, nature's sister realm.

Nature is full of miracles, wisdom and strength. It is the source of all things. Adopt nature's pace. Live quietly in search of nature's next wondrous miracle. Surrender, trust, and let nature's simplicity guide you home to your soul.

Writer: Grieving Healing

Artist: Art by Verena Wild

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04/09/2025

Love eternal... 🤍

04/08/2025

Sometimes, when everything gets too overwhelming, I just shut myself off.

I ignore the calls, let the messages sit unread, and retreat to a place where I can just be alone. It’s not about running away from anyone – it’s about giving myself space to breathe. There’s a strange comfort in stepping back from the world, letting myself sit in the quiet, and just feeling whatever I need to feel without explaining it to anyone.

I think we all have days like that – when even the smallest noise feels like too much. So I let myself turn it all down. I take time to sort through my own thoughts, to just sit with what’s weighing on me.

It’s not easy, but sometimes, facing it alone brings a kind of calm that nothing else can. And slowly, piece by piece, I find my way back to myself, a little stronger, a little clearer.

~ Lj Blossoms, Writer’s Blossoms Writer’s Blossoms

~ Art by Kelly Rae Roberts

04/06/2025

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