08/16/2023
It has become so common to scroll on social media and for everyone (therapists and non-therapists alike) to be promoting the need to heal. I get it, because I am an active participant in promoting healing. I do believe it is important for us to live a life where we tend to the parts of us that need healing as soon as possible.
However, after having attended a few retreats this year, three to be exact, I have realized how becoming overly focused on healing and forgetting to make room for integration can sometimes keep us feeling stuck and block our ability to recognize the ways in which we’ve already healed. Causing us to miss out on living a life where we get to enjoy the gifts we’ve received throughout our healing journey. A life where we step into the power of finally owning that version of ourselves we’ve worked so hard to create, that healed part, that integrated part. That part of us that is able to recognize that we have the power to change how trauma, loss, hurt that we’ve experienced will play a role in the story of our life moving forward. That part of us that is able to recognize that when it connects on all levels, the mental, the physical and the spiritual, it has the power and clarity to transmute pain into wisdom, darkness into light… it has the power to integrate our existence and ensure we are in alignment with living our purpose.
This is your reminder to slow down and integrate what you have healed. To be aware that if you’re in therapy, always having to talk about your pain is not a requirement. You are allowed to ask your therapist to hold space for and celebrate your healing with you. For those of you who are not currently in therapy or have never been, know that every day you make a choice to do what you do and heal, hurt or integrate yourself, so choose wisely and intentionally.
From my heart to yours,
Maritza