02/14/2026
The Roots of Valentine’s Day ❤️🌹
Long before greeting cards and candy hearts, mid February was a sacred turning point.
In ancient Rome, this time of year marked fertility festivals and the slow return of warmth to the earth. Later, the story of Saint Valentine emerged a man said to have secretly performed marriages in defiance of an emperor. Love as devotion. Love as rebellion. Love as sacred vow.
By the Middle Ages, poets were writing about birds choosing their mates on St. Valentine’s Day. Courtly love, handwritten notes, quiet longing.
Like most traditions, Valentine’s Day is layered. Pagan roots. Christian martyr. Medieval romance. And yes modern commercialization.
But underneath all of it is something older than cards and roses… The honoring of love.
Romantic love.
Devotional love.
Friendship.
Family.
Self love.
The love that keeps us choosing each other again and again.
For me, this day isn’t about perfection or pressure. It’s about intention. Lighting a candle. Writing a note. Speaking something tender out loud. Calling love back into the center.
Because love in all its forms is still sacred.