11/12/2025
As an immigrant to the USA I often reflect on my sense of belonging. Maya Angelou said "I long, as does every human being, to be at home wherever I find myself." Where, how or with whom to you feel that you belong? What does belonging feel like in your body and mind? Is it a sense of ease, confidence, connection? What does it mean for you emotionally, physically, and/or spiritually to have a strong sense of ‘belonging to your life’? (see this week’s poem)
Perhaps one of the most important things about being a human being is feeling like you belong. The Director of the ‘Othering & Belonging Institute’, john a. powell says, “The only viable solution to the problem of othering is one involving inclusion and belongingness. The most important good we distribute to each other in society is membership.” Can we also offer ourselves a deep sense of membership?
For the poet David Whyte ‘there is no house like the house of belonging’. His poem evokes the poignancy of this maybe being the joyful day we could meet our love, as well as the day that someone close might die. I see this as an invitation to be present and to treasure what’s here. This enables to land right here in this ‘bright home’, both as this house and this world, but also as landing right here in this life of mine, and fully inhabiting this body.
How do we find that 'easy rhythm to breathe ourselves to sleep', what prayers might be said to ‘the otherness of the night’? Yoga and meditation practices offer us a kind of ‘descent’ into the world of the body and a living awareness in the heart that seems to me to be connected with the radical acceptance required for letting myself land in ‘the temple of my adult aloneness’ and for sensing that I truly ‘belong to my life’.
May our yoga and meditation practices allow us to each pause, breathe, and to settle into our own sense of belonging. I hope that you can join us for this week's virtual live-stream yoga classes on Zoom,Tuesday 4:30pm pst and Wednesday 9:30am pst. Let me know if you wish to receive my weekly email with more inspiring quotes and yoga class details (links and passwords are also in my IG bio)