01/02/2026
January 2nd is a strange day.
The resolutions aren’t real yet.
The inbox is quiet.
The noise hasn’t come back.
It’s one of the few days all year where we’re not reacting, we’re reflecting.
This past year, building I Made the Arrangements put me in countless conversations about something we rarely name out loud, the burden we leave behind when we don’t leave clarity.
Not money.
Not assets.
But unanswered questions.
Families don’t struggle after loss because they weren’t strong enough. They struggle because they’re forced to decide things they never should have had to guess at, while grieving.
What I’ve learned is this,
thinking about the end doesn’t shrink life, it sharpens it.
It changes how we show up.
How we talk to our kids.
How we tell our stories.
How we say goodbye, long before we have to.
As 2026 approaches, my hope isn’t that people plan more.
It’s that they talk more.
That they say the things that matter.
That they leave clarity instead of silence.
Some days are loud.
January 2nd isn’t one of them.
It’s a good day to think.
I Made the Arrangements