Monica Houttuin LCSW / Relationship Counseling Services

11/20/2025

Healing from infidelity isn’t quick or easy, but it is possible. 💔➡️💗 With patience, courage, and guided support, couples can repair trust and rebuild a stronger foundation.

11/19/2025

Sometimes it’s not that the love is gone — it’s that life got loud.
Between work, kids, and stress, even the best relationships can start to feel like a partnership in logistics instead of love.
Here’s the part no one tells you: it’s not your fault. You’re not broken. You just haven’t been taught how to reconnect in the middle of the chaos.
In my latest blog, I talk about why so many couples end up in the “roommate zone” — and what it actually takes to get the spark back.
❤️ Read the full post → https://crcmo.com/struggling-to-stay-in-love/

11/15/2025

Rebuilding intimacy after disconnection is possible—it starts with slowing down, listening deeply, and choosing closeness, even when it feels scary. 🌹

11/12/2025

You don’t have to settle for being “roommates with a shared calendar.”
You can get the spark back — even if it feels like it’s been gone for years.
Real love isn’t about constant effort; it’s about learning what actually works to rebuild closeness, trust, and desire.
In my latest blog, I’m breaking down why it’s not your fault things feel hard — and how to start turning things around today.
✨ Read the full blog → https://crcmo.com/struggling-to-stay-in-love/

11/08/2025

Think of intimacy like a muscle—if you don’t use it, it weakens. But with attention, curiosity, and a little playfulness, it grows strong again. 💪❤️

11/06/2025

"Do we stay or do we go?” After an affair, that question weighs heavy. Therapy gives you space to breathe, sort through the pain, and decide with clarity—not panic. You deserve that space. Let's talk.

11/05/2025

Here’s a secret: your partner can’t read your mind. 🧠➡️❤️ Clear, kind words go a lot further than hints or sighs. Want to feel closer? Say what you really need.
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11/01/2025

10/30/2025

💬 What does it really mean to “be there” for your partner?

It’s not just about talking more — it’s about listening differently.
When your partner feels truly seen, heard, and valued, that’s where connection deepens and intimacy grows.

In my latest blog, I’m sharing simple, powerful ways to rebuild emotional closeness — from validating feelings to listening with real curiosity (even when it’s hard).

Because sometimes, being a better listener isn’t about having the right words… it’s about showing up with care. 💛

✨ Read the full post → https://crcmo.com/couples-communication-be-there-listening/

10/25/2025

💞 Intimacy isn’t just about physical touch — it’s about feeling seen, safe, and connected.

It’s the little things that build closeness: the lingering glance, the shared joke, the “you okay?” text in the middle of a busy day. When those moments fade, it’s easy to feel distant — even when you’re right beside each other.

If it feels like you’ve lost that spark, it doesn’t mean it’s gone for good. Intimacy can be rebuilt — one honest, caring moment at a time.

✨ You deserve a relationship that feels close again.

10/22/2025

Real connection isn’t about talking more—it’s about listening with care. Validation, mirroring, empathy, and curiosity can transform how you communicate and help you feel truly understood. ❤️

If you’ve been stuck in the “we just don’t connect anymore” cycle, this blog is for you:
👉 https://crcmo.com/couples-communication-be-there-listening/

Every time you listen deeply, you’re building a bridge back to closeness. 🌉

10/15/2025

An affair can feel like the end—but for some couples, it’s actually the beginning of real honesty, repair, and deeper intimacy. With the right support, you don’t just survive…you can grow. 🌱
schedule a free call: https://calendly.com/monicahouttuin/cbcmeeting?month=2024-12