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YOU WERE NEVER MEANT TO DISAPPEAR INSIDE MOTHERHOOD 🌺 Somewhere along the way, many of us were taught that being a “good...
04/18/2026

YOU WERE NEVER MEANT TO DISAPPEAR INSIDE MOTHERHOOD 🌺

Somewhere along the way, many of us were taught that being a “good” parent means putting ourselves last… always.
But that version of parenting? It’s not sustainable—and it’s not actually what our kids need.

Your child needs to feel safe, loved, and cared for.
But they don’t need you to abandon yourself to make that happen.

There’s a difference between meeting your child’s needs and constantly sacrificing your own to accommodate their preferences.

When your needs matter too, a few powerful things happen:
✨ You show your child what healthy boundaries look like
✨ You model self-respect and emotional balance
✨ You create a home that doesn’t revolve around burnout

And the truth is—kids are far more capable than we give them credit for. They can adapt. They can tolerate discomfort. They can grow.

You don’t have to skip the workout.
You don’t have to shrink your world.
You don’t have to lose yourself.

You can both thrive.

Read more on this topic in my new book - comment TPSBOOK and I’ll send you the link to order 🙂

💬 What’s one small way you’re prioritizing yourself this weekend?

04/17/2026

To piggyback on yesterday’s post, there is a LOT of fear-based messaging out there when it comes to sleep training… and I want to gently bring some logic back into the conversation 🤍

Even in the most extreme versions of cry it out (which I don’t recommend), there is no evidence showing it causes attachment harm.

But somewhere along the way, that idea took off—and it’s often backed with “research says…” without actually looking at what the research really shows.

The closest thing we have? Studies from severely neglected children in Romanian orphanages—where babies experienced extreme abuse, deprivation, and trauma. Which absolutely is clearly traumatizing.

That is not the same as:
✨ A loved, secure baby
✨ With a responsive parent
✨ Who is supported, comforted, and connected with all day long
✨ Learning a new skill like sleep

Leaving your baby for a few minutes to fuss while you support them in learning something new is not abandonment. It’s not trauma. And it’s not comparable to neglect.

Those two things are simply not the same—and pretending they are? That’s not evidence-based… it’s fear-based.

You deserve to make parenting decisions from a place of confidence, not confusion 💛

04/16/2026

I hear this fear ALL the time.

“What if sleep training damages my baby?”
“What if they stop trusting me?”
“What if they feel abandoned?”

These are heavy, scary thoughts—and if you’ve had them, you’re not alone.

But here’s the truth:

Attachment isn’t built (or broken) in a night or two. It’s built over thousands of loving, responsive interactions—feeding them, holding them, playing with them, comforting them, showing up for them again and again.

Giving your baby the space to learn a new skill, while you continue to check in and support them, does NOT undo that bond.

And the research backs this up—over and over again.

You are not harming your baby by helping them sleep.

You’re supporting their development, your well-being, and your entire family 🤍

If you’ve been holding back because of fear, this is your reminder: you can make thoughtful, informed choices that feel right for your family.

Commnt TPSBOOK to learn more about debunking this topic and come back tomorrow for part two ✨

04/15/2026

I love this direction so much 👏🏼

Because here’s the thing—AI in baby sleep right now?
It can be super vague.

More guesses.
More generic advice.
More “try this!” without actually looking at your baby.

And that’s exactly why so many parents end up spinning in circles.

What actually moves the needle is data-driven, evidence-based support—
looking at what’s happening with your baby, your rhythms, your patterns…
and using that to guide the next right step.

Not one-size-fits-all.
Not a list of random tips.

Just clarity 🤍

I’m really excited to see where this goes.

04/14/2026

Me: finally sits down after bedtime
Also me: checks the monitor 47 times like Justin Bieber at Coachella just trying to perform on vibes

Why are we like this 😅

If you feel like you can’t fully relax after your baby goes to sleep — you’re not alone 🤍
Your nervous system is still “on duty.”

But the goal isn’t to stay in that constant state of alert…
it’s to help you actually trust the sleep (and enjoy your evenings again).

You (and ) deserve to rest, too. 🌙 💜

04/13/2026

Attention athletes 🚨

If you’re super athletic, your baby’s sleep might come with some extra challenges.

Whether you played competitive sports, are a professional athlete, or just love pushing your limits with marathons or triathlons…this might sound familiar.

Your baby is a lot like you—they crave a high level of input. The difference? Their little bodies aren’t capable of getting it all out yet. That can make winding down for sleep a bit tougher.

Focus on giving them that input in ways they can handle:
✨ Lots of tummy time
✨ Deep squeezes
✨ Massage
✨ Practicing standing on your lap

The good news? This phase doesn’t last forever. As they grow and build skills, they’ll be able to meet those needs—and you’ll likely end up with an amazing sleeper.

Tag your athletic friends so they know they’re not crazy (and not doing anything wrong) if sleep feels hard right now 💛

Such a special night celebrating something that has lived in my heart for so long 🤍Standing there with my daughters by m...
04/11/2026

Such a special night celebrating something that has lived in my heart for so long 🤍

Standing there with my daughters by my side… it meant everything. They are a big part of my “why,” and having them witness this moment made it even more meaningful.

This book holds years of learning, growth, and so much love for the families I’ve had the privilege to support. Every late night, every challenge, every step—it was all worth it to serve more mamas and help bring more peace into their homes.

I’m so grateful for everyone who has been part of this journey. This is just the beginning ✨

04/10/2026

‘All that matters is a healthy baby’… I know people mean well. I really do. 🤍

But motherhood isn’t meant to erase you.

Your birth matters.
Your experience matters.
Your mental health, your sleep, your identity, your healing… all of it matters.

We don’t have to minimize moms to celebrate babies.

You’re allowed to want more than just “everyone survived.”
You’re allowed to feel disappointed, overwhelmed, grateful, exhausted—all at once.

Holding space for BOTH is where real support begins.

You matter too. Always.

Sleep training gets such a bad reputation—and honestly, I get why. There’s a lot of misinformation out there, and a lot ...
04/09/2026

Sleep training gets such a bad reputation—and honestly, I get why. There’s a lot of misinformation out there, and a lot of “one-size-fits-all” advice that just doesn’t sit right with most parents.

But here’s what I want you to know -
Sleep training, when done intentionally, is not harsh, rigid, or one-dimensional.

It’s thoughtful.
It’s well-researched.
And it’s meant to be tailored to YOUR baby.

There isn’t just one way to teach independent sleep—there are multiple approaches, and the “right” one depends on your baby’s temperament, your parenting style, and your goals.

Some babies need more support.
Some need less.
Most fall somewhere in the middle.

That’s why I don’t believe in forcing families into a single method—I believe in helping you find what actually works.

If you’ve been feeling unsure or overwhelmed about sleep training, you’re not alone. And you’re not doing it wrong—you just might not have been given the full picture yet.

If you want to go deeper into these methods and learn how to choose what’s best for your baby, I walk through all of this inside my book ✨

You can order your copy through the link in my bio or by commenting TPSBOOK below 🤍

04/08/2026

Okay but THIS 👏

And also… can we just acknowledge how hard this is?

When your baby isn’t sleeping, it’s not just “a phase” you can brush off. It’s exhaustion that sits in your bones. It’s the middle-of-the-night wake-ups, the second guessing, the googling, the wondering if you’re doing something wrong.

You’re not.

You’re a good parent in a really hard season. And your baby isn’t broken either 🤍

Sometimes it’s not about trying harder — it’s about having the right support and understanding what’s actually going on so you can respond with confidence instead of confusion.

You deserve rest, too.

If you’re feeling stuck and ready for things to feel lighter, I walk you through exactly how to get there step-by-step in my book.

✨ Grab your copy through the link in my bio or by commenting TPSBOOK below

04/07/2026

Sleep is never just about sleep 🤍

I loved going live with Alyssa from .and.sew to talk about something that doesn’t get enough attention: the connection between your child’s nervous system, your connection with them, and how that all shows up at bedtime.

If sleep has been feeling hard, it’s not because you’re doing something wrong. It’s often a sign that your child needs more support, more safety, and more co-regulation during the day and at night.

In this conversation, we unpacked:
✨ why “independent sleep” isn’t the only goal
✨ how connection actually supports better sleep
✨ what to do when your child seems wired, sensitive, or hard to settle
✨ and how to approach sleep in a way that feels good to you, too

You don’t have to choose between being responsive and getting rest. You can have both.

If you missed the live, go give it a watch—and let me know what part resonated most with you 💬

FOLLOW FOR MORE BABY SLEEP TIPS! 👩🏼‍🍼💛If your baby hit 3 months and sleep suddenly fell apart… you’re not imagining it.O...
04/06/2026

FOLLOW FOR MORE BABY SLEEP TIPS! 👩🏼‍🍼💛

If your baby hit 3 months and sleep suddenly fell apart… you’re not imagining it.

One week they’re sleeping decently, the next they’re up every hour, fighting naps, and needing way more support to fall asleep.

This is what we call the 3-month sleep regression—but it’s not actually a regression.

It’s a developmental shift.

Your baby is moving from newborn sleep into more mature sleep cycles, which means they’re waking more fully between cycles and needing help getting back to sleep.

And if they rely on certain conditions (being rocked, fed, held), they’ll need that every time they wake.

That’s why this phase can feel so exhausting.

The good news?
You don’t have to just wait it out.

With the right foundations—like appropriate wake windows, a consistent routine, and opportunities to practice falling asleep—you can help your baby move through this phase with less disruption.

You’re not doing anything wrong.
You just need the right tools 🤍

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