11/11/2025
When someone hurts us, the sting can feel like a tear in the fabric of our peace. It lands not just in our heart, but in our very spirit—a sudden, heavy reminder of our sensitivity. In that raw, open moment, the veil between the human and the soul feels thin, and a sacred choice is presented.
I’ve come to see these moments not as random wounds, but as profound soul assignments. We can, understandably, let the pain crystallize into a shield of resentment. Or, we can pause, breathe deeply into the ache, and turn inward to ask our highest Self: "Sacred lesson, what are you here to reveal?"
This is not spiritual bypassing; it is sacred alchemy. The hurt becomes the fire. Perhaps it’s burning away an old pattern of self-abandonment you agreed to release in this lifetime. Perhaps it’s illuminating a boundary that honors the holy temple of your being. Or maybe it’s awakening a forgotten memory of your own divine worth, a diamond of self-respect waiting to be reclaimed from the dust.
Choosing this path doesn’t mean the hurt didn’t matter. It means you are a conscious co-creator with the Universe, refusing to let a dense experience lower your vibration. Instead, you allow it to hollow you out—not to leave you empty, but to create a greater vessel for Grace, for inner light, and for a compassion that understands the shadows in others because you’ve met your own.
With time and mindful presence, the hurt is transmuted. It becomes a guru, a wise but stern teacher on your path. You begin to stand in the unshakable truth of your soul, not just your personality. You move through the world with more presence, anchored in the awareness that you are a spiritual being having a human experience. You love from a source that is infinite and unconditional, not from a well that can run dry.
And you come to a breathtaking realization: the experience didn’t dim your light. It polished it. It didn’t take a thing from your eternal essence—it initiated you into a deeper understanding of the love, strength, and wisdom you carry within.
If this journey of sacred alchemy calls to your spirit, and you feel the soul-deep yearning for a tribe to witness and support your awakening, you are not alone. I am gathering a circle of beautiful souls to begin meeting in the new year. This will be a sanctuary for the heart and spirit, a space to explore these truths and remember who we truly are. All paths are honored here. If your soul is nodding, please reach out. Follow the whisper.
I can’t wait to connect and walk this path of remembrance with you.
With Love,
Susie