01/20/2026
Getting closer to your due date, over it, everyone is sending you the “is baby here yet?” texts, your provider is pushing a membrane sweep, induction, cervical checks..you get a cervical check just to find out you’re not dilated at all and ream of disappointment or are 3 cm and get excited… just to find out a week later you’re still a 3 cm with no signs of labor? Sound familiar?
We understand how frustrating those last weeks of pregnancy can be. You’re uncomfortable an everyone is making you feel pressured that your baby should be here by now just because they gave you a “guessed” date of arrival.. well…
1. Everyone’s cycles are different. different lengths and different days of ovulation. your due date goes by the first day of your last period.. but that’s including the you have a 28 day cycle and ovulate on day 14. Did you know only 5% of women give birth ON their due date?
2. When your babies lungs are fully developed, it sends a signal to your body to start labor called the “fetal to maternal signal.” This signal is made of pulmonary surfactant, which acts as hormones to trigger an inflammatory response in a mother’s uterus, signaling that the lungs are mature enough for air breathing and initiating labor. This process involves fetal lung macrophages migrating to the uterus, activating pathways that lead to uterine contractions, essentially telling the body, “I’m ready to be born.”
3. 60-70% of women deliver within 10 days of their due date. 10% by 38 weeks 5 days, 25% by 39 weeks 5 days, 50% by 40 weeks 5 days, 75% by 41 weeks 5 days and this is ONLY if they ovulated on day 14 of their cycle. Only 5% of women actually go past 42 weeks.
First time moms and women who had embryos take longer to implant were more likely to have longer pregnancies/go past their due date.
Things you can do to prevent some of the frustration.. go for a walk, keep yourself busy, go into pregnancy planning to go past your due date and be pleasantly surprised if you don’t, and tell people a birth “month” instead of the exact date.
comment below what day you went into labor! ⤵️