02/05/2026
Brenda Carol Ward Farabaugh
VALPARAISO, IN - Brenda Carol Ward Farabaugh, 74, of Valparaiso, Indiana, passed away at 12:30 a.m. on February 3rd in Crown Point, Indiana.
Brenda grew up in Merrillville and Schererville, Indiana. She graduated from Lake Central High School in 1969. Shortly after high school, she spent a year living in Phoenix, Arizona-an experience she always spoke of fondly and carried with her as a cherished chapter of independence and discovery.
In 1974, Brenda began dating Robin Farabaugh. Two weeks later, they were married on New Year's Eve, beginning a partnership that would span more than 50 years and anchor her life. Together they built a family that became Brenda's greatest source of joy and purpose.
Brenda began her professional life at Bethlehem Steel, working in a secretarial role before stepping away to raise her children. When she returned to the workforce, she briefly worked in the Twin Towers in Merrillville before settling into a bookkeeping position with the Lake County Prosecutor's Office. She spent decades there, known for her reliability and dedication, and retired at the start of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Outside of work, Brenda was a lifelong quilter and crocheter. Her hands were rarely still, and many of her creations became lasting gifts-quiet expressions of love that wrapped family and friends in warmth long after they were made.
Brenda loved the holidays, especially having her son's home with her. Christmas was a particular joy. She was known for her baking, especially her pecan cups and the many cookies she made each year-traditions that filled her home with warmth and will continue to live on in memory.
Above all else, Brenda loved her family. Her sons were the center of her world, and her love extended far beyond them. She cherished her many nieces and nephews, loving them as if they were her own children, and took pride in staying connected to the people she held dear.
Brenda is survived by her husband, Robin Farabaugh, 76, of Valparaiso, Indiana; her sons, Patrick Farabaugh, 48, of Madison, Wisconsin, and his husband, Sedrick Huppert; and Nicholas Farabaugh, 45, of Brownsburg, Indiana, and his wife, Jen Barr Farabaugh. She is also survived by her brothers, Lester (Sonny) Ward Jr., 71, of Keizer, Oregon, and Rick Ward, 61, of Valparaiso, Indiana, and his wife, Kerry Ward; her sister, Sheila Selmon, 57, of Schererville, Indiana; as well as many beloved nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her father, Lester James Ward Sr. (1932–2001), and her mother, Leatha Fern Jones Ward (1934–2008).
Arrangements made by D***s Funeral Home Inc., (219) 462-3125.