12/04/2025
“How do you handle change?”
It’s funny… because the very nature of life is change. It is the only real constant, and yet somehow we can be so resistant to it. So afraid of what it means, what it will bring, what it might stir up inside of us.
They say pain is the touchstone of growth… and growth is something I deeply want… something I actively work toward. But in order to grow, we must also change. So when I’m caught in resistance… or fear… or clinging to what’s familiar even when it no longer fits… there’s a natural conflict that arises. And that tension can leave me feeling stuck, lost, and overwhelmed.
The solution?
Willingness.
Pausing.
Turning it over.
Remembering that we are not the ones making the change happen.
God and the Universe are always working for us and through us.
Change is truly inevitable… it’s simply a matter of getting out of the way, accepting, and allowing.
When we can accept what is, we find peace.
When we can trust the shifts taking place, we loosen our grip and create space for the new to arrive.
So in times of change, especially if you’re feeling fear or resistance, it’s not about what you need to “do.”
It’s about asking:
Who do I need to BE?
How do I want to meet this moment?
And the answer is almost always: relax and be willing.
And even if you’re not willing yet, you can pray for the willingness to be willing.
When we take our pain and allow it to alchemize into growth… when we soften into the changes that naturally follow… everything becomes more beautiful. We begin to see that change isn’t something to fear. It’s the very fuel of life✨
If this is where you are, or what your heart is whispering toward…
I would love to invite you into my Gemini Full Moon Ceremony + Sound Bath tomorrow night… the very last full moon of the year. A potent portal for healing, growth, and embracing change.
This is a TCVC members-only gathering, it is a sacred space to say yes to growth, alignment, grace, and inner peace.
If you feel called, send me a DM to join us in TCVC, and you’ll gain access to this beautiful circle 🤍 I am sending you so much love.
