10/05/2025
When the Plan Burns Down (Acceptance & Pivot)
This hits around mile 20. Your stomach turns, your perfect pacing plan is garbage, and your feet are screaming. Everything you thought was going to happen is wrong. The initial goal is lost.
I stop fighting reality. I tell myself, “That race is over. A new, uglier race has just begun.” I don’t lament the lost time; I just find the next aid station, take 10 minutes, and set one new, tiny, achievable goal.
This is radical acceptance. In life, just as in an ultra, we waste too much energy mourning the loss of the perfect career, relationship, or day. The real work starts when you accept the current, messy reality and pivot your focus from a five-year plan to “just making it through the next hour.” Push on. 😤